Please tell us a little bit about yourself – How would you describe your everyday vanilla life?
I'm a married father of two. I work from home and sometimes travel for my job.
When did you first realize you were into bondage?
It was at a young age, around 13, when I first realized I was into bondage. I know it is a little cliché but I really liked Lynda Carter as Wonder Woman and always wanted to be caught in her lasso.
How you best describe yourself and why? Your choices are: Dominant, Submissive, Switch or Fuzzy Rainbow Unicorn.
I'd say I'm a switch. Probably 60% - 70% submissive and 30% - 40% dominant.
Do you feel that your desire for bondage is more physical or emotional? (please elaborate)
I'd say that bondage for me is primarily physical when I'm the submissive. I like the feeling of the straps, or rope, or whatever implements are being used. When I'm the dominant it's mainly emotional; having that emotional bond of trust with my sub is awesome.
Were lovers accepting of your interest in bondage?
I've only really explored bondage with my most recent lovers. They have been accepting of it, so some more than others.
Please briefly describe your first bondage experience.
Playing around with a cheap pair of metal handcuffs by myself. I would also bind my, well, man parts at the same time. (trying to keep it PG13)
What was your best bondage experience?
My best was with a now ex-girlfriend. We would both surprise each other sometimes by being tied up and waiting for the other one to come home and be used.
What is the most creative safeword you have ever used?
I haven't had the need for a safeword as I've always discussed boundaries before any session.
What do you feel is most important about the experience of bondage?
The trust you put into the hands of the top, or the trust put in your hands.
What is the best advice you would give to someone just starting out with BDSM?
Go slow and always communicate with your partner your needs and desires.
What is your favorite gear, toy or lingerie item fromsub-shop.com and why?
The Gladiator Steel Locking Cock & Ball Chastity Set. :) I love the feeling of being locked up and my wife having the key.
What is the one sensual fantasy you haven’t lived out yet that you are excited to try?
This probably won't be PG13, but I'd love to have my wife sit on my face while I pleasure her orally. At the same time she would be teasing and torturing my cock and balls.
What’s your favorite knock-knock joke?
Interrupting cow wh--
What is Eskimo ice?