More Talk About Sex and Relationships

When you are first starting out it pays very well to listen carefully when people talk about their role orientation. Communication is a two-way street and nurturing a dialog will give you a much better idea of how they see themselves and their interests.

Have you ever stood in an ice cream shop and thought to yourself: "I would love to have the most boring and plain flavor in the place" Yeah, me neither.

Top drop, sub drop. These are terms used to describe some of the feelings experienced after a BDSM scene. You hear a lot about sub drop but not so much about top drop.

Male chastity can be incredibly fun and it’s a great way to add a little something special to your relationship. Besides, although it may sound scary at first, it’s actually one of the most fulfilling sexual related experiences out there.

If you often fantasy about cuckolding…welcome to the club, you’re not alone! Wink*. That one is definitely one of the most common fantasies out there, among both women and men.

Dating is hard enough as it is, so figuring out the right time to engage in a sexual relationship can make you question everything about life and everything else (although this may not be totally true…isn’t the answer always 42? geek reference, sorry, couldn’t help it wink*)

Unfortunately, long distance relationships happen nowadays. If you and your partner find yourselves in this position here are some tips and tricks to help you overcome the obstacles and struggles that this type of relationship implies.

Let’s take a look at some useful tips and tricks that will keep your sexual life intense and entertaining for the long run without having to cheat on your partner! Sex is teamwork and it should be enjoyed equally by both partners!

Relationships are a bit complicated just as they are, so imagine adding BDSM and long distance to the mix. How can you be with someone when being physical is such as big part of a relationship?

If you are a dominant in a relationship, you may know most times things don’t stop outside the bedroom. The job of a dominant is never done…so you can continue the training even in public. Obviously not all of it, wink*.

New Year’s just around the corner and like other lovers, maybe you’re planning to revamp your relationship and make it better. We’ve made a list of kinky New Year resolutions that will not only increase libido but will also make your relationship healthier and happier.

Even if you feel you are a natural submissive, truth is, a great submissive is not born, it is made wink*. Every one can learn some things to be a better submissive; besides, you need to get in the right mindset in order to achieve all your goals.

Sadly, some have perverted sex positivity to make it mean something else that it isn’t. I want to bust the BS beliefs that some associate with sex positivity.

When it comes to BDSM scenes, lesbian couples are spoiled with a lot of fetishes and fantasies that they can indulge into. And ladies know the best way to reach sexual satisfaction by using all their secret weapons.

A sexually transmitted infection (AKA: STI) is an infection that gets passed on from people to people through sexual contact. This contact is not reserved to coitus, it can happen with oral, anal and vaginal sex.

If you are a woman looking forward to trying pegging on your partner, you may be unsure as to exactly how to approach the subject.

If you had not noticed, sex after coming out as a cross dresser changes, wink*… But that is not a bad thing! It’s just that things will be a bit different, that is all.

A long distance BDSM relationship might seem impossible for some of you but it is not like that at all! Actually, there are many couples that are forced to live their relationship with more than just a few miles in between them.

Your sexual life can be lived in the name of love or in the name of lust, or, even in the name of both these exciting concepts. But how to tell the difference and how to learn to enjoy both aspects just as intense?

If there is one activity that can bring you (and your partner) endless time of games and fun, it’s sissy play. Plenty of men are into it (probably more than you think!), so chances are you are already partaking in some sissy related fun.

Senses are the primary thing we use in our everyday life. They are basically what we need to survive and move into the world; our window to the world.

Everything you've read about men in women's magazines is bullshit. (And most of what you've read in them just in general, from what I understand.)

If you are a submissive, it may take you some time finding the perfect dominant for you. And that is ok; we’ve all been there. Choosing someone can be hard because this is a very strong commitment you’ll be sharing.

Trying some dominant-submissive play in the bedroom is always a good idea. This is a great opportunity to have fun and experience the psychological experience of dominating someone.

Some people believe we are all attracted at least a little bit to our friends. And while that may not always be the case, we can often find ourselves wanting to flirt with some of them.

Some couples tend to fall into a sexual routine over the years. It is never a good thing for your relationship and so you should avoid it at all costs. Here are some of the hottest fetishes and sex games you and your lover can dive into!

Sometimes it can be really good to ask a guy you like some naughty questions. You can ask him a few mischievous questions to get him all hot and bothered because hey, who doesn’t like to talk dirty?

Starting a relationship with a new partner is a wonderful thing. And the first time you become intimate with each other is usually as thrilling as it is nerve wracking.

