Guides to Your Ultimate Submission to BDSM

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3 Bedroom Roleplay Ideas That Will Blow Your Mind

When we talk about roleplays mixed with different BDSM fetishes, the sky is the limit! Let’s look at some of the most popular fetishes among the mature couples, who know exactly what they want and how they are going to achieve!

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3 Tips to Be Intimate in a BDSM Relationship

Here are some ideas to help you entertain both the emotional and physical aspects of your relationship while diving into BDSM practices. These will get you going on the right path and help you have a happy and healthy relationship for many years to come!

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5 Types of Fetishes You Didn’t Know About

People all over the world get turned on by different things and sometimes they find sexual pleasure in ways that most of us wouldn’t even consider. But maybe we should.

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10 Types of Gags You Can Use on Your Next BDSM Roleplay

You can check on these tips on how to gag your partner. For starters, the thing you need to know is that a gag will keep your mouth open and you won’t be able to speak.

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A Forcibly Closed Flower: Female Chastity for Beginners

Chastity is not a new idea. Believe it or not, over the years history has proven it existed even a very long time ago. Now, its antique uses continue to be a bit of a mystery, compared to our modern times, wink*.

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A Helping Hand - Using Sex Toys to Climax Together! 

Sex toys are a fun add-on to your sex life, but for some people it’s a bit more than that. Sex toys are a great aid for people who have trouble achieving orgasms and climaxing.

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A Proper Spanking - Safety Tips & Tricks for a Good Spanking!

The first step is to discuss with your partner what you will be doing and why. If you are doing it as punishment, be clear about why it’s happening.

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A Recipe for Sexiness - Spicing Up Your Sex Life with Bondage Play!

Sometimes you may feel you want to explore new things with your partner in bed. It may be you something you have always wanted to try with them or just something you may have never heard of but once you do, you may be inclined to do it wink*.

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Advantages of Age in BDSM Sex Scenes

BDSM is by far the most flexible community in the world as its enthusiasts and practitioners are of all ages, genders and sexual orientation. The age of the partners involved in a BDSM scene is absolutely not important.

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Assuming the Position - How to Position to Get Spanked Properly!

Spankings are a thoroughly enjoyable activity, so I can imagine you’re always looking out for different ways to improve them, right? Wink*.

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Autumn’s Bondage 101 - The Breakdown of Different Gag Types

In a world of ball gags and bite gags and their infinite varieties, it can be very easy to get lost in them. And hey, I’m not saying that is bad thing, but sometimes you need to broaden your horizons and step out of your comfort zone.

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Autumn’s Bondage Ideas - Vol. 1 - Light Sensation Play & Roleplay

There are plenty of things you can do with bondage, am I right? Especially if you have a willing partner who also loves to participate… wink*.

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BDSM Etiquette

Floggers striking skin, whips cracking and leaving their marks, naked bodies bound in various positions. The scene is surreal, the music mysterious.

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BDSM & Me: What Is Your Style Of BDSM?

For those of you who are just getting interested in BDSM, you may wonder about the mechanics of it all. Why do people like to do this? Why is this something that attracts a person?

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BDSM Pet & Pony Play - Establishing Safe Boundaries

Pet play is one of the greatest things about BDSM. However, as basically every other fun practice, you will always need to look into some safety measures in order for your play to be smooth and both you and your partner..

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Beginner’s Guide to Bondage Wraps and Tapes: How and Where to Use It

Gone are the days when you’re scared whenever someone says “I WILL EAT YOU”; now, you’re excited as heck. You may even think of ways on how you will make things easier, you naughty little one!

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Best Ways to Thank Your Sub In and Out of Bed

Being a slave is not easy. If you happen to have an obedient slave who satisfies all your sexual needs and desires, then you should know how to mix BDSM, punishment and reward scenes because these are all important when you want to have a healthy sexual relationship.

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Catching Your Breath - Warning Signs During Breath Play

A lot of people have been playing with breath control as their ultimate fantasy. The problem is, it’s something incredibly risky to try and do because, at its core, you will always be in danger of dying ..

