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Balancing Your Vanilla Life With BDSM

I've been in a vanilla relationship for over 10 years. Although I think I've been waiting all my life to become submissive and my husband more or less knows that my interests are there, he is unwilling to do more than pin my arms down occasionally when we have sex.

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Don’t Be Afraid To Get Kinky!

Until I found your site, I didn't think I could ever get into BDSM. But after seeing the adorable stuff you have here, well, I can't wait to become the perfect slave! Now, you have some great advice in your bondage lessons section. I have already discussed my bondage fantasies with my husband/Master.

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Feeling Loved, Not Used, During Playtime

I am very sorry to bother you, but I don't really know who else to ask and I know from your site that you've answered advice questions before. *sigh* My question is: what do you do when it goes wrong while you're playing??? (I know that you've probably never had this question – from what you say about him, your husband seems to be very romantic.)

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On Being Overheard & Oversharing In Public!

Hi Autumn! Love your site! I have a few questions. I am engaged to the greatest man in the world and we have recently had fun exploring our new sexuality together! I am very lucky that although we are taking it slow, we are both having fun! I have an issue about loud sex – we live in an old house that was converted into apartments.

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On Desires & What You Want From Each Other

At last! Someone I can ask this strange question! Feel free to post this on the site because I wouldn't mind knowing what others think too. Last year I was seeing a girl (I'm a 27-year-old male) and we weren't very compatible out of bed – we had affection and feelings but we weren't really in love, but we had this totally intense sex life.

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On Power Dynamics & Alternating Roles

I am interested in becoming the slave in my current relationship. In the past I have always been the dominant one, but I have found a life partner who feels more comfortable in the dominant role. I have no problem switching but am unsure how to go about it. Any suggestions?

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On Swallowing Your Pride & Other Things…

My husband and I have been married 4 years and have both become interested in BDSM and having a D/s relationship. The problem is, I am finding it hard to submit to him. He is not dominant, and although he tries to be, it doesn't seem to be working for us.

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Shaking Things Up With Role Switching!

I was introduced to your website today by my D. It's funny browsing your site because the things you've written about your personal feelings... they could have been something I've thought, felt, or said myself. And your Master's could have come from my D, or so he tells me.

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