We all have our own secret fantasies, buried deep down inside our mind. We all have that desire we keep hidden from the world. But why? What are we afraid of? Are we afraid that we will be judged for our desire?

Sometimes, it is required to draw a contract in a pet play relationship. The arrangement will be different for each couple; the terms will vary and can include sexual behaviors, activities and mannerisms.

Looking for a submissive to share your kinks is a process. Once you know what you want, how to achieve those goals, and what you want in a partner/relationship.

It happens to the best of us. You meet the lover of your dreams. You believe he or she is the best person you have ever met. You immediately fall hard and end up in a whirlwind relationship.

Training a sissy sub is quite complex but very rewarding. If you are interested on it, you will have to look out for the best method for you and your partner.

Pegging is a fairly common fantasy for both men and women, so it’s not a surprise so many couples are trying it. If you’re not sure about where to start with this process of introducing pegging to your relationship, you’re not alone.

You may believe this is a thing that people only do in movies, but it is quite common so don’t get intimidated; it is actually quite easy.

People have a wide variety of tastes. And for BDSM, finding that flavor is even more important. Figuring out what you like can take time but it is a necessity.

The practice of Tantric sex has been around for about 5000 years, even longer than me and my infinite wisdom… wink*These practices look to create a connection between a couple to increase their intimacy and eventually achieve a higher level of spirituality.

Long-term relationships are wonderful. However, they do have a lot of challenges. The more aware you are of these challenges, the more chances that you can overcome them and continue the happy and healthy connection that you have with your partner.

In my opinion, relationships are like plants (plants that bring you a lot of happiness) but you do need to take good care of them in order for the plants to thrive. So while I am certainly not an expert, I do have some pieces of advice to offer you.

Gags are of the most popular forms of BDSM play and while fun, they can also be very dangerous if you don’t take the necessary measures.

Ohh…how nice would it be to seduce the man of your dreams … It doesn't even have to be the man of your dreams, I mean, if you could just take home the cute guy you keep bumping in to, that'd be great.

Sometimes you just want to have a passionate night of sex with no strings attached. In this modern era, this idea is totally great! However, you do need to learn how to do it right.

Sensuality and sexuality are distant cousins. Though they are related because they somewhat share the same bloodline, the two offer different definitions.Sensuality is the more exciting part of intimacy.

Sissy play is incredibly fun to engage in. As with any form on bondage, there are different ways to do it and how you practice it and what you choose to partake of will depend on your imagination and creativity!

The dating world can be as ferocious as the wild animal kingdom: unexpected, weird and ruthless. Sadly, our society has completely engrained a set of rules in our minds about dating and sex since the dawn of the time.

You might have heard sex gets better with time. Even if it is a fact, it doesn’t just happen on its own in particular when men and women reach middle age.

Sex games, not fetishes necessarily even if some of them might be defined as fetishes or intense fantasies. So let’s take a look at the most entertaining sex games that you can play with your lover and how you can make the most out of them!

Congratulations! You have chosen to embark on a long distance BDSM long distance relationship. With some tweaks, your relationship will work wonderful for both of you.

There is nothing like a sexy surprise to give your lover like an unforgettable night when you celebrate your anniversary or for a special holiday and even when there is no special occasion. So, let’s see some useful tricks and tips to set up a great sex scene and surprise your lover!

Gay couples can be considered lucky given all the options they have when it comes to enjoying an intense sexual encounter. Nowadays, gay couples are encouraged to explore their sexuality and express it within their intimate relationships.

They say, “you can’t really love anyone else until you love yourself”. And maybe this really applies to self love as well. We all want a healthy sex life. Specifically, we all crave for a life filled with delicious intimacy - not just with others but also with ourselves.

Grinding with a guy is a great way to turn him on… in a sort of subtle style, wink* There is something arousing and sexy about pressing your butt against his crotch… and feeling it get larger by the minute, of course.

Who doesn’t love foreplay? I mean, if you love pleasure and fun things you probably love foreplay too. If you only have a limited repertoire during foreplay with your man, let’s resolve this right now with more hot ideas *wink*

Role play can be a great addition to any sex life. Or even a cool way to spice things up on a date or just a regular sex night (or morning? Wink) You do need to plan ahead in order to get the most out of it; role play is not an improvised thing.

A woman’s body goes through a lot of changes and every age has its beauties especially when it comes to sexual experiences and preferences.So, let’s see what are the most important side effects that menopause can have on women, with a few exceptions that confirm the rule.

Role play can be a great way to have some fun and practice your creativity skills. Even if you haven’t practiced it before, it can be a great way to connect with your partner in a different way.

