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Find Out What Your BDSM Style is Now

For those of you who are just getting interested in BDSM, you may wonder about the mechanics of it all. Why do people like to do this? Why is this something that attracts a person? And while there isn’t a specific answer (kind of like, why some people like cinnamon so much?), there are some aspects that are quite easy to understand.

BDSM tends to be something very particular for every person out there. And the reasons why they enjoy it tend to be quite mysterious. And I say mysterious because while most people can point out the exact moment when they saw something BDSM related that excited them, they can’t exactly put words as to why they felt attracted to that in the first place.

Most people know or have an idea about the things that attract them, but they really can’t tell why they like it. So far, science has not figured out why some people feel attracted to this world, while others couldn’t care less. And they may never figure out why, but the bottom line is millions and millions of people do like it and it’s what attracts them. I mean, maybe at some point in the future they will find out it has something to do with genes? It seems almost everything this days can be traced to that. So maybe BDSM is genetic? That is certainly a good reason wink*

There are plenty of reasons why people get into this world, and they tend to be very personal reasons sometimes. Maybe it was something that was born when they were awakening sexually; sometimes it happens by accident. Sometimes, just witnessing a person tying another one in a very specific moment can trigger some feelings. And boom! BDSM kinky fetishes are born…without warning and like a wrecking ball (sorry, couldn’t help the pop culture reference wink*)

BDSM is commonly associated with bondage. Bondage can refer to submissiveness or servitude to some people; just belonging to someone and taking care of their needs. For others, it can be the other way around; bondage can mean taking care of a person and someone attending to their needs…owning someone.

For some other group of people, bondage is more related to being restricted. Restriction can come in many forms, from tying arms and legs, to not being able to speak because of a gag. There is even another group that will relate bondage not with a physical restriction, but with a psychological restriction. Sometimes it’s just about letting go and handling control to someone…and some other times bondage can simply mean controlling someone and taking the reins in hand. Literally, if you’re into pet play (sorry again, couldn’t help another reference wink*)

As you can see, bondage can mean anything you want; because it is something so personal, it will have a different meaning depending on the person. Usually, you want to find a partner that shares your same views, or at least very similar meanings of bondage. Being on the same page as your partner makes play so much easier and fun.

Whether BDSM is something you would like to explore as a lifestyle 24/7 or you just want to take some aspects of it to spice up your vanilla sex life every once in a while, there is something for everyone here. Bondage allows you to be free in your choices and enhances your sexual pleasure…and as a result you will be much happier. You just have to find what works for you…come to the BDSM side, we have cookies wink*