Wearing Bondage Gear Outside The Bedroom

    

You know that feeling you get when you’re really, really into someone, and want to tell the whole world about it? Sure, there’s Facebook, but sometimes, a few words in cyberspace just don’t cut it. If the relationship you’re in now (or have been in before) is BDSM or M/s based, you may have already taken steps to show your roles to the outside world. However, if you’re just putting your toe – or something else – into the world of bondage, you might not be too sure how to display your affections. From collars to chastity locks, wearing bondage gear outside of the bedroom is not only a sexy way to show you care, but can also be a display of trust and intimacy between you and your partner that you can’t quite get in private.

Show You Care
Wearing a piece of specialty bondage gear outside of the bedroom can be a bit tricky, especially if you’re going to be in an environment where it may be discouraged. In public situations like these, a bit of subtlety may be in order. There are Small Items that can be worn in public without raising too many eyebrows. These can range from a Wrist Restraint that can double as a chunky bracelet to a Collar with a connector for a lead.

Take It Up A Level
If you’re going to be in a location where discretion isn’t quite as necessary, you can turn up the intensity of your bondage gear. Adding a leash to that collar and letting your partner lead your actions outside of the bedroom can be a huge turn-on for when you get back between the sheets. Your actual outfit can make a statement, too. A Corset may have started out as an undergarment, but seeing you lashed in, laces strained, is not only a sexy eye tease for them but an exercise in control for you. When you add Sky High Heels that could make anyone who wasn’t used to their height be a bit dizzy, you’re showing your partner you’re willing to make the effort to make them feel special.

Keep It Incognito
Sometimes, you can’t even let a subtle hint show. Special occasions like Christmas dinner with your very conservative grandmother may not be the best to trot out the new leash and locking collar that you found under the tree that morning. That doesn’t mean you can’t let your lover know exactly what you’re thinking. When you get dressed, add a Body Harness under your outfit. You’ll have the sweet sting of the harness against your skin the entire time, and no one has to know except you and your partner. You can also make your bondage gear a sweet surprise for your partner, especially if you’re going somewhere that’s going to be sexually charged. Bump and grind on their command; it can be all the more sexy when they have the key to your Chastity Restraint in their hot little hand. Talk about holding the key to your heart!

Know Your Surroundings
The most important part about taking bondage gear public is to know your surroundings before you go. With some places, like a special fetish night at a club or a party with your friends, you’ll be a lot more comfortable wearing more daring regalia than others, both physically and mentally. Also, think of the people who will be surrounding you when you’re wearing bondage gear in public. People who know you and your partner will be a lot more understanding than the grandfather teaching his grandkids how to fly a kite in the park.

Wearing bondage gear in public can be a sexy, satisfying way to show your partner you’re thinking about him or her when you’re out on the streets. Whether you’re using the subtle touch of a clear collar or the tightly bound beauty of a steel boned corset, you can find bondage bear to wear outside of the bedroom for almost every situation. No matter if you’re taking your first steps into bondage based relationships or are a long-term member of an M/s partnership, bondage gear in public is a pleasing touch for everyone involved.