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Celebrating St. Patrick’s Day Greener And Kinkier

Who would have thought that St. Patrick’s Day can be hotter and sexier? The last time I checked, it was all about leprechauns and black beer but not with kinky-minded, naughty sweethearts like us, we know it can be something else.

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Chastity Self-Bondage Games

Orgasm denial can be a lot of fun (more fun than it sounds like, I promise!), whether you are doing it with a partner or on your own.

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Cruel to be Kind: Tips for a dominatrix in Session

If you are interested in the Dom/Sub world, you may wonder exactly how the training sessions go. The first thing you have to keep in mind is every session will be different, because it will depend on the person and the goals you two have agreed upon.

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Don’t Be Afraid to Celebrate Your Sensuality

Celebrating your sexuality means getting to know and explore yourself in an intimate process, and not feeling ashamed for what you are and what you desire. What is your fantasy? What form of pleasure do you prefer to experience?

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Essential Toys & Gear Everypony Needs!

If you are new to pony play or are interested in this creative BDSM play, you will need to start learning a lot of different things. Just like learning new things at school (but infinite times more fun!)..

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Exploring the task - Dungeon Monitor

So, you’ve probably heard the term before: dungeon monitor. Your hear the term and you nod in agreement… oh yeah right of course, a dungeon monitor…

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Flipping the Switch - Understanding BDSM Sissy Slaves

You may have heard of that term before but don’t really know what it means. And if you don’t know what it is, how could you know if you want to try it? Wink*.

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Following the Leader: the Daily Duties of the Submissive

You may believe the submissive person in a relationship doesn’t have to do anything besides what the Master instructs. And yes, that is true, but that doesn’t mean they don’t have other obligations.

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From Dirty to Clean: Cleaning & Caring For Your Leather!

When you love something you want to take care of it, am I right? And leather bondage materials are no exception, wink*.

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Get Bound & Wound Up - Bondage Wrap Basics & Applications

When you want to tie someone up and have your wicked way with them, ropes are probably the first thing you are thinking about…or chains, depending on preference wink*.

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Get Caught Up In You - Bondage Wrap Play for Beginners

Bondage or vet wrap is a piece of stretchy and flexible fabric commonly used on bondage scenarios and bondage play. It was first used in the real life world by veterinarians, but it has evolved into being used for some more…

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Guide to Mummification

To be restricted is one of a slave's greatest desires. Being bound so tightly around their entire body, leaving them completely subdued, produces a kind of stimulation unlike any other.

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Having a Ball - Deciding Which Ben Wa Ball is Best For Me

Ben Wa Balls come in many varieties so it can be hard to choose which one is right for you and which one you should get. So, let’s take a look at the most common materials and variations to give you a better understanding about them.

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Having a ball (gag)!

Gags are used to silence a much active submissive during bondage sessions…or to mute a talkative partner wink*.They exist in several types, but probably the most common ones are the good ol’ ball gags.

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Helpless & Tied Up Alone - How to Practice Safe Arm & Leg Bondage

Tying your arms and legs it’s one of the most common ideas when someone wants to try self bondage. And it’s easy to see why; most of us are rendered useless when we can’t use our arms and legs, obviously.

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Hottest Accessories for Your Bondage Games

When it comes to bondage, you really must use your imagination as much as you can, then combine it with your sexual desires to obtain an amazing sex scene. If your partner contributes some new ideas as well, you are set for an amazing and marvelous experience.

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How to Balance Romance and BDSM

You have many ways to indulge in a BDSM scene, by being the dominant or a submissive along with performing different activities and fetishes. However, one thing applies to all of them: acting.

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How to be a Safe & Sexy Dominatrix

Being a dominatrix can seem like a piece of cake, but it’s actually harder than it looks. There are not just outfits and props, there’s a lot more than that.

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How to choose the best body harness

The bondage aspect is so developed nowadays and it continues to grow inside the BDSM community so new methods are getting popular among enthusiasts of this practice. Let’s look at the types of body harnesses that are out there so you can decide easier what is best for you and your partner.

