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Strap On Play for Masters and Slaves - A Girl's Guide to Banging

Strap-on play is a sexy way for girls to switch things up in the bedroom—meaning lots more power, with the ability to thrust and bang your lover (male or female) until you’re both out of breath from all that hot action! *g* But before you begin, there are lots of things to consider, like choosing the right dildo and harness, technique, as well as the different stimulating strap-on activities to satisfy your every desire. In my experience, strap on sex is not only a sensational physical fuck, but a super erotic mental fuck. Masters and slaves far and wide who are just getting into the world of strap-on sessions: get ready for a wild ride…or two…or two hundred. *wink*

Let’s start with dildo and harness options, since without those key components; we’re not getting anywhere closer to the play. *giggles* When picking out a dildo for strap-on purposes, make sure it has a flared base. I have a whole section of Dildos with Bases for Harnesses, but plenty more have bases if you want to expand your search to include multifunctional dildos in the Unique and Realistically Shaped Dildos section. Another thing to consider when picking out a dildo is size (and yes, size does matter! *wink*). Think about how deep you want penetration—maybe even try out a few different ones of varying sizes—I’m sure you’ll find a use for each and every one of them! In the process of choosing a size, you’ll also want to think about materials: rubber, jelly, silicone, glass. Generally, a dildo you can strap on ideally won’t weigh a lot, so the sex will be easy and natural. With that in mind, I wouldn’t recommend glass for beginners. There are lots of rubber, jelly, and silicone dildos to choose from—if you’re looking for the most realistic experience, silicone has the ability to retain body heat, and that natural-feeling dildo is sometimes just the right sensation to really heat things up! AND—don’t forget about the possibilities of Vibrating Dildos! (Just remember to get one with a base).

Now on to the Harnesses. There are a few styles available, and really it’s all about what’s most comfortable for you—different strokes for different folks! *g* So, all dildos with flared bases will fit into harnesses that have the base position of the dildo over the pubic bone, that much is true. There are thong style harnesses which have a strap that goes between your legs, hot pants/panties-style harnesses, a jock strap style harness that wraps around your ass, as well as some with straps around the thighs. Some find that one variety feels more stable than another, but like I said, it’s really a personal decision that can only be made by the Master herself.

Beginners to strap-on sex often have no idea what to do once they get their harness on and are ready for action. After all, most females have only received a cock and never managed one themselves. Managing that cock is all part of the fun! *teehee* Remember to consider what feels best to you, and go from there. Take your time with your technique, and take advantage of all the various positions—fun, fun, fun! Thrusting might not be as simple as it seems, but once you get a rhythm going, it’s smooth sailing. And the more you do it, the better you’ll be. I bet it’s not an activity you’ll mind practicing, either! *wink*

When I think about strap-on play, one of the first things that comes to mind is all that power I feel when I strap that dildo onto me. If you’re into switching, like I am, adding strap-on play into the mix for sessions can add a lot of intensity and stimulation, both physically and mentally. When I am Master, no matter with a male or female lover, that strap-on sensation gives me such an exhilarating rush of power that I can more effectively get into my role of a scene. The reverse is true, too. As a slave, watching my female Master with her strap-on cock makes me really feel like she’s got all the power to wield over me as she pleases. I’ve found this sense of authenticity important when you and your lover switch roles.

And you know, strap-on sex isn’t all that’s available where strap-on’s are concerned! Sucking a strap-on can be a sexy and super-hot way for a Master to put her slave to work. *g*I have heard a lot of people say, what’s the point, it’s not like anyone gets off from sucking a strap-on cock. The truth is, those people are forgetting that visual stimulation can be just as strong as physical stimulation. Watching a slave suck your strap-on can be a HUGE turn-on (so slaves, don’t slack on putting on a show!). And then there is the power dynamic of oral sex, the slave pleasing Master this way can be a great way into other more involved session activities. Plus, a Master in a strap-on is not devoid of sensation—maybe what she feels is different than what a guy with a mouth on his real cock feels a lot of something, but the Master with the strap-on cock feels a lot of something too! Try pushing the base into Master’s vagina while you’re sucking, slave, and see what happens…*wink*

One last bit of info about strap-on play that should never be forgotten: don’t forget the lube! Whether you’re strap-on fucking is traditional or anal (and for this use double), lubrication is essential—not be mention that extra slipperiness always feels sooo hot!

And now after all that strap-on talk, it’s time for some strap-on action…*g*