Your Ultimate Guides to Bondage For Beginners - Part 3

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Performing Rope Tricks - How to Tie Your Own Self Bondage Rope Body Harness!

Body harnesses are useful if you want to use a little bondage in public or in your daily life. You can tie one and then get dressed as you would normally to go on with your daily life in public.

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Performing Rope Tricks - Self-Bondage Hogtie How-Tos!

Hogties are extremely fun, but they can be a bit harder to get if you like a bit of solo play or don’t have anyone around. But once you learn how to do it properly, things will get really easy, so how about we learn how to tie a hogtie on our own? Wink*.

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Picture Perfect - Identifying Your Sub’s Interests

People have a wide variety of tastes. And for BDSM, finding that flavor is even more important. Figuring out what you like can take time but it is a necessity.

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Pinch Me I’m Dreaming - Performing Self-Bondage with Nipple Clamps

Nipple clamps are one of the most popular toys out there. They provide that wonderful feeling between pain and pleasure that many of us look after, am I right?

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Practice Your ‘Lymbnastics’ By Tying Your Partner Up!

You can practice bondage is many different ways and you can tie your partner in many different ways. And I’m referring to tying in particular because almost anyone’s fantasy is precisely that.

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Proper Spanking Warm-Ups for You & Your Sub!

Some may say a good spank it’s like a good work out and who can blame them? Wink*. But just as every other extraneous activity or work out, you need to do a proper warm up first; spanking it’s no different in that sense!

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Quick Bondage Wrap Ideas For Beginners!

Bondage wrap is a great way to practice some light bondage and have fun. It’s really easy to put it on and really easy to get it off, so it’s perfect for short scenes, beginners.

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Ready to go Deeper? Anal Play Advice for Before, During & After

If you want to indulge in a bit of anal sex, you need to be prepared. There’s no reason to be scared, anal sex can add a very different pleasure level to your sex life, but you do need to prepare and take some precautions.

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Rip it & Zip it! Making Tape Gags for Beginners

Tape gags are as popular and common as you’d expect, wink*. They are also very easy to get because you can make them yourself and you don’t need great training or technique to do so.

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Rope Bondage Style Guide

Thankfully for us, there are several styles and methods one can practice rope bondage (can I get a hurrah?). The basis of rope bondage is, well, tying people up with rope, but is not that simple as it sounds.

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Safety Gag-gles Check! Let’s (safely) wear gags!

Gags are of the most popular forms of BDSM play and while fun, they can also be very dangerous if you don’t take the necessary measures. Although gags are probably the most used, these safety precautions work for any of them.

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Setting BDSM Boundaries: Strict Rules For a Long Distance Bondage Affair

No long distance relationship is the same. Well, not any relationship is just like another as well…but you know what I mean wink*. What I’m talking about is, the relationship will depend on how long the partners have been together before separation and what their tastes.

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Safely Using Dildos for Anal, Vaginal, or Interchangeable Play

Dildos are one of the necessities and must have items a person has to have in their littletoy box. You can use a dildo for both vaginal and anal penetration, but you will need to know the difference between the two so you can choose the right one for your activity.

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Sex Radar Lover - Long Distance BDSM Ideas

Congratulations! You have chosen to embark on a long distance BDSM long distance relationship. With some tweaks, your relationship will work wonderful for both of you.

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Sex Tips 101: Finding a Balance Between Pleasure and Pain

The BDSM community is all about mixing different ways of sexual stimulation in order to increase pleasure and sexual satisfaction and the possibilities to do so are endless, because there is a fetish for everyone regardless the gender or sexual orientation of the partners.

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Sexy & Safe Erotic Domination

If you are sure you are ready to embark on the responsibility that entails being a dominant; it’s time to step up to the next level. First, you need to take a good introspective look at yourself.

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Sharing your BDSM Fantasies

Introducing the idea of bondage and BDSM to your partner can be a bit nerve wracking. Whether is a new partner with whom you want to share your lifestyle or an old one that you want to get interested in this newfound passion of yours.

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Shock to the System: Bringing Sensory Play into Your Lives

Sensory play it’s a good way to spice up your sex life and try something different. There are several ways you can bring it to your life, depending on what you like exactly and how intense do you want it to be.

