Whips Paddles Crops, Oh My!

    

Think about all the ways a person can touch you with their body. This list is erotically limitless. Let’s narrow it down to all the ways a person can touch you with their hands. They can caress, scratch, dig in with their fingers, slap and *spank*. We can get even more naughtily specific now. Think of how many different ways there are to erotically caress your lover’s body. We can go slow or fast, using our palm, the back of our hand, lightly brush over with our fingernails. We can press harder with the base of our hand occasionally; we can stop suddenly then start again without warning (gasp—surprise is so stimulating, isn’t it?). Each sensation is just a little bit different, but these little differences can create a world of excitement and possibilities in the way our bodies will react.

The same is true for touching the body with other objects. I’m thinking specifically of differentiating between bondage Whips, spanking Paddles, and corporate punishment Crops. Chances are, if you like the erotically sensual sensation one of these sexy toys provides, the others might interest as well. Of course, these toys are much different than the softness of a caress, but pain can be an aphrodisiac. Especially when two lovers have the trust between them for bondage and Erotic Role-Playing Games, stimulating pain can be the ultimate source of sensual pleasure.

I’ve enjoyed Whips, Paddles, and Crops on many separate occasions, so I’m going to tell you some of the secrets I’ve learned. For the purposes of sensual explanation right now, I will assume the role of the naughty bondage slave, but I think we all know by now that dominance is just as much my style!. If you’re just getting started with these toys, maybe this will help you decide which is best for you. Remember: you don’t have to choose if you don’t want to—you can have all three…

We’ll start with Whips. There are plenty of options to choose from, Long and Short, as well as a variety of materials and handles. Keep in mind that longer whips are harder to handle in terms of aim, and with each material comes a slightly variant sensation. My favorite whip for beginners is the 2801P Beaded Handle Cat-O-Nine Tails whip because it’s short and easy to control, and as a bonus, the handle feels sooo sexy in your hand (I’m thinking of what those beads remind me of…). For the more experienced, might I suggest the 2802P Fetish Fantasy 6 Foot Bullwhip— that leather sting will let your lover know who is in charge.

Generally with whips, a lover can expect the sting of a whip on skin in a smaller area than when using the crops or paddles. The sensation is quick and tends not to last very long. Of course, there are different types of whips. The thinner ones will sting more, while the thicker ones will thud more, like a sudden push. My favorite thing about whips is how unexpected their results can be. Depending on the speed and power used when cracking the whip, it is hard to expect exactly what is coming or when it will strike! With whips, there is so much anticipation because it happens so fast! Between the initial flick of the wrist and the moment of impact, it’s impossible to predict the exact instant that pain will send hot sparks flying under your skin…and between your legs.

Now let’s talk about Paddles. Their potential for pain is slightly higher than a whip. Paddles cover more surface, creating a longer lasting sensation. It feels much more like a slap or whack than a sting. That sensational whack from a paddle never comes quite as surprisingly as from a whip—it’s interesting then the different types of role-playing this type of variation can provoke (my first thought is always the timeless teacher-student fantasy, the one with the thick black librarian glasses…).

My favorite paddle is the 2872SM Bun Warmer Riveted Leather Paddle, because I looove the feel of leather against my skin. And unlike the whip, which has its own associated acoustics which are usually light, the sound of that paddle against bare skin can be loud and echoing. When I hear a sound that even resembles that of the paddle on my skin, even a high-five that is loud enough can do it sometimes, I am sent to that naughty place in my memory and have to take a breather. Heehee.

And what about the Crop It’s such a versatile tool, who could resist? I’ll tell you what I mean. Crops have amazing potential for dual usage, especially if you have the right kind, like the 3880P Singapore Stinger Stick. If you use the tip, you can create a quick, snappy sensation. Because the tip is going to generate a lighter sensation, it can be used again and again…and again, working its way up the intensity-ladder. If you include the shaft, the crop can then also act as a cane, which will create that longer-lasting sting you’ve been working up to with the tip. The cane has the potential for the most intense pain, so be careful when incorporating the shaft! It can even leave welts, but if you’re like me, you like to be reminded of those deeply stimulating moments of your life long after they’re over.

To have this type of variety in one toy will likely add even more excitement. The body’s sensation receptors can truly be heightened by the way it feels to be pleasured at the will of another without seeing it coming. Face down on the bed, blindfolded and bound, the lights dim: which will it be, the tip, or the whole shaft, I can’t wait to find out…

Now that you have some information about these three different bondage toys, I bet you can’t wait to try them out. Remember, if you’re just starting out, practice aiming on your arm or a pillow to assure the best experience for both you and your lover. I’m sure you already have a few sexy scenarios prepared to try out. Just thinking so much about it, I’ve conjured up a couple new ones myself. Time for a phone call…