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Meet Jim


Please tell us a little bit about yourself – How would you describe your everyday vanilla life?     

I live with my wife of 43 years; I'm retired from shipyard type work. I told my wife in the very beginning of my fetishes and she tried to but just wasn't "into" it.

When did you first realize you were into bondage?

I guess I was about 6 or 8, maybe 10, around that time.

How you best describe yourself and why?  Your choices are: Dominant, Submissive, Switch or Fuzzy Rainbow Unicorn.

100% submissive but only to Femdoms.

Do you feel that your desire for bondage is more physical or emotional?  (please elaborate)

I feel its about 40% physical and 60% emotional.

Were lovers accepting of your interest in bondage?


Please briefly describe your first bondage experience.

 Don't recall, it’s been 60 +- years ago.

What was your best bondage experience?

Not long ago, my Mistress mummified me, played with my nipples and balls, then did a bit of breath play, then turned me over and caned my bare ass.

What is the most creative safeword you have ever used?


What do you feel is most important about the experience of bondage?

The transfer of control. I have literally trusted my life to my Mistress.

What is the best advice you would give to someone just starting out with BDSM?

Read, go out and meet people, join groups, attend parties. And most important, be patient.

What is your favorite gear, toy or lingerie item from and why?

A CBT Stockade I bought a few years ago.

What is the one sensual fantasy you haven’t lived out yet that you are excited to try?

 Maybe really long term bondage, 24 hours a day for 2 or 3 days.

What’s your favorite knock-knock joke?

Who's there?

What is Eskimo ice?