BDSM Open Relationships
Having an exclusive relationship may not always be the recipe that makes you happy, and nowadays you can bend this status according to your needs most especially for your sexual urges that needs to be satisfied in the best and most intense way possible! But you can always have an open relationship based on some exciting BDSM practices. And there are a few tips and ideas that can guide you along the way, especially if you never indulged in such a free relationship before! So, let’s see how you can have a successful BDSM open relationship and the advantages of this kind of relationship for both you and your partner!
1. Start by having a threesome
If your lover is not so open to sharing you with other people, even if it is just in the name of a sexual variety, you might have to convince them of the advantages that such an open relationship has. And a great starting point is by having a threesome with your lover and another man or woman according to your sexual preferences. This will get them used to the idea that sexual variety can be a great improvement to your relationship and that it can help you grow sexually in a way that will benefit both of you. You can try new sex toys and accessories with your “guest” and see how your lover reacts when they participate in such an intense sexual session. They 
might not be so determined to have an exclusive relationship after such an exciting encounter.
2. Experience your fantasies with other partners
One of the main advantages that an open relationship will bring to your sexual life is the fact that you get to experience your fantasies with other partners. If you are into suspension bondage for instance but your lover is not such a big fan of this BDSM practice, you can always share it with someone else. Or if you want to try a new sex toy such as an orgasm belt or electro-stimulating devices, you can do that now by having a sexual affair with someone other than your lover. And the best part of it is that your lover will not only know about your affairs but they will also agree with them as long as they agree to have an open sexual relationship with you! And the classic dildos will not be your only sexual option anymore if you happen to be into an open relationship! On the contrary, you will have plenty of sexual experiences and you will discover new fetishes that you can try to share with your lover in your future BDSM scenes.
3. Talk to your partner about your sexual affairs
Now, having sexual affairs while you are in an open relationship is one thing. Keeping them to one’s self alone is a little different. This is why it is recommended to share your experiences with your lover and make sure that you keep your main relationship happy and healthy! Telling your lover spicy details about your last one night stand might be very exciting as well. On top of the fact that it will increase the level of trust between you two, it will also give you new fetishes to perform during your sexual encounters. You can even have a BDSM scene based on one of your sexual affairs! Use the open relationship’s advantages to improve your main relationship and keep your partner sexually satisfied as well!
Having an open relationship can be a great advantage for both you and your partner as long as you apply the rules of such a connection. It is important to stay faithful to each other in an emotional way and share your experiences in order to grow through them. This kind of relationship is great for overcoming sexual problems and improving your BDSM skills by getting in contact with other people other than your constant partner.
