No matter how long we have been having sex or how many times we have done it, there are always new tricks and ideas to learn, don’t you agree? Wink*. There’s something very special about trying out something new, whether it involves a technique, a prop or toy or…well, I’m getting ahead of myself. Let’s have a look at some tips:
- More clit: The clitoris is probably the most sensitive part of a woman’s body. If you stimulate it properly, you may see your partner achieve new pleasure levels and that in turn will make you very happy. As a general rule you should never forget is there; you can find it on the surface of the vulva and you should also know most women respond more when you stimulate it rather than penetrate it. Although touches and fingers are largely appreciated, the tongue will really make a difference here. No matter what you choose as your weapon, start slow in order to create a rhythm and then add a bit of pressure to the area located above the clitoral head. Your woman will be very, very happy, wink*.
- All at one: If you want to rock your partner’s world, you can assault most, if not all, their senses. They key here is to stimulate the vagina, the clitoris and the anus at the same time. You can insert two fingers inside the vagina and stimulate the clitoris with your thumb while you use your other fingers for some anal fun. Or you can insert the fingers, work the clitoris with your tongue and insert a butt plug. Or use a dildo that hits the G-spot just right while your tongue takes care of the rest. Basically there are plenty of combinations, but you get the idea. These are only a few for you to get an idea.
- A blindfold goes a long way: If you want to try something different but don’t want to get into anything hardcore, a blindfold may be the answer for you. The sensuality you will experience while you can’t see what your partner will do next can compare to just a handful of things in life. You two can start with some sexy foreplay and then take turns wearing the blindfold, turn off the lights and play around a little. You can lube up your fingers and then run them smoothly down your partner’s body…or use your tongue. You can even add a prop like a flogger; it’s incredibly erotic to feel the tails moving all around. Or you can go a step further and use a vibrator on the low setting. And if you really want to take it up a notch, try some captive-captor role play adding a pair of handcuffs or rope so they won’t move around or try to stop you! Naughty, naughty wink*.