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Strap-On
Bondage Product Frequently Asked Questions
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The Ins
& Outs of Strap On Sex
Strap-on Sex isn't
just for lesbians or breakfast anymore! Lots of couples
are not also exploring this new sexual adventure. With so
many different styles and sizes of strap ons out on the
market today, it's a wonderful time to add a strap-on (or
two!) to your bag of tricks for some extra treats.
As with any great outfit, accessories
can make or break it! The first step to having great strap
on sex is to find the right dildo for your strap on. You
will first want to decide how big of a dildo you want. Dildos
come in a variety of sizes, shapes and styles. Experiment
with how deep your partner likes penetration and consider
thickness (listed as the diameter of the dildo in my descriptions)
as your guide for what type of dildo you will want to use.
You can also shop together to choose the one (or ones) that
look good to you. Create a Wish
List of all the fun ones that look best to you both.
For best results, I recommend using several different dildo
styles and sizes. Smaller is typically best for starters.
You can always work your way up and graduating to a new
dildo is fun too. Have a little celebration and bring out
the new dong!
Some dildos curve
to help hit the G-spot during penetration. These are great
but they also tend to be harder to use in a strap on and
generally come in larger lengths and diameters which might
not be best for beginners or anal use. They are, however,
a great treat to work your way up to. Get yourself several
sizes for a great weekend (or week!). You will also want
to choose which material will work best in your strap-on
and feel best for the receiver. Some dildos are made of
silicone which retains body heat and is easy to clean completely
because it's completely non-porous, meaning there are no
tiny holes in the surface. You can even put silicone toys
in the dishwasher! Less expensive models are made of rubber
and jelly-like synthetics. If you are a first-timer, you
may want to start with a less expensive rubber model. I
would not recommend glass for your first dildo because it
is not flexible. But again, it's a great treat to work your
way up to it once you feel comfortable with your strap-on!
Glass is also great for cleaning and can be completely sterilized,
even in a dishwasher. Chill or warm your glass dildo for
a whole new experience.
Take time to play with your
new toy before putting it to good use. Put on your harness
with the dildo and get used to how it feels before getting
to the good stuff with your partner. Always remember to
play safe and use a condom
with your strap on, especially if you are switching who
gets to have the wear it. Have them help you in the harness
and make it part of the fun foreplay! The tighter the straps,
the easier your strap-on will be to use. You don't want
to have to stop in the middle to tighten your strap-on or
have it flop off entirely! For this reason, I recommend
going with a leather strap-on such my popular #1765B
Who's Your Bitch Harness but if you are just starting
out or short on funds, the less expensive versions like
my #306N
Pink Latex Slim Vibrating Slip-on Tool will also work
really well for you. Look for styles with two individual
straps that go under the butt to attach in the back. These
are more stable for more vigorous use and don't chafe like
the single strap-through-the-crotch styles. When using the
single strap through the crotch styles, I'd suggest wearing
panties to avoid chafing through those sensitive areas.
Styles range from
nylon straps that cinch or attach with plastic snap buckles
to latex and varying grades of leather. Naturally, the cheaper
ones aren't as good as the more expensive versions, but
you have to decide what you'll be using it for, how often
you'll use it and of course, personal style. I have some
great basic strap-on harnesses and strap-on sets, but you
may prefer a pretty pink set, blue latex, red leather, invisibly
clear, models with dildos on the inside or whatever. There
are even styles for a guy to use that fit over an erection
or help him thrust passionately again if he's got erectile
dysfuntion. I've got a lot of choices, so be sure to look
through them all. You'll probably find more than one that
you want, but that's what a Wish
List is for anyway!
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Sets like my #363N
Inflatable Double Strap-On Lover include a dildo
for the wearer and can inflate. Others are shaped
for G-spot stimulation and more! Remember, you
can always hold in a dildo with base with a through-the-crotch
strap-on style too! |
With all this new equipment
on you, don't forget the fun of foreplay! Make sure to keep
it hot and it will be a night you won't forget. Stroke your
strap on and for extra fun, you can even have them kiss
it. Cock worship isn't just for guys to get anymore! As
with any type of penetration, you want your lover aroused
and ready for it. You will definitely want to use a lubricant
even if he or she seems lubricated. Slippery and wet is
much more enjoyable for both of you. Go slow and easy in
the beginning and work your way up. In the missionary position,
angle your dildo upwards, not back towards the spine and
let your partner guide you in how fast and deep to go. Always
remember to clean your toys like my #3152P
Legend Sex Toy Cleaner or my #5130P
Playgirl Signature Toy Cleaner after use! An infection
isn't any fun so always use anti-bacterial cleanser to keep
all your toys clean and ready for years of hot sex!
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