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Butt Plugs for Beginners

Anal Play and Butt Plugs for Beginners

  Anal Play and Butt Plugs for Beginners!

Thinking about introducing some anal play into your sexual repertoire?  Well, it’s about time! (Just kidding…you know I would never advocate doing anything you weren’t totally comfortable with).  Anal play can be heavenly pleasure, but it’s important to start out slowly. Beginning your exploration with something too big could end up being painful instead of arousing and fun. 

 

 

For anyone considering anal sex for the first time, I highly recommend working your way up to it with fingers or smaller butt plugs, usually made from silicone or latex rubber. Plugs are also commonly made of glass and steel, but for beginners I recommend the earlier mentioned materials. Starting with small, slippery plugs will help to get your ass relaxed and open, allowing for you to gradually work your way up to larger sizes. All that practice and arousal will minimize anal sex beginner’s discomfort. Yes, it is true, many beginners will feel some discomfort initially, but in the long run, it’s worth it. Anal play is stimulating in different ways than genital arousal—what, with all those nerve endings clustered in and around the anus. Who would want to miss out on experiencing all that extra pleasure? Certainly not me. Also, if you’re already a member of the anal club, but you’re looking to expand your horizons with some anal toys, plugs will be an amazing addition to your sex life. Afterward, you’ll be wondering why you waited so long!

 

 

Let’s start with absolute beginnings to anal play. I know why you’re interested—because you’ve heard around that it feels good. Lots of men can reach orgasm just from pressure on the prostate, and a woman’s g-spot can be stimulated indirectly during anal arousal. Butt plugs will help to maximize the pleasure of anal play for everyone. They come in a variety of shapes and sizes that are bound to suit anyone’s needs. Like I said before, start small, then work your way up to larger sizes. The 304N Mini Slim Jelly Butt Plug is perfect for beginners because of its comfortable size of 4” in length and 1” diameter. This will help any newcomer begin to feel the glorious sensual pleasures of anal stimulation. Another great option for beginners are the 1376E Black Ass Stuffers . These come is 3 different sizes, the smallest of which is 3 3/4” long and 7/8” diameter, while the largest is huge— 5” long and 2 1/4” diameter. Of course, start with the smallest, then the middle size, and when you’re good and ready, go all the way! I remember my early use of butt plugs, and I can’t stress enough how exhilarating it will be to move up along the size ladder. I’m excited for you. *g*

As I mentioned before, anal plugs are also great for people who already are enjoying the pleasures of anal sex. For those who like the feeling of something just being in their ass without necessarily moving in and out, then butt plugs will be sensational. Many plugs, especially the smooth variety, like the 9338P Icicles Mind Blow-Her Hand Blown Glass Massager, are meant to go in and stay put. You can slide a well-lubed plug into your ass and free your partner (or yourself) for other kinds of stimulation—vaginal sex, blow jobs, you name it. And one benefit of using a glass plug is that it can be heated up or cooled down easily for varying sensations. Both hot and cold drive me even crazier! *sigh* I think I need a little break after all this thinking about anal play…

 

 

Alright, now, back to business! There are many other types of plugs as well. The 9686SM Stainless Steel Graduated Anal Plug is much different than a smooth jelly type because of its firmness (allowing for more pressure to hit places like the prostate), as well as its design. This has balls (beads) that increase in size (and intensify sensation) as it works its way to the bottom. If you’ve never used steel before, this is for you, because you only have to go as far as you’re comfortable with, working your way up to the larger beads on the plug when you’re ready. Once you’ve had some fun with all the non-vibrating plugs, vibrating plugs will bring things to a whole other level. Want one that swirls, vibrates, and gyrates , all while you’re experiencing an intense blow job or having steamy, passionate sex with your lover? Something like the 9341E Rotating Beads Magic Butt Plug will be perfect (believe me, I’ve tried it…many times *g*). And there’s more where that came from. Take a look here for a variety of vibrating options, either for solo play or extra fun with your partner.

 

 

Wait! Before you run off too quickly (I know you want to...), don’t forget to use lubricant. Always, always use lube with sex toys, especially anal toys. There’s no reason to risk unpleasantness when there are so many wonderful lube options available right here in the lube section! Some are even designed specifically for anal play!

 

 

One more reminder: for couples beginning to experiment with anal play, communication is a must! The ass is a sensitive area, with all those nerves and tight muscles, so just take it slow and let your partner know how you’re feeling. In no time, you’ll be reaching levels of pleasure you never thought possible.

 

 

Once you’ve gotten started, check out the bookstore for some more hot tips on anal play.