Your Ultimate Guides to Bondage For Beginners - Part 2

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Facts About BDSM That Fifty Shades of Grey Left Out

Fifty Shades of Grey caught everyone’s attention upon its publication a few years ago, and it seemed to remain in the spotlight for quite some time.

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Flipping the Switch - Understanding BDSM Sissy Slaves

You may have heard of that term before but don’t really know what it means. And if you don’t know what it is, how could you know if you want to try it? Wink*.

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Fun, Fearless Bondage Sex

There's nothing I love more than a good chat about bondage sex. Well, maybe a little role play of some bondage sex with my lover. But other than that, nothing better.

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Fun with ‘BOB & Peg’ - Pegging for Beginners!

Congratulations! You’re here because you want to try pegging. Or you may be here because you’re not entirely sure on what it consists? Pegging is the act where a man is anally penetrated by a female partner.

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Get Bound & Wound Up - Bondage Wrap Basics & Applications

When you want to tie someone up and have your wicked way with them, ropes are probably the first thing you are thinking about…or chains, depending on preference wink*.

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Get Caught Up In You - Bondage Wrap Play for Beginners

Bondage or vet wrap is a piece of stretchy and flexible fabric commonly used on bondage scenarios and bondage play. It was first used in the real life world by veterinarians, but it has evolved into being used for some more…entertainment related uses wink*.

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Get Connected With Online BDSM Relationships

Plenty of people start relationships online. With the rise of technology, is not a surprise a majority of people are finding their partner in the World Wide Web. And this number is growing even more when it comes to BDSM relationships.

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Get Pumped! What You Need to Know About Penis Pumps

If you’re ready to try a penis pump and start reaping the benefits, you may want to pay attention to these helpful tips before you start pumping at your heart’s desire wink*.

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Getting into BDSM

An interest in BDSM can happen overnight or can be brewing for quite some time. But it’s important to know what kind of interest you have exactly. To begin with, keep in mind there is no “right way” to practice BDSM, basically it’s whatever you and your partner enjoy and what you guys make of it, wink*.

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Getting The Bondage Basics Down - Beginner Items For BDSM Bondage Play

Getting into bondage can be intimidating, especially if you’ve never really experimented with sex. Don’t worry – it can actually be really rewarding and exhilarating. Especially with the right toys.

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Good Vibrations: You & Your Vibrating Toys

Vibrators are a girl’s best friend… or so they say right? Wink* These are one of the main toys and principal equipment needed in order to get in charge of your own sexuality and of your own orgasms.

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Hand Pumped & Home Grown - Cock Pump Penis Enlargement & You!

Cock pumps are a great way to enhance and achieve your complete penis potential. It’s also great to improve overall men’s health and of great help if you suffer from Erectile Dysfunction.

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Having a ball (gag)!

Gags are used to silence a much active submissive during bondage sessions…or to mute a talkative partner wink*.They exist in several types, but probably the most common ones are the good ol’ ball gags.

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Here’s Why a Spreader Bar is Your New Toy

Spreader bars can be used in a wide variety of sex scenes. Once you figure it out, your sex life will never be the same. So, keep reading to see how you can make the most out of a spreader bar and why should you add it to you sex life.

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Here’s Why People Do BDSM

BDSM enthusiasts are interesting individuals. Indeed, their sexual preferences as well as their fetishes speak for themselves. It takes a person who is highly in touch with their sexuality to indulge in any of the many BDSM practices.

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“Hi Love, Do You Want to Try Bondage?” - Asking the Question in Your Relationship

Having a new partner it’s always exciting and a bit nerve wracking as well. You don’t know what they enjoy in bed or what turns them on and they don’t know those things about you either.

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Home Alone & Horny - Arm & Leg Self Bondage

Tying your arms and legs it’s one of the most common ideas when someone wants to try self bondage. And it’s easy to see why; most of us are rendered useless when we can’t use our arms and legs, obviously.

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How to be a Dominatrix

Being a dominatrix involves a lot of things. It’s a mix of several aspects; combining attire, toys, a scene, and of course, the right attitude. Being a dominatrix is a state of mind and you need to work and put a little effort in order to do get into it.

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How To Be A Good Dominant For Your Partner, Part 1

What makes a good dominant? The answer may vary from person to person. But there are some aspects that are universal. These are some characteristics submissives appreciate; a relationship can benefit highly from practicing some of these qualities.

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How to be a Safe & Sexy Dominatrix

Being a dominatrix can seem like a piece of cake, but it’s actually harder than it looks. There are not just outfits and props, there’s a lot more than that.

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How to be Sexually Submissive

Anyone can see or hear of bondage and decide that it sounds like a sensual delight that they'd like to pursue. Or, is that just me? *wink*

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How to Be the Slave Master Craves

Pleasing Master is such a big part of a sub role—every action, big or small, can help to contribute to the stimulation and eroticism of experience as a whole.

