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Exploring Light Bondage

Stepping out of your comfort zone and trying on some new things is always a good idea... usually wink* Sometimes you are bored with doing the same thing all over again and even just getting down in the car or in every room in the house just doesn’t cut it. And that is why you should try some light bondage elements; as long as you keep an open mind about it I can almost guarantee you will have fun. And if you and your partner try it and at the end it doesn’t work for you two, then you can still have fun! I mean, is there something funnier that some sex adventure that didn’t work out? You two can still laugh about it afterwards… for years to come? Wink*

One of the lightest BDSM elements you can introduce to your sex life is spanking. You can either make it a part of the foreplay aspect of things or you can do it during sex. The thing you need to remember is to start with some light smacks (adjust the intensity if you need to on, but always start light), and change it up between slaps and caresses. You can obviously do it by hand, but if you are feeling fancy or want to explore something else, use a paddle or a whip.

Another good idea is to introduce some role play into the bedroom. The good thing about role play is that it can be as animated or elaborated as you want it to be (and as your imagination allows). This is also a great way to act out on your favorite fantasies, like a student that wants to improve their grade and wants to have a word with the teacher, or a cop that pulls you out of your car and needs to arrest you (use handcuffs, please!), a boss and the secretary, a handyman that comes to repair the dishwasher, a superhero that saves a love interest… ok, I think I got too carried away but that is exactly the point. Role play can be whatever you want it and can be as detailed as you two make it out to be.

If what you are looking to experiment with is something hotter… or icier, then be my guest. Temperature play is also a very sexy way to indulge the senses; basically you can use ice cubes, candle wax, warm water, or anything that can affect the body temperature. This may not sound so sexy in paper, but the reality is those changes heighten the senses and can arouse the body. You can try running an ice cube down your partner’s body (in a sensitive area, like the nipples for example) and then run your tongue over it to calm the sensation. If you play with wax, it will be the opposite: the hot drops of wax will fall over them and you can use your tongue to heighten their senses. And you can always get creative with temperature play, which is another point in its favor.

And since we are talking body parts, you can always focus on a particular body part. This is a part of foreplay and your partner will go completely crazy. For example, let’s say you love your partner’s ass; then you should spend as long as you like focusing on that area. Massage the buttocks, caress them, kiss them, lick them, bite them… the idea is to focus on erogenous or sensitive areas and stimulate them until your partner cannot bear it any longer. A good thing about this is that you can do whatever body area or part that you love, like the boobs, the neck, the jaw… I don’t know, you tell me what you love. Just don’t skim on the attention and take as long as you want.

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