Your Ultimate Guides to Erotic Domination - Part 2

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Maid to Order: Having Fun Humiliating Your Sissy Sub

If there is one activity that can bring you (and your partner) endless time of games and fun, it’s sissy play. Plenty of men are into it (probably more than you think!)

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Male Orgasm Denial

They often say control is the key to power. Besides, who would disagree? "He who has control has everything" Oh, what a perfect saying…Except for a little detail. Change that "He" for a "She" and we are ready to go!

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Male Chastity Contracts

Want to make it official with your man and his chastity device? If you want to make it official, you will need a contract. Here are some guidelines as an example of how it could be; you can adapt from this and add o take the terms as needed.

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Male Orgasm Calendar

Have you ever wondered what happens after a male achieves orgasm (besides the obvious, of course, wink*)? If you haven't, it's actually really interesting (seriously!)

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Male Slave Training 101

It is no secret learning new things takes time. Abilities, a new hobby, a new lifestyle… It requires informing yourself about everything that's necessary in order to dominate this new routine.

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Master’s Torture Chamber - Cock & Ball Torture

Genital torture can be a wonderful thing, even though the name implies something else wink*. Torturing the genitals is actually about that dual nature of alternating pleasure with pain.

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Mistress At Play - Being The Dominant Woman

Trying some dominant-submissive play in the bedroom is always a good idea. This is a great opportunity to have fun and experience the psychological experience of dominating someone; more than the physical aspect of things.

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Mistress Control

I have talked about controlling a man before, have I? It is one of my favorite subjects and one that is very useful. One of the good things is you can train your partner in very few simple steps.

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My First Time - Being a Dungeon Monitor

A dungeon monitor is simply someone who makes sure the rules are being followed during a play scene or a party. Their job also entails creating a safe environment overall for everyone involved.

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Never the Same Twice - Exploring Breast Bondage Rope Tying Techniques

Because I’m sure you are extremely curious to know how exactly you do breast bondage, I’ve brought you this really informative article about breast bondage techniques.

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New to BDSM? Here’s what you need to know

We all have our own secret fantasies, buried deep down inside our mind. We all have that desire we keep hidden from the world. But why? What are we afraid of? Are we afraid that we will be judged for our desire?

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Of Humans & Horses: Erotic Pony Play for Beginners

You may have heard about pony play before and have asked yourself: what on earth is that? And more importantly, is it for me? Do I want to try it? So how about we start to answer those questions, come and follow me along wink*.

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Of Pet-ty Claw-ses: Drawing up a Pet Play Contract

Sometimes, it is required to draw a contract in a pet play relationship. The arrangement will be different for each couple; the terms will vary and can include sexual behaviors, activities and mannerisms.

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On The Hunt: Finding Your Submissive

Looking for a submissive to share your kinks is a process. Once you know what you want, how to achieve those goals, and what you want in a partner/relationship, it’s time to actively look for one.

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Ooh, La, La! Training Your Sissy Maid Properly

Training a sissy sub is quite complex but very rewarding. If you are interested on it, you will have to look out for the best method for you and your partner.

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Open For Anything! Let’s Talk About Pegging & Your Relationship!

Pegging is a fairly common fantasy for both men and women, so it’s not a surprise so many couples are trying it. If you’re not sure about where to start with this process of introducing pegging to your relationship, you’re not alone.

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Penned Punishment: Creating a Contract For Your Sissy Slave

If you are interested in making your sissy slave relationship more formal with established rules, we’ve got you covered wink*. This is a model to give you some ideas about what clauses this contract can include.

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Picture Perfect - Identifying Your Sub’s Interests

People have a wide variety of tastes. And for BDSM, finding that flavor is even more important. Figuring out what you like can take time but it is a necessity.

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Plug & Play - The Best Positions for Pegging

Whether you love pegging and are looking to get out of the routine and are looking for new positions to try it, or you’re a newbie considering for the best position to try it, you want to continue reading along.

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Pull Baby Pull! – Cart Ponies & Their Lifestyles

Oh! The world of pony play… as fun and vast as a well-taken care of pasture…or a room full with toys wink*. As with any BDSM related activity, there are plenty of new things to learn and very well defined categories.

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Putting the Dom in dominatrix

What makes a dominatrix? Oh a question for the centuries. Each person will probably have something they associate closely with the term, but in general the terms include a mix of attitude and how you are presented.

