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Take It To The Toy Box
Guide to Submission: How to Submit to Your Lover


Take It To The Toy Box
Play time with your partner doesn't have to be the same old thing every time. You can dress up and go out, teasing each other until you get home, or you can stay in and try things you've always whispered about to each other. Either way, don't forget to bring your toys! Toy boxes aren't just for kids anymore; every grown up with the desire to make sex fun should have one in their bedroom!
Stocking Up
While everyone has different wants and desires between the sheets, there are some basic toys that everyone should have in their treasure chest. While the styles will vary wildly from person to person, depending on his or her desires, the basic function will be the same. Every toy box should have something that vibrates, something that penetrates, and something to make everything smooth and slippery. Of course, after you put these three things in, you may want to add more, and more, and more!
Good Vibrations
It doesn't matter if you prefer a gentle purr against your clit or taint, or a vroom deep inside, a vibrator should be the first toy in anyone's toy box. Vibrators can be found in shapes and sizes ranging from a bullet no bigger than a woman's pinky to multi-shafted realistic cocks with rabbit clit stimulators. Finding the vibrator that gets your motor running will be the best game of trial and error you've ever played. Even when you find your match, you'll want to keep shopping, just in case!
An Inside Job
The next item - and arguably of equal importance to the vibrator - that should go into your toy box is the dildo. Some vibrators are also dildos, but not all dildos are vibrators. Dildos come in different shapes, sizes, and materials, from the amazingly realistic to the absolutely alien. If you want some ass play, you can use a dildo or a specially made plug. Either way, it is very important to use a toy with a wide base to prevent any play time mishaps.
Slip And Slide
The third item that should be in every toy chest is your favorite lube. Even if you think you?e wet enough, lube can help you stay that way while providing extra sensation. There are some lubes that warm when used, giving you an extra tingle with your toys. There are also lotions that can prolong your play time or add a little flavor to your night. These lotions should be used in addition to rather than instead of your favorite lube.
Extra, Extra!
Once you've started to stock your toy box, you will undoubtedly want to make more additions. You can never have too many vibrators or dildos, as each one will feel different from the next. This will let you get the sensation you want. If your partner likes to play with you, why not add some extras that you can both enjoy? Adding a new sensation to your play time could bring you to peaks of pleasure which you didn't dare dream of before.
Cleanup Time
One very important thing to remember when stocking your toy box is the importance of keeping your toys very clean. Bacteria can build up on toys that haven't been properly cared for between uses, and then get transferred back onto you. Not sexy, not fun, and definitely not what you want to happen during play time! Many toys can be cleaned with warm water and gentle soap, or there is also special toy cleaner that is made specifically for cleaning sex toys. However you decide to clean your toys, make sure they dry completely before you put them away, else all your hard work will be for naught!
Making a grownup toy box for play time with your partner doesn't have to be a solo effort. If you bring your lover along, he or she can help you choose the things they want to use for them, and can help you pick out the toys that will be best for you, too. Including your lover in your toy box building can also be a sexy date. What better way is there to end your day than by shopping for toys that you'll use to tease your lover?
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