9 Worst Mistakes Women Make During Sex
Women are amazingly sensual and fiery species when it comes to sexual encounters. However, the ability to lure and entice a male partner for sex also requires skill and experience. One mistake can be such a turn off for your partner and may create a long lasting impression. On the other hand, a hot and nerve-wrecking sex can create lingering passion and desire of your lover towards you.
Don’t worry, if you are a beginner in the art of lovemaking and seduction. Here are the most common mistakes females make and why you should avoid them at all cost.
No need to be shy
A woman is sexier when she is confident to speak her mind. For instance, if you are into BDSM fetishes, you should tell your lover about it because shyness hinders communication and trust which are very important ingredients in a relationship.
Don’t be passive!
No man likes a woman who lacks passionate reactions in bed, try out new positions. Feel free to express your carnality by way of moaning, it signals to men they are doing a good job and heightens their libido.
Using your teeth during blow job is a no-no!
In the heat of the moment you might forget he is very sensitive down there. Thus, using your teeth can be a huge turn off since it can be very painful for men. Try to focus on your lips and tongue and occasionally use your hand to excite him during a blow job but never use your teeth if you want him to enjoy it.
Expecting your lover to know what you want
If you want a certain type of sexual stimulation, you’d better share the desire with your partner because there is no way they can read your mind. If you don’t know how to share your fantasies or you are not confident enough to do so, use sex toys and accessories to give your lover a hint. Wear some nipple clamps or bring a butt plug to the sex scene and your partner will figure out what type of sexual encounter you are into.
Talking too much during sex.
While dirty talk and verbal humiliation can be intense sexual fetishes to share with your lover, too much talking during such intimate moments are a turn off. Random conversations have definitely no room during the act.
Repeating the same positions every time.
Now, all couples have their favorite sexual positions as well as they have their favorite sex toys and accessories. But it doesn’t mean you have to repeat those to no end because it will become extremely boring for both of you. Try to add the element of surprise to each sex scene to keep things interesting.
Worrying too much about trivial things
Worrying about your hair, your lips, and your make up, the position of your body or other similar aspects will never make a sex scene better! Try to be as relaxed as possible and focus on the passion between you and your lover rather than unnecessary things.
No need to be bossy
Being bossy outside of a BDSM scene might be interpreted wrongly by your lover. If they are the submissive kind and you will share a BDSM sex scene, then being bossy is not such a big deal. However, in any other types of sex scenes try to communicate with your lover rather than give him orders!
There are so many ways to achieve an orgasm so faking it can and should be avoided. This is wrong on many levels for both you and your partner. Your partner, in so many ways, will be able to help you achieve a climax, just be honest to him. When you fake an orgasm, you are depriving yourself the blissful experience of reaching your climax.