Flirting 101: Tips on How to Communicate with Girls
In order to flirt you need to learn how to talk to women. And in order to do this you will need to know some tips to help you out some in that department. Usually this begins when you are a teenager, but it is kind of a life long process. When you talk with someone you like, chances are you freeze up or get nervous…and while that is normal, you can also take some tips into account in order to get better at it
The main thing to keep in mind is that you will need her to have a good time; as long as she is having fun, she will like you being there.
If you spot someone you like in a group, you can try getting her attention because it is really not that different from approaching her when she is on her own. If she doesn’t know you exist, she won’t be able to be charmed, so you need to get her attention. The best way to do this is by creating some eye contact and if she seems into it, you can approach her after some flirting. And after you have done this, you will need to keep her entertained with some conversation.
But the other approach is to impress them all at the same time. In order to do this you will need to be funny for them to be impressed; they need to know you are fun to be around. Give out positive vibes and have a lighthearted attitude; if you feel excited to be around them, make sure to communicate it. Those kinds of things can’t be faked.
Something to watch out because women hate it is being put on the spot. That is why you shouldn’t ask awkward questions or make annoying comments…ban stuff like, ‘Are you going to eat another one?’‘Are you girls avoiding me’, ‘Don’t you think I’m funny?’ and the like. This kind of things will only make them run for the hills and you will come off as weird or annoying.
What you want to do is to get talking. When you are with a group of girls it tends to be pretty easy to get them to talk, so make sure no one is feeling left out. If you are leaving someone out, that someone will look bored; don’t focus your attention on the same girl or in the same three girls. You want to be the center of attention for anyone. Keep the conversation flowing by asking follow up questions, making comments they can relate to, and examine their opinions.Make eye contact with everyone, especially the ones you feel are starting to look bored. Everyone will feel close to you and you will charm at the same time…and you will also get to know them a lot better!
Something else women love is someone funny, so let that side of you shine. If you don’t know how to be funny or witty, you can definitely learn how to do it; don’t be afraid of making funny remarks about things that are happening around you (but be careful not to cross that line towards being mean) You will also need to smile and laugh at yourself, that is why self deprecating humor is so great. Girls tend to be charmed by someone who doesn’t take himself too seriously.
A great thing about talking with a group of girls is that you can try more adventurous humor: if you only talk with one girl, it is riskier if they don’t enjoy the humor. But with a group is easier to joke about sex, for instance, because if one or two don’t like the joke, at least maybe one of them will. Don’t be afraid to try some naughtier humor!
Take advantage of using double entendre, especially when one of the girls says something too easy (‘it was really big and it couldn’t fit me!) If you can’t say anything, just smile mischievously and look at her pointedly until she gets it.
