Femdom Resources: Best Tips for a Dominatrix in Session

If you are interested in the Dom/Sub world, you may wonder exactly how the training sessions go. The first thing you have to keep in mind is every session will be different, because it will depend on the person and the goals you two have agreed upon. Having said that and because I know you’re curious, here are a couple of guidelines to give you an idea how everything tends to work.

Before the Dominatrix does anything, it’s important for things to be clear. I’m talking about the limits and what she can do and cannot do. Even if the couple has decided beforehand, the Dominatrix should always check before the session.

When the time comes to actually start, the Dominatrix must ensure the slave is in a position that will allow them to perform everything she commands. Ideally, the slave shouldn’t move around too much because they can get tired, so the Dominatrix’s tend to make sure to keep the scene in one place. As for how the Dominatrix will communicate, it will vary. Some slaves want to be called humiliating names, others want for the Dominatrix to speak in a hard a stern voice. Some slaves prefer the Dominatrix to be silent, while others want to be talked to in a low and hard to hear voice. It will depend on what they are looking for.

As for the action, some Dominatrix’s spank their slaves without reason, at random. Others make them do special assignments that can include chores around the house, like cleaning the house thoroughly. The Dom will usually instruct them how the tasks will be performed and will check when they are doing them to see if there are any mistakes; they will not be rewarded until they get the job done right. If a Dom wants to engage the brain as well, they can make the slave recite a poem, count or remember something specific as they are spanking them or when they are tied up because it will make the whole thing harder, obviously. If they want them to remember something trickier, they usually give them more time to prepare so they can do it successfully.

On the other hand, some slaves just want pain. For those slaves, a Dominatrix may tie them to make sure they won’t be able to move or make them stand in certain position, also without moving. For these sessions, the goal is to pass the number of whips/spanks they could handle on previous sessions.

When the session ends, some slaves want to stay in the position they are in and rest a while. Others ask to be released from the position they are in immediately and ask to be held in the Dominatrix hands. When everything is done, aftercare is essential; the Dom will probably get some food and water for them to share. They will also take care of any lesions the slave may have and will tell them they did a good job. Sometimes they may offer some feedback immediately, concentrating on things the slave must improve next time; just as well, the slave may also provide feedback to the Dom. The idea is for things to be discussed, what they enjoyed, what they didn’t enjoy and how they can improve the next session. There’s always room for improvement!