Contrary to popular belief, feeling sexy does not simply happen every day. You need to practice it… and practice it until you make it a habit *wink*.

Sensory play it’s a good way to spice up your sex life and try something different. There are several ways you can bring it to your life, depending on what you like exactly and how intense do you want it to be.

The internet is full of sexual advices for what we tend to consider “traditional relationships”, the heterosexual, woman-man couple. However, we tend to forget that is not always the case.

If you have a sissy slave, chances are you are constantly looking for new ways to humiliate them. And sometimes you run out of ideas, so how about you read on to find some creativity.

If you’re looking for some inspiration to humiliate your sissy slave, this list might give you some ideas. The good thing is, even if you don’t do it exactly like it says, you can always adapt it your needs or give it your own twist.

Over the knee spankings are a common request for a lot of people out there…I’m guessing you’re here because you are on that band as well, right?

The Bend over Boyfriend or pegging position is something that attracts a lot of men and women just the same. Anal pleasure has been gaining more and more steam throughout the years and if you ask me, that’s wonderful!

Although it may seem harmless, you will always need to practice some safety measures when you’re playing with something BDSM related… but I’m sure you already knew that, right? Wink*.

Part of the beauty of flirting is you can’t make it too obvious; trying to catch the attention of a guy you like without seeming like it was your intention can be a bit difficult, but with a little bit of guidance you can totally get there.

Dan flips a coin, Michelle calls it in the air... Heads. The coin slowly flips and tumbles its way to the floor. They both wait for it with anticipation. The coin hits the floor and rolls a bit before finally landing in its resting spot.

When it comes to pegging, you should obviously have a lot of fun. But in order for you and your partner to have fun, you will need to follow some guidelines to make the most out of this wonderful experience.

Being a dominatrix a lot of fun…for both the submissive and the dominatrix, of course wink*. If you are just starting out in this wonderful world, you may be eager for some tips and that is why I’m here for today.

If you are new to the BDSM world, you may have heard the term gag just about a million times… And you may have been to embarrassed to ask what it actually means and entails and why do people do it?

When you like a girl, you want to charm her… that is a kind of the whole point wink* But most of the time, you are not quite sure what that means, and you can end up blowing your chances with her.

There are plenty of things involved in humiliation training. And as you know, everyone should be able to adapt it to their own needs. We always say you should find what works exactly for you and your partner.

As a rule, all men love receiving compliments, it is a known fact *wink* But usually we tend to give them the same compliments over and over again (‘You are so cute!’ or ‘I find you so attractive’).

This is what we will try to discover in this article to help make your gift hunt easier this Christmas. So let’s take a look at some of the most popular options you have!

Every so often, you may be in the mood to experience some new and exciting positions, but most definitely you would want to get the best orgasm of your life.

Probably one of the biggest complaints a woman would have when it comes to their male partners and sex, she wishes they would last longer in bed.

When it comes to sexual encounters, each couple has their own strategy to reach intense and exciting orgasms. So, let’s see at some of the things that you should avoid while you enjoy some intimate time with your partner!

When it comes to pegging, there will be some things you must know before you try it. More than what it is or how it’s done, there are three basic aspects there are key in the act of pegging your partner.

Human sexuality is very complex and this is not an effect of nowadays society, it is actually a historical fact. For many years this obvious nature of our existence was denied due to social conventions that had to be followed for one reason or another.

Male chastity can be incredibly fun and it’s a great way to add a little something special to your relationship. Although it may sound scary at first, it’s actually one of the most fulfilling sexually related experiences out there.

Like I said, every age will have its differences. Obviously sex at 60 or 70 will not be the same as when you where 30, but in some cases it can actually get better.

I’m going to tell you a secret it took me a long time to learn– happiness, just like truth, isn’t out there. It comes from within. Some have taken it onto themselves to pursue happiness.

It’s proven: that mad lust and desire you feel for your partner will most likely fade in 18 months. But that doesn’t mean you will stop having sex. It just means that uncontrollable need for your partner will be a bit more subdued.

Do you know what powers shame? It is silence. Shame thrives in an environment where things remain unspoken. Shame grows when judgment surrounds the proper expression of it.

There are several things a submissive has to keep in mind when they enter a submissive - dominant relationship. They will need to be respectful, tend to their master and obey them, for instance.

The submissive mindset is a curious thing. For your relationship to work you need to obey your Master and that is the way it should be. However this can make up for some trickier things.

