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Bondage Blindfold Essentials

Blindfolds are an essential element of bondage. They are used so frequently because they enhance sensations. Think about it for a second, if you cannot see, don’t your other senses become more potent? When you are wearing a blindfold the sounds, tastes, smells and touch suddenly become more intense and powerful.

Another good thing they do is to create and build up anticipation. If you can’t see what is going on, everything becomes more intense. What will your partner do next? When will they touch next? That variety and anticipation takes up a whole new different meaning when you have your eyes covered up.

So now that your interest is spiked up (at least I hope! Wink*) I’m sure you want to know some activities or things you can do if your partner is blindfolded. Or maybe you want to be blindfolded, in that case, print this and leave it out for your partner to see, they will probably get the hint, wink*.

First, you should know if your partner has a blindfold it would probably be easier for you to be more forward and act more dominant. The thing is, as they cannot see you, you will feel less self-conscious to act as you please.

In that line of thought, you can begin by stroking, licking and kissing your partner while they can’t see. Here is a good moment to play with pace and the element of surprise; you can lick their neck for example and then right away move to sucking their hipbone. Alternate between slow and fast pace and rotate the places, don’t make it a pattern. A good idea is to stop from time to time and when they start squirming because they don’t know what’s going on, go for the attack, wink*.

On the other hand, you can act on your dominant side, asking your partner to do things to you while they are blindfolded. These activities can range from touching you all over or kissing you or giving you oral sex. The fact they are not able to see what they are doing and touching will add a new level of excitement.

Other fun activities to try are experimenting with food and other sensation objects. You can bring a plate of food and feed your blindfolded partner; ideally you will use things your partner likes, but try to keep food easy to swallow, savory and lickable. Fruits, chocolate and olives can be good, but I know you are already thinking of the specific items you want to try, wink*. And since we are speaking of sensations, try running hot wax or ice cubes down your partner when they least expect it for a fun sense exploring sensation.

You can also give them a massage. And that massage can include some other sensation items, like a feather duster or a flogger. You can also use lotion or lubrication, just to make the whole experience well… more erotic, let’s say. You  can do their backs and legs and the turn them over and explore them all over, remember, nothing is off limits.

And since we are talking limits, you can also introduce them to a sex toy. It could be a new one or an old favorite. Just make sure they are not expecting it to make it more fun and sensual. Just a few words of advice, always go slow. We all know sex toys can be quite intense, so don’t go into it all at once. Start slow and when you notice they have grown accustomed to it, start playing with them.

Another erotic activity that pairs really well with blindfolds is masturbation. If you or your partner are a little shy, try wearing a blindfold to get them out if their shell. The reason being the next one: if they are not worried about the other person in the room watching them, a person can give the green light to themselves, allowing them to throw their self consciousness and just ride on feeling and sensations. So you know, if your partner is shy, get them a present: a blindfold will surely benefit both of you, wink*.