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How to Erotically Sexually Discipline your Bondage Slave

Being a Dominant or the Dominatrix puts you fully in control of your bondage slave. And now that you have them there, whatever shall you do with them? *wink* Let's go for making them whimper with desire, whine with sensual tension and be able to only whisper your name through the sounds of their ballgag. I think it's a pretty good start. Don't you?

As you know, each and every person is different and this means that their sexuality is going to be different. What is a wonderful erotic trigger for one slave such as being tightly bound in a hogtie with a blindfold and a bite gag might not do for a bondage slave more included towards medical fetish play who would much rather be bound in bondage tape with a Jennings gag in their mouth.

Before any bondage play sessions, I always recommend discoing both of your wants, needs and sexual desires which will not only make for a much more interested bondage playdate but should result in much more (and many more) satisfying orgasms for the both of you.

After you have thoroughly discussed your desires or even perhaps been so clever as to have done the Erotic Bondage Checklist, let erotic sensual torture begin.

How to Discipline your Bondage Slave:

Random punishment: I have a friend who I chat with often through Deviant Art who has a little trinket box filled with papers listing random punishments. Sometimes when he misbehaves, he is instructed by his Mistress to draw a paper and that will be his punishment. It can be anything from a spanking to wearing nipple clamps underneath his clothes to an event. The anticipation and thrill of wondering what will happen and the excitement from the act itself often erotically charges play time greatly.

    • Bondage: Sometimes all that is required is to be bound and gagged. Losing control of his actions and words often means he cannot do the thing he would like. His Mistress may be teasing and toying with him throughout the experience, or disciplining him in other sensual ways, and the entire time he is left without the ability to move and react in any way. Well, other than to squirm and moan loudly through his gag that is…*giggle*
    • Teasing: This is another great idea. Not only is it playful but it's erotically charged bondage. When your submissive is bound, the Master or mistress can use a variety of different and delicious sex toys and other fun things which go "whack" in the night. . You can touch, tease and explore your slave's body as you wish, bringing them to new heights of erotic adventure and ultimately having them begging (or whimpering their ballgag) begging you for you more. The delicious part is that they will be unable to do anything, as you completely in charge. At this point, I would call you one sadistic bastard but I think you might like it too much. *wink*
  • Withholding: If you want to discipline someone, the best way is to take away something that they want. This works with bondage slaves as well. When a bondage Master wishes to erotically punish their slave, they can refrain from giving their lover exactly what they want. This could mean a touch, kiss or even the erotic release of a powerful orgasm. By keeping the desired outcome out of your slave's reach (literally and figuratively) you are heightening their sensations and making the ultimate end release that much more powerful.
  • Spankings and Floggings: These are the tried and true punishment corporal punishment methods. When your slave craves a new desire to be punished or to experience a new sensation, a good over the knee spanking or a bondage flogging on the back or their backside can send them over the edge into subspace.

Regardless of which way you choose, or even if you use them all, erotic bondage discipline is a wonderful way to give your slave new sensations and bring them to even higher heights of erotic pleasure while very much commanding your role as the dominant in the relationship. By allowing yourself the freedom to do as you wish within the parameters you have set up with your slave you are allowing for yourself to enjoy and relish the experience of new sensations which creating new and lasting erotic memories.

And aftershocks.

Lots of aftershocks.