BDSM During Pregnancy

BDSM enthusiasts have a lot of options when they want to spice their sexual life and having a baby on the way only increases the excitement and sexual pleasure during the intimate encounters that take place between the partners. It is a known fact that pregnant women have more sexual energy than others and their sexual desire is increased by all the hormones that run through their body. If you and your partner are BDSM enthusiasts, it wouldn’t be hard at all to encourage a healthy and exciting sexual life and entertain the sexual energy in different ways. Here are some practices that you can try while you are traveling the beautiful phase of a pregnancy.

1. Use a light form of bondage

Bondage is great during any BDSM scene, however, if your lady is pregnant that doesn’t mean that you have to skip bondage all together. Just use a light form of bondage such as a harness or a rope tied nicely around her body. You can easily stimulate a pregnant woman by using such forms of bondage and if your submissive girl enjoys serving you like a good submissive should, she will look forward to fulfill all your desires.

2. Use the right toys

Basically, pregnant or not pregnant, you can use any kind of sexual toys and accessories, the only thing that matters is the size. And we don’t talk about “bigger is better” kind of logic, but more about the right size to not induce too much pain than it is necessary. You want to inflict both pain and pleasure into your pregnant submissive but you also want a fair balance between the two, one that will be safe for her in the first place and excite you tremendously as well so that both of you will reach an intense sexual satisfaction. Dildos and butt plugs are great to stimulate your pregnant partner and also nipple clamps too. Nipples are extremely sensitive during pregnancy and you want to explore that to its fullest potential. Gags, hoods and all kinds of cuffs can be successfully used as well, especially when you are planning to enjoy an intense BDSM session with your pregnant submissive girl.

3. Use verbal humiliation

When you want to compensate the lack of intensity that you would achieve by using certain toys or extreme BDSM practices like edge play scenes and accessories, you can successfully use verbal stimulation to increase the sexual pleasure to the level that you aspire to reach. According to what your submissive pregnant partner is comfortable with, you can start with a simple dirty talk that will develop along with the BDSM scene into a verbal humiliation session in which you can use name calling and describe the sexual things that you want to experience with your partner. Most BDSM enthusiasts use verbal stimulation often during all kinds of BDSM scene because it does increase the level of sexual pleasure and it helps them reach an amazing sexual stimulation. But make sure you know your partner and understand what they enjoy and what they are not so happy to experience because both of you have to reach the orgasm that you are aiming for and it is a team work.

A safety word is very useful during a BDSM scene especially if your partner is pregnant, just to make sure that any awkward situations are taken care of. If your partner is not comfortable with a certain sexual practice, they can simply use the safety word and change the intensity or the course of events that takes place during the scene. However, a pregnancy shouldn’t stop you from reaching your sexual fantasies and experiencing the fetishes that turn you on. Pregnant women are more willing to experience new things due to their increased sexual excitement and their overwhelming sexual energy that will turn you on as well as soon as you dive into an intimate scene with your lover.