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If the Cuff Fits: Topping from the Bottom

When you are first starting out it pays very well to listen carefully when people talk about their role orientation. Communication is a two-way street and nurturing a dialog will give you a much better idea of how they see themselves and their interests.

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I'll Take Vanilla Tonight

Have you ever stood in an ice cream shop and thought to yourself: "I would love to have the most boring and plain flavor in the place" Yeah, me neither.

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Importance of Aftercare: Sub Drop, It's Not All About the Chocolate

Top drop, sub drop. These are terms used to describe some of the feelings experienced after a BDSM scene. You hear a lot about sub drop but not so much about top drop.

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Inside the Cage - Things to Know Before Your First Time With Male Chastity

Male chastity can be incredibly fun and it’s a great way to add a little something special to your relationship. Besides, although it may sound scary at first, it’s actually one of the most fulfilling sexual related experiences out there.

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Inside the Cuckoo’s Nest: Setting Cuckolding Scenes for You & Your Partner

If you often fantasy about cuckolding…welcome to the club, you’re not alone! Wink*. That one is definitely one of the most common fantasies out there, among both women and men.

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Keeping BDSM Alive In Your Long Distance Relationship

Relationships are a bit complicated just as they are, so imagine adding BDSM and long distance to the mix. How can you be with someone when being physical is such as big part of a relationship?

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Keeping Your Submissive Under Your Control In Public

If you are a dominant in a relationship, you may know most times things don’t stop outside the bedroom. The job of a dominant is never done…so you can continue the training even in public. Obviously not all of it, wink*.

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Learn to Love Being Submissive to your Master!

Even if you feel you are a natural submissive, truth is, a great submissive is not born, it is made wink*. Every one can learn some things to be a better submissive; besides, you need to get in the right mindset in order to achieve all your goals.

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Let’s talk about STI’s

A sexually transmitted infection (AKA: STI) is an infection that gets passed on from people to people through sexual contact. This contact is not reserved to coitus, it can happen with oral, anal and vaginal sex.

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Let’s Talk Pegging & Your Relationship - Together!

If you are a woman looking forward to trying pegging on your partner, you may be unsure as to exactly how to approach the subject.

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Life after crossdressing Enjoying your new sex identity

If you had not noticed, sex after coming out as a cross dresser changes, wink*… But that is not a bad thing! It’s just that things will be a bit different, that is all.

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Maid to Order: Having Fun Humiliating Your Sissy Sub

If there is one activity that can bring you (and your partner) endless time of games and fun, it’s sissy play. Plenty of men are into it (probably more than you think!), so chances are you are already partaking in some sissy related fun.

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Make Sex Even Better With New Sensations for the Senses!

Senses are the primary thing we use in our everyday life. They are basically what we need to survive and move into the world; our window to the world.

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Master's Note

Everything you've read about men in women's magazines is bullshit. (And most of what you've read in them just in general, from what I understand.)

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Matchmaker, Make Me A Match - The Right Dom for Me!

If you are a submissive, it may take you some time finding the perfect dominant for you. And that is ok; we’ve all been there. Choosing someone can be hard because this is a very strong commitment you’ll be sharing.

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Mistress At Play - Being The Dominant Woman

Trying some dominant-submissive play in the bedroom is always a good idea. This is a great opportunity to have fun and experience the psychological experience of dominating someone.

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New to BDSM? Here’s what you need to know

We all have our own secret fantasies, buried deep down inside our mind. We all have that desire we keep hidden from the world. But why? What are we afraid of? Are we afraid that we will be judged for our desire?

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Of Pet-ty Claw-ses: Drawing up a Pet Play Contract

Sometimes, it is required to draw a contract in a pet play relationship. The arrangement will be different for each couple; the terms will vary and can include sexual behaviors, activities and mannerisms.

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On The Hunt: Finding Your Submissive

Looking for a submissive to share your kinks is a process. Once you know what you want, how to achieve those goals, and what you want in a partner/relationship.