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How to do a Bondage Collaring Ceremony

Collaring ceremonies share a lot in common with weddings. Both are done out of a desire to commit to someone in a more permanent way.

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How to do Bondage Rope Art

Bondage is an art form. Knowing your way around the ropes, literally (he he) can be quite helpful when you are trying to spice things up in the bedroom.

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How to do Bondage Rope Ties

Learning how to make the right knots and wraps when you are playing withbondage can take some time, at the end of the day is completely worth it. Let’s take a look at how to make some of the most common (and basic!) ones, shall we?

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How to do erotic CBT

Genital torture can come in a lot of ways, but I know sometimes we get stuck in the same route. It’s natural to settle into a sort of routine but occasionally we want something different or new.

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How to do Self Bondage Part 2

Self bondage is only the act of restraining or putting yourself in bondage alone, any time you want and for as long as you wish. Alternately, you can have someone else release you, after you are done playing with yourself.

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How to Gag Your Lover

Nothing like a title that garners attention is there? Ha! I can just see men jumping into this while muttering things like "I already know plenty of ways to gag my girl."

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How to have an Online BDSM relationship

Plenty of people start relationships online. With the rise of technology, is not a surprise a majority of people are finding their partner in the World Wide Web. And this number is growing even more when it comes to BDSM relationships.

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How to prepare a great “Interrogation scene”

An interrogation scene in the BDSM community develops with the dominant partner being the interrogator or torturer while the submissive partner or the slave is person being interrogated orthe victim.

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How to Safely Dominate your Lover

When you have a new submissive, you need to discuss the boundaries and hard limits with them. And before you even start discussing limits, you need to make sure the relationship will head in the same way you two are expecting.

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How to Set Up a Scene

Regardless of being Dom/me or sub, the scene that is set up for a session will play an important role in enhancing the experience. Maybe the best way to think of it in terms of scene is that BDSM is a form of performance, an art.

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How to Tie Up Your Lover

Tying people up is always fun. Well, tying people up and then having your wicked way with them is 10 times more fun actually. But as we all know, in theory a lot of things are fun…doing them is something else.

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How To Turn Your Bedroom Into The Red Room

Bedrooms serve multiple purposes such as: relaxation, intimacy, fantasies, sexual experiences, resting, but all of them have one thing in common-comfort.

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How to Use a Cock Pump

There are plenty of reasons why you want to use a cock pump. The main reason being, you can increase your penis size and circumference. On the other hand, if you suffer from Erectile Dysfunction, a cock pump just might be exactly the most natural solution you are looking for.

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How to Use Ben Wa Balls

Ok, so now that you’re all excited to try Ben Wa Balls, you are probably wondering how to put them on. It’s actually extremely easy, and although there can be some variations depending on the type of balls you have (no pun intended wink*), the process is the same.

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How to Use Bondage Tape

Looking to enhance your sex life and add a little bit of kink? Bondage tape is a great way to add a bondage restraint, collar, blindfold, leash or whatever you can think of…easily and inexpensively.

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How to Use Bondage Tape-2

Looking to enhance your sex life and add a little bit of kink? Bondage tape is a great way to add a bondage restraint, collar, blindfold, leash or whatever you can think of…easily and inexpensively.

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If the Cuff Fits: Topping from the Bottom

When you are first starting out it pays very well to listen carefully when people talk about their role orientation. Communication is a two-way street and nurturing a dialog will give you a much better idea of how they see themselves and their interests.

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Importance of Aftercare: Sub Drop, It's Not All About the Chocolate

Top drop, sub drop. These are terms used to describe some of the feelings experienced after a BDSM scene. You hear a lot about sub drop but not so much about top drop.

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In Charge: How to Be A Good Dungeon Monitor

The role of a dungeon monitor is quite simple: making sure everyone is having a good time while maintaining the party/house rules. But just because is simple doesn’t mean everyone can do it.

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Inside the BDSM Toolbox: The Right Spanking Tool for the Job

You know how the saying goes, different spanks, different tools…isn’t that the way it goes? Wink*. There is a variety of equipment you can use and each and every one of them will create a different spanking, so choose carefully wink*.

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Inside the Cage - Things to Know Before Your First Time With Male Chastity

Male chastity can be incredibly fun and it’s a great way to add a little something special to your relationship. Besides, although it may sound scary at first, it’s actually one of the most fulfilling sexual related experiences out there.

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Into the Dark - Sensory Deprivation Play With Bondage Hoods

Sensory deprivation is one of the most popular forms of play out there. And if you are of those who love to incorporate it to their lives, you will need a hood.

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It’s a Cinch! Self-Bondage Wrist Tying

Every person who loves bondage must know how to tie a mean cinch knot. It’s one of the keys in order to do a lot fun scenarios and have a lot of fun in general. Cinch nooses are basically slip knots with a lot of friction.

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Japanese Breast Bondage Techniques - Let’s tie a Shinju!

If you have dreamt about doing this Japanese breast bondage and have no idea how, I’ve got your back, so no worries there! Wink*. This is a very easy version that can be done in a few minutes, so it’s great for beginners.

