Please tell us a little bit about yourself – How would you be describing your everyday vanilla life?
It’s cliché but I would describe myself as a nerdy, kind of shy, but normal guy. I’m in my late twenties trying to navigate that ridiculous transition into a full adult. I’m juggling a full time job and school, but I like to spend my free time playing video games and cooking with my gf.
When did you first realize you were into bondage?
I can’t think of a specific “monkey touch monolith” moment for what got me into bondage, but I would definitely ballpark it somewhere around during puberty. We finally had internet access at our house and I could learn about the things I liked, but that initial interest definitely came from the old damsel in distress scenes in movies.
How you best describe yourself and why? Your choices are: Dominant, Submissive, Switch or Fuzzy Rainbow Unicorn.
I definitely chose the Dominant class when making my character. I love crafting out a scenario in my head and then sharing my idea with my lover. The thinking aspect of it is something I can get lost in for hours.
Do you feel that your desire for bondage is more physical or emotional? (please elaborate)
It’s more emotional for me. I mean the physical is definitely there but it has a lot more to do with the connection I have with my sub. The trust and the love between us is what makes it truly special.
Were lovers accepting of your interest in bondage?
My first girlfriend did not accept it at all, but my second girlfriend is very accepting of it and shares my enthusiasm for it as well. In fact, it has deepened the bond between us.
Please briefly describe your first bondage experience.
The first experience in bondage I can remember was getting a pair of fake handcuffs and handcuffing my hands behind my back. I have always had a fondness for handcuffs.
What was your best bondage experience?
This happened just about a week ago. I had set up a rope spread eagle rig under our bed and hadn’t had a chance to test them out yet. So with my sub in a corset and locked into a pair of her high heels. I tied her spread eagle to the bed, added her collar, a blindfold, and her penis gag. A night of teasing, flogging and pleasure followed. :)
What is the most creative safeword you have ever used?
We like to use Guacamole. Not incredibly creative but it was something we would definitely remember and works well when she is gagged.
What is your favorite gear, toy or lingerie item from sub-shop.com and why?
I have two: The rubberized locking penis gag and the locking bondage mittens. The penis gag is incredibly fun to use during play and extremely effective! The mittens are perfect for doing that one step up from bondage cuffs and great for adding an extra layer of restraint.
What is the one sensual fantasy you haven’t lived out yet that you are excited to try?
I love the idea of locking my sub in a chastity belt with a pair of vibrating plugs while I have the remote. Having her locked up all day long while I can control her pleasure sounds just absolutely amazing. She always hates the teasing but loves what it builds up for in the end. ;)
What’s your favorite knock-knock joke?
Yeah! It’s my favorite show!
What is Eskimo ice?
It’s how Eskimos keep their drinks cold!