How To Build an Erotic Pain Tolerance

Pain is much more than meets the skin.  There is a psychology behind pain that causes our bodies to have different reactions to it. As many people know (myself definitely included *g*) there is a kind of erotic pain that has such positive, stimulating results that all we can think about is more, more, more! That is because when talking about the pain that *hurts so good* what’s happening in our bodies is a huge endorphin rush to the bloodstream. And during a good bondage sexy play session, it isn’t just the one on the receiving end that is experiencing that rush! Dom/mes will feel it too, which is why the experience between Dom/mes and bondage slaves often forges not only a physical connection but a mental connection as well.

While this is all true, it’s not like a beginner submissive slave will go into a bondage session with the ability to take the whip or the spanking cane like someone more experienced in the harder bondage sessions. In order to prepare both body and mind for the extent of erotic pain you’d like to receive—so in the heat of the moment of an intense bondage play session, you won’t necessarily have to pull out the Safeword—you’ll want to undergo a gradual building up of pain tolerance. I say gradual because it can be dangerous to your body to try to move too far too fast. Plus, it’s something that Dom/me and sub can do together, so my guess is that it will probably be a fun process! *wink*

Regardless of whether or not you consider yourself a person who loves that wonderful, tortuous and erotic  pain, dreaming in all your waking hours of just how that 2885P Fetish Fantasy Slap Happy Baton will feel when it slaps against your skin spreading waves of heat through your body, that doesn’t mean the pain will be actually be so easy to take at first. (Although maybe it will be—I’ve had my way with all types of slaves! *g*) Either way, pain tolerance building of some degree will likely be necessary, and there are lots of strategies of going about it.