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Japanese Rope Bondage

Japanese style rope bondage is incredibly beautiful and has many adepts; it’s easy to see why, it looks incredibly sophisticated and elegant, creating spectacular visions.

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Jelqing - Taking Cock Pumping Into Your Own Hands!

Jelqing is a must if you want to use a cock pump or want to exercise your penis to enlarge it. But you may be wondering, what is jelqing? Well, it’s just a method that has been used as a warm up or as a penis enlargement method for the penis.

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Keeping BDSM Alive In Your Long Distance Relationship 

Relationships are a bit complicated just as they are, so imagine adding BDSM andlong distance to the mix. How can you be with someone when being physical is such as big part of a relationship?

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Larger Than Life - Why You Could Benefit From Using Penis Pumps

You’ve probably seen millions of penis pumps over the years and wondered why you would want to try them sometimes. “What is the point of penis pumps? Are they for me?”

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Laying Down The Law - Setting Dominatrix Rules To Try With Your Sub

When it comes to being a good dominatrix, there are some things you need to keep in mind. Besides confidence, the right outfit, the props you will use, and a general idea about the scene, your will need the right attitude.

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Learn the Basics - BDSM Terms Defined

If you are starting on the BDSM scene, there are some terms and definitions you may not understand completely. And that is fine, we were all novice at some point in our lives (some longer than others, though), wink*

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Learn to Love Being Submissive to your Master!

Even if you feel you are a natural submissive, truth is, a great submissive is not born, it is made wink*. Every one can learn some things to be a better submissive; besides, you need to get in the right mindset in order to achieve all your goals.

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Learn to Love the Rope Self Bondage Rope Basics

If you are curious about self bondage but don’t know where to start, this is for you (I’m a mind reader). Keep in mind safety it’s first and should always have a pair of scissors or a knife near you to get out.

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Learning The Ropes - BDSM Rope Bondage For Beginners

Rope bondage is a common practice in the BDSM community, however knowing how to use your rope and to work with it demands a lot of work and dedication, so to speak.

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Leatherette FAQ

Leatherette is a great idea and extreme fun, especially for couples who travel back and forth between jobs, homes, and vacations. You’ll never have to worry if you leave your product behind.

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Leatherette FAQs

Leatherette is a man made material made to feel and look like leather. Also, known as Pleather, it's a mix of different fabrics known for being easy on the pocketbook and has general look which is similar to leather, without the leather cost.

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Little Black YES! Your Latex Aftercare Questions Answered!

Chances are the first time you try to shine your piece, it will look shiny for a few moments but it will then lose it; but fear not, the shine will increase every time you polish and shine your piece because latex will retain the shine in its pores.

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Male Chastity Contracts

Want to make it official with your man and his chastity device? If you want to make it official, you will need a contract. Here are some guidelines as an example of how it could be.

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Master’s Torture Chamber - Cock & Ball Torture

Genital torture can be a wonderful thing, even though the name implies something else wink*. Torturing the genitals is actually about that dual nature of alternating pleasure with pain.

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Mate Into Bondage

Wow - this is a question I get a lot! There are a few things you need to know when you finally muster the courage and decide to tell your significant other that: 1) You enjoy aspects of bondage and/or S/M. 2) You'd like them to play along.

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Mistress At Play - Being The Dominant Woman

Trying some dominant-submissive play in the bedroom is always a good idea. This is a great opportunity to have fun and experience the psychological experience of dominating someone.

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More Than a Mouthful! All About Gags!

In gags you will find the spice of life, right? Wink*. Everyone has a favorite…although, why choose? You can have all you want… On one hand, ball gags continue to be the most popular ones.

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More Than A Mouthful Proper Wear & Care of Your Gag!

Once you get the green light from a person to wear a gag, it’s really easy to put the toy on them. It can vary depending on the type, but the general rules are quite the same. Come and join me in this journey towards learning how to put on a gag.

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My First Time - Being a Dungeon Monitor

A dungeon monitor is simply someone who makes sure the rules are being followed during a play scene or a party. Their job also entails creating a safe environment overall for everyone involved.

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Never the Same Twice - Exploring Breast Bondage Rope Tying Techniques

Because I’m sure you are extremely curious to know how exactly you do breast bondage,I’ve brought you this really informative article aboutbreast bondage techniques.

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New Beginnings

Just getting into bondage? Congratulations! It’s a fantastic adventure! One that I hope never ends! *g* Here are a few tips on how to make your new journey a little more fun!

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New to BDSM? Here’s what you need to know

We all have our own secret fantasies, buried deep down inside our mind. We all have that desire we keep hidden from the world. But why? What are we afraid of? Are we afraid that we will be judged for our desire?

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On The Hunt: Finding Your Submissive

Looking for a submissive to share your kinks is a process. Once you know what you want, how to achieve those goals, and what you want in a partner/relationship, it’s time to actively look for one.

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