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Sinking Your Teeth In - Safely Wearing Gags

Gags are of the most popular forms of BDSM play and while fun, they can also be very dangerous if you don’t take the necessary measures. Although gags are probably the most used, these safety precautions work for any of them.

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Sit, Stay, Beg! Try BDSM Pet Play With Your Partner!

Pet play is one of the ways a couple can practice BDSM and the D/S lifestyle. It has a great number of members and it’s quite a well-known subculture among the lifestyle.

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Slap Happy Sub Play - A Guide to Properly Spank Your Sub

Over the knee spankings are a common request for a lot of people out there…I’m guessing you’re here because you are on that band as well, right?

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Speak now or forever hold your peace: How gags can impact your sex life

If you are thinking to add a mouth gag to your sex life, you are on a path to discover a lot of interesting fetishes and fantasies that can change your intimate life for the better!

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Squeaky Clean Fun - How to Clean Your Latex Gear

As you may be aware, you will have to clean your latex goods fairly often in order to maintain and prolong the pieces life expectancy. Besides, you want to practice good hygiene and clean your pieces every time you wear them, of course.

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Stimulated & Safe - Practicing Sensory Play Together!

Although it may seem harmless, you will always need to practice some safety measures when you’re playing with something BDSM related… but I’m sure you already knew that, right? Wink*.

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Sweet Like Sugar-Cane - Properly Caning Your Sub

Caning is one the most common pleasurable aspects of BDSM. There are a lot of people who enjoy being canned…or use a can on somebody, in the other reverse case.

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Switch Dynamics: Who gets tied up tonight?

Dan flips a coin, Michelle calls it in the air... Heads. The coin slowly flips and tumbles its way to the floor. They both wait for it with anticipation. The coin hits the floor and rolls a bit before finally landing in its resting spot.

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Taking a Bite: All About Gag Types & Uses

In gags you will find the spice of life, right? Wink*. Everyone has a favorite…although, why choose? You can have all you want… On one hand, ball gags continue to be the most popular ones.

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The Awesome Power of BDSM Gags - Playing Safe & Secure!

If you are new to the BDSM world, you may have heard the term gag just about a million times… And you may have been to embarrassed to ask what it actually means and entails and why do people do it?

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The Best Bondage Accessories

Within the BDSM community, bondage is one of the most common practices used to discipline your slave. So, let’s see what are the most popular accessories to make a great and intense bondage scene.

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The Best Sex Toys To Use With Armbinders

Here is everything you need to know about armbinders and how to combine them with other sex toys to reach that intense orgasm that you always dreamed to have.

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The best sensory deprivation arsenal

Depending on the type of partner that you are, you might prefer one thing or the other but the fact is that every side of such a BDSM story is as exciting and as fascinating as it can be.

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The best types of sexual encounters for a sex hood

You might be curious about hoods but confused when it comes to the type of sex scenes that you can use them in. The good news is that you can add such sex accessories in a wide variety of sexual encounters.

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The Big Benefits of BDSM That No One is Talking About

The BDSM community seems to have a fetish and a fantasy for everyone and couples find a lot of sexual pleasure and satisfaction while diving into such sexual practices.

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The Four Benefits of Bondage for Married Couples

Marriage is one of the most beautiful things in life that could ever happen to you, so they say, but somehow you question yourself if this was ever true.

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The Fulfilling Effects of Male Chastity on your Relationship

Male chastity can be incredibly fun and it’s a great way to add a little something special to your relationship. Although it may sound scary at first, it’s actually one of the most fulfilling sexually related experiences out there.

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The Gift of Gag - Choosing the Right Gag For You!

Gags are extremely arousing both for the wearer as for the partner. Visually they are extremely stimulating and wearing them… well, I’m sure you can imagine what that entails, Wink*.

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The most original gags that you can find on the market

As popular as mouth gags are, the market covers as many different models as you would expect. Here are the most original gags that you can add to your sexual encounter!

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The submissive Role in BDSM

I think we can all agree every relationship, whether vanilla or BDSM, can benefit from some negotiation. Negotiation is nothing more than having a discussion about the practices and expectations about the relationship and the activities…

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The Submissive’s Mantras

The submissive mindset is a curious thing. For your relationship to work you need to obey your Master and that is the way it should be. However this can make up for some trickier things.