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Ooh, La, La! Training Your Sissy Maid Properly

Training a sissy sub is quite complex but very rewarding. If you are interested on it, you will have to look out for the best method for you and your partner.

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Open For Anything! Let’s Talk About Pegging & Your Relationship!

Pegging is a fairly common fantasy for both men and women, so it’s not a surprise so many couples are trying it. If you’re not sure about where to start with this process of introducing pegging to your relationship, you’re not alone.

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Picture Perfect - Identifying Your Sub’s Interests

People have a wide variety of tastes. And for BDSM, finding that flavor is even more important. Figuring out what you like can take time but it is a necessity.

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Safety Gag-gles Check! Let’s (safely) wear gags!

Gags are of the most popular forms of BDSM play and while fun, they can also be very dangerous if you don’t take the necessary measures.

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Seduce The Man of Your Dreams - A Goddess in a Woman's Dress

Ohh…how nice would it be to seduce the man of your dreams … It doesn't even have to be the man of your dreams, I mean, if you could just take home the cute guy you keep bumping in to, that'd be great.

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Seven Ways to Play Rough With Your Sissy Sub

Sissy play is incredibly fun to engage in. As with any form on bondage, there are different ways to do it and how you practice it and what you choose to partake of will depend on your imagination and creativity!

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Sex Radar Lover - Long Distance BDSM Ideas

Congratulations! You have chosen to embark on a long distance BDSM long distance relationship. With some tweaks, your relationship will work wonderful for both of you.

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Sexy Role Play Scenes, Vol 1

Role play can be a great addition to any sex life. Or even a cool way to spice things up on a date or just a regular sex night (or morning? Wink) You do need to plan ahead in order to get the most out of it; role play is not an improvised thing.

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Sexy Role Play Scenes, Vol 2

Role play can be a great way to have some fun and practice your creativity skills. Even if you haven’t practiced it before, it can be a great way to connect with your partner in a different way.

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Shock to the System: Bringing Sensory Play into Your Lives

Sensory play it’s a good way to spice up your sex life and try something different. There are several ways you can bring it to your life, depending on what you like exactly and how intense do you want it to be.

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Sissy Slave Humiliation List, Pt. 1

If you have a sissy slave, chances are you are constantly looking for new ways to humiliate them. And sometimes you run out of ideas, so how about you read on to find some creativity.

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Sissy Slave Humiliation List, Pt. 2

If you’re looking for some inspiration to humiliate your sissy slave, this list might give you some ideas. The good thing is, even if you don’t do it exactly like it says, you can always adapt it your needs or give it your own twist.

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Slap Happy Sub Play - A Guide to Properly Spank Your Sub

Over the knee spankings are a common request for a lot of people out there…I’m guessing you’re here because you are on that band as well, right?

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Speak Friend & Enter - How to Have Safe Pegging Playtime!

The Bend over Boyfriend or pegging position is something that attracts a lot of men and women just the same. Anal pleasure has been gaining more and more steam throughout the years and if you ask me, that’s wonderful!

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Stimulated & Safe - Practicing Sensory Play Together!

Although it may seem harmless, you will always need to practice some safety measures when you’re playing with something BDSM related… but I’m sure you already knew that, right? Wink*.

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Switch Dynamics: Who gets tied up tonight?

Dan flips a coin, Michelle calls it in the air... Heads. The coin slowly flips and tumbles its way to the floor. They both wait for it with anticipation. The coin hits the floor and rolls a bit before finally landing in its resting spot.

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Taking the Plunge Together: Guidelines for Pegging

When it comes to pegging, you should obviously have a lot of fun. But in order for you and your partner to have fun, you will need to follow some guidelines to make the most out of this wonderful experience.

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Tempting Transformation - Creating a Dominatrix Persona

Being a dominatrix a lot of fun…for both the submissive and the dominatrix, of course wink*. If you are just starting out in this wonderful world, you may be eager for some tips and that is why I’m here for today.

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The Awesome Power of BDSM Gags - Playing Safe & Secure!

If you are new to the BDSM world, you may have heard the term gag just about a million times… And you may have been to embarrassed to ask what it actually means and entails and why do people do it?