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Rope Bondage Style Guide

Thankfully for us, there are several styles and methods one can practice rope bondage (can I get a hurrah?). The basis of rope bondage is, well, tying people up with rope, but is not that simple as it sounds.

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Sensual Male Femininity Training

Identity reframing implies a shift in a man's image of his own sexuality. With identity reframing, the main idea is to change how a man perceives himself.

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Seven Ways to Play Rough With Your Sissy Sub

Sissy play is incredibly fun to engage in. As with any form on bondage, there are different ways to do it and how you practice it and what you choose to partake of will depend on your imagination and creativity!

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Sexual Control Over Males

A woman’s sexual control over men is undeniable. Whether it is the possibility of intercourse or the withdrawal of it, women hold all the power in those scenarios.

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Sexy & Safe Erotic Domination

If you are sure you are ready to embark on the responsibility that entails being a dominant; it’s time to step up to the next level. First, you need to take a good introspective look at yourself.

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Sharing your BDSM Fantasies

Introducing the idea of bondage and BDSM to your partner can be a bit nerve wracking. Whether is a new partner with whom you want to share your lifestyle or an old one that you want to get interested in this newfound passion of yours.

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Shibari Rope Bondage 101

If you are interested in Shibari or Japanese rope bondage, you know it’s an art form: it takes a lot of time to learn, as well as dedication.

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Sissy Slave Humiliation List, Pt. 1

If you have a sissy slave, chances are you are constantly looking for new ways to humiliate them. And sometimes you run out of ideas, so how about you read on to find some creativity.

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Sissy Slave Humiliation List, Pt. 2

If you’re looking for some inspiration to humiliate your sissy slave, this list might give you some ideas. The good thing is, even if you don’t do it exactly like it says, you can always adapt it your needs or give it your own twist.

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Sit, Stay, Beg! Try BDSM Pet Play With Your Partner!

Pet play is one of the ways a couple can practice BDSM and the D/S lifestyle. It has a great number of members and it’s quite a well-known subculture among the lifestyle.

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Slap Happy Sub Play - A Guide to Properly Spank Your Sub

Over the knee spankings are a common request for a lot of people out there…I’m guessing you’re here because you are on that band as well, right?

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Starting Dominatrix

Being more dominant in your sex life is more than just OK, it’s actually encouraged! There is something about having all the power and being in control that is completely exhilarating.

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Stimulated & Safe - Practicing Sensory Play Together!

Although it may seem harmless, you will always need to practice some safety measures when you’re playing with something BDSM related… but I’m sure you already knew that, right?

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Stir Up the Senses: Sensory Play for You & Your Partner!

If you’re looking to stimulate your partner’s (or yours!) senses, you’ve come to the right place, my love. There are plenty of different toys and instruments you can use to get those so looked after reactions in your body.

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Suspension Bondage Safety Guide

Suspension bondage does look incredibly exciting and beautiful, I know, I’ve been there wink*. But if you have reading long enough, you have probably read that suspension bondage can also be quite dangerous.

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Switch Dynamics: Who gets tied up tonight?

Dan flips a coin, Michelle calls it in the air... Heads. The coin slowly flips and tumbles its way to the floor. They both wait for it with anticipation.

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Tempting Transformation - Creating a Dominatrix Persona

Being a dominatrix a lot of fun…for both the submissive and the dominatrix, of course wink*. If you are just starting out in this wonderful world, you may be eager for some tips and that is why I’m here for today.

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The Awesome Power of BDSM Gags - Playing Safe & Secure!

If you are new to the BDSM world, you may have heard the term gag just about a million times… And you may have been to embarrassed to ask what it actually means and entails and why do people do it?

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The Bad Touch - The ‘Don’ts’ of Humiliation Training

There are plenty of things involved in humiliation training. And as you know, everyone should be able to adapt it to their own needs. We always say you should find what works exactly for you and your partner; there is not a one size fits all model.

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The collaring ceremony checklist

Time has passed, the relationship between dominant and submissive has gone so well you have decided to make it official: a collaring ceremony will take place to symbolize your commitment and love for one another.

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The Joys of Being a Mistress

Every female on the planet gets a bossy, power kick once in a while. Don't believe me? Wait until your husband or live-in boyfriend is on the couch watching television and there's garbage to be carried out.