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The taming of the cock

Women are beautiful. I bet you could not find a person on this earth that disagrees. If we go a little deeper, into human sexuality, we find men can perceive women’s beauty in different ways.

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The ties that bind

After you decided to become the dominant in the relationship you started to get on the right mental state for it. Then you got some clothing that went with it and all the props you could need.

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The Ultimate Guide to Bondage Rope

One of the first things that I always get asked when it comes to bondage BDSM basics is: what kind of rope should I use? What bondage type is the one I should be doing? For beginners these questions can be quite vexing, especially if you don’t know where or how to start.

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The Whole ‘Kitten’ Kaboodle - Essential BDSM Pet Play Gear & Toys

In order to do some fun pet play you will need to acquire some necessary accessories. What exactly do you need and how many pieces and elements you get will be entirely dependent on your type of play.

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Tied Together: Bringing Bondage Into Your Relationship!

Trying new things and experimenting with new things is a part of life. Humans are constantly evolving and changing, and our sex lives are definitely not an exception.

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Tied & True - Trying Bondage Rope & Restraints

When you are a bondage beginner, you want to explore as many options as you can. The vast world of bondage has plenty of options for everyone, so it’s important to experiment and try new things in order to see what you like.

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Tips for Your First Bondage Experience

Here are some tips and tricks for light bondage to help you enjoy and get started in this fetish with your partner. You can choose to work your way up to more intense sexual practices related to it.

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Top 3 Ways to Rock Your First BDSM Night

The BDSM community has a variety of fetishes and fantasies for you and your lover to enjoy on your first kinky night together. Beginners to bondage and other BDSM practices might find it overwhelming to enjoy such sex games.

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Top 5 Reasons Hoods Are So Sexy

Bondage hoods are so much more than an accessory to complete your sexy outfit. As a matter of fact, in certain sexual encounters they might make the difference between a successful experience and a random one.

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Top Benefits of BDSM Sex for Your Creativity

Besides all the positive sexual aspects BDSM can bring to your life and relationship, it can also have a great impact on your skills and artistic side as well. In general, kinky sex can unlock aspects of your personality and mind to develop you as an individual.

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Try Urethral Sounding

As human beings we are profoundly curious. And most of the time that is definitely a good thing, especially when it comes to your body and sexuality because in this case, curiosity has not killed any cats, wink*.

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Trying out BDSM for the very first time?

So, you have decided to try out BDSM after all those years of reading about it on the internet. Well, you have made the right decision. In the world of BDSM, you are in for a lot.

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Two to Tango - What Sex Toys Will Work for Us?

Have you heard sex toys are in? Everyday it seems to be someone new starts to get into the sex toy fever and if you ask me, I couldn’t be happier people are starting to explore new ways to achieve pleasurable experiences wink*.

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Ultimate Guide to Spanking for Beginners

Spanking can be extremely fun, when it’s done properly. Spanks are so arousing because they increase blood flow to the area, thereby increasing sensitivity and creating a rush of endorphins, the happy hormones.

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Uses of Collars in BDSM

Collars are a way of demonstrating a commitment between partners in the BDSM community. Basically a collar is the highest level of commitment and it is never taken lightly between people, it is the real deal.

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Using Restraint - BDSM Wrist, Thigh, & Ankle Restraints Guide

We can all use some bondage in our lives, the doses will depend on your particular tastes wink*. As you know, bondage comes in a myriad of forms, so it’s up to you to decide exactly what you want.

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Viva Variety! Bondage as the All-Spice of Your Sex Life!

“New Year, New Life”, right? At least, that’s what everyone says. And as I’m sure most of you try to do a couple of resolutions or things to change/try on this New Year, your sex life shouldn’t be an exception.

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Wax Play 101

Wax play is one of the easiest ways to enjoy a nice sensual scene with your partner while adding just the right elements of pain/pleasure and eroticism. Wax play can be done a number of ways safely and without a lot of expense or physical exertion.

