Playing With Yourself

    

There’s nothing like a lover’s arms wrapping around you after a sweaty, steamy romp between the sheets. Sometimes, however, we all go through times where you have to take matters into your own hands – so to speak. Masturbation is a heated word in some social circles, and is ignored in others, but the fact remains: it’s the safest form of sex out there. Whether you choke your chicken or double click your mouse, bringing some toys into your private time can make your experience more pleasurable than you ever could have imagined possible.

 
Hear The Buzz
Every person who likes orgasms – male, female, and everyone in between – should have a trusty Vibrator or two in their toy box. Ranging in size from a discrete buzzer no bigger than a tube of lipstick to a massive plugged-in wand with a tennis ball sized vibrator, vibrating toys are certain to shake up your day in the best way possible. These can be shaped like smooth, thin cylinders or be highly realistic models of penises. In addition, you can find vibrators with clit and anal pleasers attached to double your pleasure.

Go Deeper
Sometimes you might have some certain hard to reach spots that need a bit more attention than a vibrator can provide, or perhaps you want to use a vibrator in tandem with another toy. This is when you want to bring a Dildo into play. From hyper-realistic to incredibly beautiful abstract pieces, dildos are found in every shape and size imaginable, in materials from sleek cyberskins to hand blown glass.

Double Your Trouble
Some vibrators and dildos come with a second, smaller shaft. These are clit and anal pleasers, and allow you to fill yourself and still find that special outside spot. However, if your toy doesn’t come with any extra angles for you to explore, you can always double up. Using a set of vibrators or dildos, or one of each, can get you the sensation you’re looking for in your play time.

A Close Second
If you need the sensation of plunging deep into someone, but your favorite partner is nowhere to be found, you might want to invest in a Masturbator. These are highly sensory tunnels that feel almost as good as the real thing. Paired with your favorite lube or lotion, your playtime will be better than it has been forever.

Get Wet And Wild
One of the best ways to make sure your play time is perfect is making sure you’re getting enough moisture to be comfortable. Using a special Lubricant is one way to get the sensation you seek. Lubes come in different formulas, from those which warm on contact with skin to flavored ones for fun with others. In addition, there are some lubes that are specially formulated for use with specific materials. Using a lube is a much safer option than using things like baby oil or regular lotion – and some of these can actually damage your toy!

 
Dancing With Yourself
If you want to take your personal playtime to the next level, you can look into different ways of Tying Yourself Up. Self-bondage is a sexy way of treating yourself to your favorite flings. Whether you’re binding your legs apart until you scream or pinning yourself down with ropes, be sure you have a backup plan in case you need a quick escape.

 
Keep It Clean
No matter what toys fill your toy box, it is incredibly important that you clean them after every use. You can use a gentle soap and warm water, or invest in special antimicrobial Toy Cleaners that are formulated specifically to clean sex toys. It is important to keep your toys clean because of the microbes that are found in the vagina and anus. If allowed to sit and breed – or transfer between each other – you can run the chance of getting a really horrible infection.

 
Playing with yourself is the fastest, easiest way to get off when there’s no one else around. Don’t be afraid to experiment with different toys, lubes, and lotions until you find the one – or two, or three – that will work to give you that screaming, shaking orgasm you always wanted.