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The Master’s List of Creative Slave Commands, Pt. I

Every slave wants to feel owned, right? Because if they don’t feel their Master has control over them, what is even the point? The Master can achieve this through different ways, it can be something really small or a big gesture.

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The Whole ‘Kitten’ Kaboodle - Essential BDSM Pet Play Gear & Toys

In order to do some fun pet play you will need to acquire some necessary accessories. What exactly do you need and how many pieces and elements you get will be entirely dependent on your type of play.

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Too Much of a Good Thing - Forced Orgasms Through BDSM

Forced orgasms? Isn’t that an oxymoron? In a way, it is. But it is a very common fantasy and a very normal BDSM play. It means a willing person will be “forced” by another one to have an orgasm again and again.

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Training Your Man to Obey

I believe that even the most submissive of woman has from time to time had the sexual fantasy of dominating her lover with bondage. The delicious and intoxicating feeling of being fully in control of your lover is truly seductive and highly erotic.

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Trying out BDSM for the very first time?

So, you have decided to try out BDSM after all those years of reading about it on the internet. Well, you have made the right decision. In the world of BDSM, you are in for a lot.

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Under my Thumb - Ways to Keep Your Male Sub Emasculated

If you are a dominatrix, chances are you are always looking out for new ideas to humiliate and emasculate your man. So, if you woke up today thinking to yourself, “man.

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Weighted Wearables - An Introduction to Cock & Ball Bondage Devices

When it comes to bondage, the possibilities are endless. It depends on what you like or what particular scene you want to try. But sometimes, something new may come in your way you didn’t thought about before.

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What A Showy Pony You Have!

Show ponies are the pony play category in which you can train your lovely pony to compete in shows. It’s probably the showiest category because the ponies are put in very exuberant tack.

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What is a Female Lead Relationship

The basic dynamic of a female led relationship is one in which both partners agree that the female will be the head of the relationship. The leader if you will.

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What is Cuckolding and Why Should We Try It?

Cuckolding is one of the most common searched terms out there so it’s safe to assume it’s one of the most common fantasies. Usually that fantasy comes with wanting to try it once.

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What Makes a Man Choose Submission

I can't count the number of times I've heard someone ask what makes a man choose submission. I've never really thought about it much as I also never really think about what makes a woman choose submission.

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What type of Submissive Are You?

Just as there are several types of dominants, there are several types of submissives. Everyone has a different relationship with BDSM and everyone likes it for particular reasons; sometimes it is actually a combination of several things.

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Why Domination is Freeing for the Female

Regardless of which gender you are, chances are you've thought the other had it easier. That's because we adapt to our gender roles and the complications that they bring and life without those same complications seems like it would be much simpler.

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Worktime IS Playtime! Having Fun With Your BDSM Slave

Having a slave is one of the most fun things in the world. And having fun with them while they are in bondage is even more fun wink*. Some people ask themselves, “but what exactly are we going to do?”

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Yee-haw! Training Your Pet Pony for Playtime!

The main point about having a pony is to play with it, right? And just like any other form of play, it’s going to take some effort to get there…and just like any kind of play, it’s definitely worth it wink*.

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Yes, Ma’am - Taking Control As A New Dominatrix

If you’ve never thought you could be more dominant in the bedroom, think again. Experimenting with domination is a great way to explore your own sexuality, try something different with your partner and most of all, have plenty of fun!

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You Belong To Me - Training Boundaries for your new BDSM Sissy Slave

A sissy slave loves to please their Mistress or Master, obviously. During the training process you will experience a great amount of things, depending on the activities your master/mistress decides and how long the sessions are.

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Young & Wild: Getting Into BDSM Puppy Play

Puppy play is one the most common forms of pet play, probably because: who doesn’t love puppies? It plays with the master/slave dynamic a little bit in the sense someone is the owner and the other trainer will follow orders.

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Your Benevolent Master - Caring For Your Slave During & After Humiliation Training

If you are looking to initiate some humiliation training, there are some things you need to keep in mind before you begin. You should obviously have a discussion with your partner/slave.

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Your First Time: Wearing a Dildo Harness

Your first time wearing a dildo harness can be somewhat intimidating (just like any first times, really) but you don’t need to worry about it. The first thing you need to know is, for your dildo to work, it will need to have a flared base.

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