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Weighted Wearables - An Introduction to Cock & Ball Bondage Devices

When it comes to bondage, the possibilities are endless. It depends on what you like or what particular scene you want to try. But sometimes, something new may come in your way you didn’t thought about before…

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Well Trained Strokes - Penis Pumping Techniques

Using a pump is quite easy, especially once you get the hang of it. Once you’ve already learned the basics, how it works and why it works, you will be ready to start pumping. Well…not so fast.

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What can you combine an armbinder with?

Here is what you can combine your ambinders with, in case you want to discover new ways to entertain yourself and your lover in your intimate life.

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What is Cuckolding and Why Should We Try It?

Cuckolding is one of the most common searched terms out there so it’s safe to assume it’s one of the most common fantasies. Usually that fantasy comes with wanting to try it once, but cuckolding marriages/relationships are actually much more common than just one night flings.

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What is submission? 

Submission is a mystery to many. What is submission? Is it real? How do I get there? Is it safe? How will I know if I am in submission? How does it feel? If you are wondering these questions, then you have come to the right place.

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What other accessories you should try along with wearing a hood?

Hoods can make all the difference when it comes to successful sex scenes. They can bring a lot of excitement to you and they can direct your life to a completely new intimate path.

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What Rope Bondage Type is Best for You

Rope bondage is a great way to get into the BDSM spirit. You can do a lot with a rope so it might explain its popularity. Keep in mind no matter what form of rope bondage you choose to play, you need to learn how to tie a knot properly.

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What to Consider When Buying Sex Toys

“All men were created equal” – proclaimed Thomas Jefferson whilst writing the Declaration of Independence. This progressive, enlightened and status quo shattering concept defined a fledgling nation during a turning point in World History.

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What type of Submissive Are You?

Just as there are several types of dominants, there are several types of submissives. Everyone has a different relationship with BDSM and everyone likes it for particular reasons; sometimes it is actually a combination of several things.

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What You Need For Rope Bondage!

If you are starting out with bondage, it may feel overwhelming. And that is ok, is only natural to feel that way. There are only about a million techniques and equipment, wink*.

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When Pain becomes Pleasure

What is it that clearly defines our sexuality? Is it our thoughts, our deeds or perhaps even the delicious sensuality that washes over us in a deep haze of erotic desire? The sexual sensations that transition from pain into sexual pleasure?

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Whipping Techniques You Should Know About

Most whips usually produce a stinging sensation and you will feel it on the exterior. The other kinds of these toys can produce a thud and it would feel as if you were being pushed really hard.

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Why “Good Girls” Secretly Love Bondage

I was always brought up with the idea, “good girls don’t do that.” Whether it be kissing on the first date, cheating on an Algebra test, going in the 10 items or less line with 11 items, Good Girls just Don’t.

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Why Women Secretly Love Bondage

So you've tried all sex positions that every human mind could possibly think of from missionary to modified missionary, doggy-style and girl-on-top but somehow you feel like you need to still want to spice up your love-making moments.

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Wrap Like an Egyptian - Beginner’s Mummification Guide!

In order to have an immersive and full experience with bondage, you can try mummification. This is not for the faint of heart; after all you will be completely immobile and restricted.

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Why do gags enhance sex?

Mouth gags are popular for a wide variety of sex scenes, and not only those based on BDSM fetishes. You can use mouth gags during a vanilla sex scene or a medical play scene and have the same intense effect.

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Why do you feel so excited when your submissive partner is wearing a gag?

Wearing a gag or having your submissive wear one can be an exciting accessory to add to your sex scenes. And here are some reason to try gags when you want to reach new levels of sexual pleasure!

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Why you must add a collar to your seduction game

Collars can be very exciting accessories to complete your outfit with. But they also have an intense sexual effect on your partner and if you know how to make the most out of that, you can take your intimate life to new and more interesting levels.

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Yes, Ma’am - Taking Control As A New Dominatrix

If you’ve never thought you could be more dominant in the bedroom, think again. Experimenting with domination is a great way to explore your own sexuality, try something different with your partner and most of all, have plenty of fun!

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Your First Time: Wearing a Dildo Harness

Your first time wearing a dildo harness can be somewhat intimidating (just like any first times, really) but you don’t need to worry about it.

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