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5 Signs Telling You to Give BDSM a Try

You might feel it is time to make a change in your personal life and relationship. It could be because you are not satisfied or you can’t identify with yourself in the life you have or the one you share with your partner now. Then again, you might be bored and in desperate need of something new. Many signs can lead you to the BDSM community and we will go though the most common ones in this article.

1. Your sexual life doesn’t satisfy you anymore

Even if you and your partner might be very much in love, your sexual life could still be far from perfect. This doesn’t necessarily mean something wrong with your relationship (even if this could be a cause in some cases.) It can mean you are past the point of routine and you need something new. Going out and having an affair can damage your relationship. Instead, talk with your partner and introduce them to the multitude of BDSM fetishes you can try together.

2. Find out which one appeals to both of you then try it.

You and your partner don’t feel an intimate connection

Even if your sexual life is fine, at least in appearances, you might still feel like something is missing. You can reach an orgasm every time you enjoy each other and you are open with your partner with no limits between the two of you. Yet you don’t feel connected enough with them. This might be because your intimacy is not satisfied as this is separate from sex. Bear in mind, intimacy needs to be entertained. Sex can easily become a mechanical practice especially after several years in a relationship. If a BDSM scene you want to try doesn’t involve physical sexual intercourse, then your whole perspective on sex and intimacy might change for the better. In fact, it could lead you to discover new and more pleasant ways to connect with each other without physical contact yet still achieve intense sexual satisfaction. Bondage and sexual stimulation might be a good way to start as well as using toys such as dildos and vibrators on each other.

3. You are masturbating over BDSM scenes

Do you get turned on by scenes involving spanking or whipping or the use of a flogger? Moreover, do you find yourself reaching an orgasm while watching and imagining such scenes? Well, you might want to try BDSM and even talk with your partner and tell them you want to join the BDSM community. Moreover, share the enjoyment of these experiences with them. Your instincts and your body talk to you and all you have to do is listen.

4. You like to be in control but you don’t know where to start

If you want to be in charge but have no idea how to do it in your daily life, then maybe you should start by trying to run your sexual encounters. Most dominants lack control over their lives, for instance, at their work place. So, they find balance during their BDSM scenes when they are in control of their submissive.

5. You feel frustrated

Frustration can have several causes and it takes some serious soul searching to identify those reasons. Some are more complex while some are as simple as you can think of. But the most common source of frustration is a poor sexual life. We tend to relax during our sexual encounters and release all the negative and positive energy in a way to bring us pleasure and peace of mind. When our sexual life is not so satisfying the effects become apparent during our daily life. Indeed, the outcome is not a positive one. Improving your sexual life benefits you and your relationship. BDSM is a great way to do this and bring some excitement into the sexual encounters you share with your significant other.

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