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How To Train A Sissy Slave
How to Train a Sissy Slave FAQ Guide
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How to Train
a Sissy
Slave Guide
For all you Dommes out there who
fear their male submissives aren’t interested in sissy training, I have
great news for you. There are lots of male slaves that are not only curious about
becoming a sissy for a BDSM session, but it’s one of their most erotic
fantasies. Especially where an element of “force” may come into play, men
love the idea of their Domme taking full advantage of her position of
power over him, which is a huge turn-on. Maybe they haven’t mentioned it
to you for the same reasons you never mentioned it, because, in
approaching the subject, neither of you are sure just where to start. Of
course, there are those male subs that seem disinterested or outright
opposed to the idea of sissification. Even in this situation, there are
ways to ease him into your little sissy bondage slut. And once he realizes
the climactic potential, he’ll never turn back. *g*
In the beginning stages of sissy
play, I’ve found that encouragement and positive reinforcement work
wonders for training a male sub of any variety, from the curious to those
who took awhile to be talked into giving it a try in the first place. A
great method of encouragement is to pick out the clothing and bondage
accessories together. By showing him your particular sexual interest in
certain types of outfits, you’ll likely be flipping the erotic switch in
his mind without him even realizing it, as a woman’s level of arousal
often directly correlates to a man’s. Starting with slinkier, softer
outfits without accessorizing just yet tends to be best for early trainees
in easing their way into the feminine role. The 4286L Deep
V Lace Mini Dress& G-String is one of my personal favorites, and will definitely
set the right mood for any session involving sissy play, for both early
and experiences couples.
Once he becomes more comfortable
in his new, sexy and feminine outfit, take some time to pick out
accessories together. Wigs are a good place to start, and because there
are plenty to choose from, it can be fun to each pick out one that you’d
prefer, and that will provide for a few different sessions still in the
early mode. A little crimp and curl in the hair is always a nice feminine
touch—which is why I like the 7114W Yaya
Wig. In my Wigs
Section, the options are numerous. Other accessories like stockings, footwear, jewelry, and make-up work to create a more authentic
feel, and chances are, he’ll really enjoy the process of being primped in
a way he could never have known without the introduction of sissy play
into his repertoire. *g*
All that touching and
closeness will also work to get him sexually aroused, even if he’s still
having some doubts. This is
where the positive reinforcement really comes into play in sissy training.
If your male sub begins to associate these activities with arousal and
pleasure (which is exactly where
you’re headed! *g*) then any reservations he would have about engaging
in feminization will dissipate over time. Of course,
this is assuming he hasn’t been won over already! *wink*
Positive reinforcement of
on a higher physical level would of course include generous rewarding both
during and after the session.
After the session, you might try giving him a long, super-erotic
blow-job for excellent participation. Rewards during the session may be
the most important. Get him deeply associating his feminized self with
tantalizing pleasure. In my experience, my males subs can’t get enough of
the well-lubed 8352P Vibrating
Silicone Prostate Stimulator, and so
after he’s performed some feminine activities, maybe putting on his own
make-up, or even exceptional work putting some make-up on his Domme—now
that’s a sexy sissy bondage slave! *g*—he can get a little of that
prostate action. Of course, it all depends on what your sub likes, choose
whatever rewards will be most satisfying to him, and pretty soon he’ll be begging his
Master for more sissy sessions.
Further along in the sissy
bondage training, using stricter methods can build erotic tension and push
yourselves to even more arousal and pleasure. Pick out sexy lingerie and
bondage gear just for him on your own and make him put them on himself
before he dares to present himself to you! Try including some strictly business heels—perhaps
the 1593P Passion
Princess Open Toe Heels will be a constant reminder of who’s boss! If
he’s on his best sissy slave behavior, give him that intense orgasm he
deserves—of course, only if he screams in his submissive, feminine
voice! *g*
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