For some reason - it has been imposed on men for centuries and centuries - guys really do love a good chase when it comes to women. Maybe this is why women like to play hard to get?

We live in a world where more and more couples are engaging in occasional threesomes. You may have thought about doing one with your partner, but don’t know if it is hard to find that third member for it.

One of the biggest taboos out there is having sex when the woman is on her period. Some couples opt for other options when it is that time of the month (like oral sex or masturbation) because they don’t think actual penetration is on the table.

Oooh…so you went on a couple of dates, there was an attraction and you had sex…so now what? Having a woman over at your house could be a source of nervousness, especially if you really like her.

Trying new things and experimenting with new things is a part of life. Humans are constantly evolving and changing, and our sex lives are definitely not an exception.

The pressure of a good first date can be overwhelming. After all, you want it to be perfect. You want to create a special connection with someone you like so you are hopeful it will end in a relationship.

Pregnancy and bondage are not two words that you would necessarily expect to go together, but it's possible. In my case, one was a direct result of the other. *giggle* As you may have guessed, I received a visit from the stork.

Starting a relationship with a new partner is a wonderful thing. At this point, the butterflies in your stomachs are very much alive. Your adrenaline is very high that the first time you become intimate with each other is usually as thrilling as it is nerve-wracking.

Nowadays, couples come in many forms and with different values depending on the two partners involved in the intimate relationship. If you have never been involved in such a relationship, here are the main advantages of it you might be missing out on!

Sex games, not necessarily fetishes (though some of them might be defined as fetishes or intense fantasies) are fun, exciting, entertaining. So, let’s see what some of the most entertaining sex games you can play with your lover and how you can make the most out of them!

Gay couples are fortunate when it comes to the variety they can add to their sex life. Indeed, the only thing to keep them from falling into some sort of sexual routine is their own restrictions.

If you are looking to strengthen the bond between you and your partner, sex may be a great way to do so. But how can you improve the sex you are having?

Flirting by text can be a great way to strengthen the connection between you and your crush. Sending him or her a text every once in a while can help them think about you more often; this way you will always be on their mind.

Some people believe we are all attracted at least a little bit to our friends. And while that may not always be the case, we can often find ourselves wanting to flirt with some of them.

Have you heard sex toys are in? Everyday it seems to be someone new starts to get into the sex toy fever and if you ask me, I couldn’t be happier people are starting to explore new ways to achieve pleasurable experiences wink*.

But when men are approaching women, there could be a very fine line between what they enjoy and what they don’t enjoy. So what are the things you should avoid if you want to be a respectful man?

Cuckolding is one of the most common searched terms out there so it’s safe to assume it’s one of the most common fantasies.

Submission is a mystery to many. What is submission? Is it real? How do I get there? Is it safe? How will I know if I am in submission? How does it feel?

There are several aspects to keep in mind when it comes to foreplay. If you want to find out more about them to have the best sexual experiences in your life, keep on reading.

In the BDSM community, anal play and anal fetishes are highly appreciated by both submissives and dominants. Each one uses their imagination to find new ways to please themselves and their partners by inducing more sexual stimulation.

Delicious sex becomes even more delicious if you and your partner are on the same – sexual, if not kinky – page. Different sexual strokes work for different folks.

How does a BDSM lifestyle inspire love? Let me count the ways. But wait, what is love anyway? Love is always concerned about the welfare of the other. It also makes sure it takes care of the self.

If you are debating on this idea but you haven’t made up your mind just yet, here are some arguments to help you decide whether or not you should invite a guest in your bedroom.

This might come as a shock for you but sex actually gets better in time, just like wine. And by better, we mean the quality of it increases significantly thanks to different factors that you achieve along your years of experience.

If you’ve never thought you could be more dominant in the bedroom, think again. Experimenting with domination is a great way to explore your own sexuality, try something different with your partner and most of all, have plenty of fun!

Coming out as a cross dresser to your partner can be both an exciting and terrifying moment at the same time. Whatever your specific case is, there is one thing that is true no matter the situation: the relationship dynamics will change.

A sissy slave loves to please their Mistress or Master, obviously. During the training process you will experience a great amount of things, depending on the activities your master/mistress decides and how long the sessions are.

If you are looking to initiate some humiliation training, there are some things you need to keep in mind before you begin. You should obviously have a discussion with your partner/slave because as you know, communication is key in all relationships.

Your first time wearing a dildo harness can be somewhat intimidating (just like any first times, really) but you don’t need to worry about it. The first thing you need to know is, for your dildo to work, it will need to have a flared base.