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Switching For Beginners
Switching for Beginners
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Switching for
Beginners
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In BDSM, to be a switch means that you take
part in the activities sometimes as a sexually dominant and other
times as a sexually submissive. A person may switch their BDSM role
because a number of reasons, like mood, or personal sexual
desire/craving felt at the time felt by either partner. As a switch
myself, I have a lot of insight into the amazing results of “going
both ways”!
*g*
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Being a BDSM switch allows me
to explore the different ecstasies of being a Domme and a sexually
submissive bondage slave. Because I’m a erotically
oriented person that is sometimes satisfied by one activity and other
times I’m into something else. Variety plays a pretty big role in my
states of arousal (which is why I like to switch it up in other ways
too—sometimes I play with guys and other times women, and I have a
HUGE chest full of sex toys and bondage gear so I’m prepared for
whichever calls to me at any time! *teehee*). If you ask me, people in
general are such versatile creatures who yearn for lots of different
sensual experiences, so
why choose to do things only one way when you can experience other
ways, too? Both sides have the enormous erotic potential to give you the kinds
of sensations that the other just can’t, and missing out on any form
of sensual pleasure just isn’t an option for me! *g*
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Aside from just my ravenous
carnal desires, there are a lot of practical reasons why switching is
a great idea. Switching from Dom/me to a submissive allows a person to
experience the full range of erotic bondage playtime. And that means
that I will have extensive personal erotic knowledge about both sides
so that I’ll always have lots of insight into what my partner is
feeling. Let me give you an example of how useful it is to have the
inside scoop on all of this. If I were
only a Dominatrix who topped all the time, I would have little or no
idea how it felt to be a submissive, and so I would have to rely only
on their descriptions and reactions to determine the best, most fun,
and most erotic methods and scenes to engage in from the side of the
bottom. Same goes for if I were a full-time bondage submissive.
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Switching means that you won’t really have to
guess how best to please and torture and spank and drive wild
your partner because you have an idea how it feels to be them in lots
of different and *creative* situations. *wink* It means
you probably have a deep understanding of both the sexually dominant
and sexually submissive roles, and you will be all the better Dom/me
or sub because of it. And you know what that means, right? You’ll feel
more comfortable with your partner, which can lead to seriously
intense and erotic levels of pleasure and pain that will leave you
screaming with orgasmic delight!
*g*
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Maybe you’re
wondering how it works. After all, it’s not like you can just “flip a
switch” to feel either Dominant one day and submissive the next, and
especially not during the same session (which I wouldn’t recommend).
I’d say it
works similarly to the way that sexual feelings in general work. You
start to get an itch, a craving, and specific desires start to build
up in your body and mind. Those feelings could be toward Dominating,
or subbing, or perhaps you could even feel neutral about it just so long
as you get some action! Sometimes I am my sexy
Dominatrix self for weeks at a time before I start to feel
submissive again, or vice versa.
*g*
Sometimes, I’m
feeling submissive, and so is my partner, but there’s nothing wrong with
a little compromise. In fact, this sensual scenario allows people to
experience different levels of being top and bottom. If I’m not feeling
heavily dominant, but it’s my turn to Domme, I’m less likely to be as
strict with my behaviors as if I’ve been ready to Domme all day! If you
ask me, it’s more fun to be able to get into erotic bondage scenes at
different levels depending on how I’m feeling.
Sometimes the
same scene can be super intense while other times the same scene can be
less so and to get that range of sensation is exhilarating—you know how
I feel about variety in my sex life! *wink*
To each his own,
of course, but I can’t even imagine BDSM without being a switch. I want
to experience all the pleasures available to the human body, so
switching is perfect!
When find myself
daydreaming about putting on my
Dominatrix Catsuit and breaking out theleather whip and I knowjust how
amazing and arousing it will feel for both my partner and me to get into
those roles, that’s BDSM perfection! You know you want to try
it…*g*
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