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The Bad Touch - The ‘Don’ts’ of Humiliation Training

There are plenty of things involved in humiliation training. And as you know, everyone should be able to adapt it to their own needs. We always say you should find what works exactly for you and your partner.

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The Basic Aspects of Pegging

When it comes to pegging, there will be some things you must know before you try it. More than what it is or how it’s done, there are three basic aspects there are key in the act of pegging your partner.

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The Fulfilling Effects of Male Chastity on your Relationship

Male chastity can be incredibly fun and it’s a great way to add a little something special to your relationship. Although it may sound scary at first, it’s actually one of the most fulfilling sexually related experiences out there.

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The golden sex years

Like I said, every age will have its differences. Obviously sex at 60 or 70 will not be the same as when you where 30, but in some cases it can actually get better.

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The Passion Puzzle: Keeping Your Sexual Relationship Interesting

It’s proven: that mad lust and desire you feel for your partner will most likely fade in 18 months. But that doesn’t mean you will stop having sex. It just means that uncontrollable need for your partner will be a bit more subdued.

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The Submissive’s Checklist!

There are several things a submissive has to keep in mind when they enter a submissive - dominant relationship. They will need to be respectful, tend to their master and obey them, for instance.

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The Submissive’s Mantras

The submissive mindset is a curious thing. For your relationship to work you need to obey your Master and that is the way it should be. However this can make up for some trickier things.

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Tied Together: Bringing Bondage Into Your Relationship!

Trying new things and experimenting with new things is a part of life. Humans are constantly evolving and changing, and our sex lives are definitely not an exception.

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Tips for Expecting Bondsters

Pregnancy and bondage are not two words that you would necessarily expect to go together, but it's possible. In my case, one was a direct result of the other. *giggle* As you may have guessed, I received a visit from the stork.

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Toucha-Toucha-Touch Me! Improving Sex Together with Intimacy

If you are looking to strengthen the bond between you and your partner, sex may be a great way to do so. But how can you improve the sex you are having?

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Two to Tango - What Sex Toys Will Work for Us?

Have you heard sex toys are in? Everyday it seems to be someone new starts to get into the sex toy fever and if you ask me, I couldn’t be happier people are starting to explore new ways to achieve pleasurable experiences wink*.

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What is Cuckolding and Why Should We Try It?

Cuckolding is one of the most common searched terms out there so it’s safe to assume it’s one of the most common fantasies.

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What is submission?

Submission is a mystery to many. What is submission? Is it real? How do I get there? Is it safe? How will I know if I am in submission? How does it feel?

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Why Sex Gets Better As You Get Older!

This might come as a shock for you but sex actually gets better in time, just like wine. And by better, we mean the quality of it increases significantly thanks to different factors that you achieve along your years of experience.

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Yes, Ma’am - Taking Control As A New Dominatrix

If you’ve never thought you could be more dominant in the bedroom, think again. Experimenting with domination is a great way to explore your own sexuality, try something different with your partner and most of all, have plenty of fun!

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Yes You Can! Keys to a Healthy Heterosexual Relationship

Coming out as a cross dresser to your partner can be both an exciting and terrifying moment at the same time. Whatever your specific case is, there is one thing that is true no matter the situation: the relationship dynamics will change.

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You Belong To Me - Training Boundaries for your new BDSM Sissy Slave

A sissy slave loves to please their Mistress or Master, obviously. During the training process you will experience a great amount of things, depending on the activities your master/mistress decides and how long the sessions are.

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Your Benevolent Master - Caring For Your Slave During & After Humiliation Training

If you are looking to initiate some humiliation training, there are some things you need to keep in mind before you begin. You should obviously have a discussion with your partner/slave because as you know, communication is key in all relationships.

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Your First Time: Wearing a Dildo Harness

Your first time wearing a dildo harness can be somewhat intimidating (just like any first times, really) but you don’t need to worry about it. The first thing you need to know is, for your dildo to work, it will need to have a flared base.

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