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How to Do Self Bondage

Ohh, the wonders of doing things by yourself. Most times is nice doing certain things and activities with someone…but other times that is just not possible. And that is why I’ll be talking about self-bondage.

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How to punish your lover in an erotic way

Punishing your slave might sound easy but it actually takes some experience until you reach the level of punishment both of you can enjoy. Yes, your slave has to get some pleasure from it as well.

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Importance of Aftercare: Sub Drop, It's Not All About the Chocolate

Top drop, sub drop. These are terms used to describe some of the feelings experienced after a BDSM scene. You hear a lot about sub drop but not so much about top drop.

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In Charge: How to Be A Good Dungeon Monitor

The role of a dungeon monitor is quite simple: making sure everyone is having a good time while maintaining the party/house rules. But just because is simple doesn’t mean everyone can do it.

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Inside the BDSM Toolbox: The Right Spanking Tool for the Job

You know how the saying goes, different spanks, different tools…isn’t that the way it goes? Wink*. There is a variety of equipment you can use and each and every one of them will create a different spanking, so choose carefully wink*

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Inside the Cage - Things to Know Before Your First Time With Male Chastity

Male chastity can be incredibly fun and it’s a great way to add a little something special to your relationship. Besides, although it may sound scary at first, it’s actually one of the most fulfilling sexual related experiences out there.

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Into the Dark - Sensory Deprivation Play With Bondage Hoods

Sensory deprivation is one of the most popular forms of play out there. And if you are of those who love to incorporate it to their lives, you will need a hood.

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Japanese Rope Bondage

Japanese style rope bondage is incredibly beautiful and has many adepts; it’s easy to see why, it looks incredibly sophisticated and elegant, creating spectacular visions.

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Keeping Your Submissive Under Your Control In Public

If you are a dominant in a relationship, you may know most times things don’t stop outside the bedroom. The job of a dominant is never done…so you can continue the training even in public.

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Knot Too Tight! Tying Your Wrists Correctly for Self-Bondage

Every person who loves bondage must know how to tie a mean cinch knot. It’s one of the keys in order to do a lot of fun scenarios and have a lot of fun in general. Cinch nooses are basically slip knots with a lot of friction.

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Learn to Love Being Submissive to your Master!

Even if you feel you are a natural submissive, truth is, a great submissive is not born, it is made wink*. Every one can learn some things to be a better submissive; besides, you need to get in the right mindset in order to achieve all your goals.

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Leading a Movement of Sexual Positivity from a Point of Strength

Sadly, some have perverted sex positivity to make it mean something else that it isn’t. I want to bust the BS beliefs that some associate with sex positivity.

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Lesbian BDSM Sex Tips 101

Lesbian couples are spoiled when it comes to BDSM scenes as they have a lot of fetishes and fantasies to choose from and indulge in. Here are some priceless secrets to get you in the right direction so you can have an amazing BDSM scene with your girl!

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Let Your Freak Flag Fly! The Most Common Sexual Kinks 

We all have our little sexual kinks, right? And most times we tend to believe we’re the only ones we enjoy or fantasize about that particular fantasy, but chances are they probably are more common than you give them credit for.

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Liquid Love - How to Care For Your Latex Properly, And It’ll Love You Back!

Everyone loves a little latex, right? And if you love it, you will want to take care of all your latex pieces that are currently sitting in your closet… or drawer wink*.

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Little Black YES! Your Latex Aftercare Questions Answered!

Chances are the first time you try to shine your piece, it will look shiny for a few moments but it will then lose it; but fear not, the shine will increase every time you polish and shine your piece because latex will retain the shine in its pores.

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Maid to Order: Having Fun Humiliating Your Sissy Sub

If there is one activity that can bring you (and your partner) endless time of games and fun, it’s sissy play. Plenty of men are into it (probably more than you think!), so chances are you are already partaking in some sissy related fun…

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More Than A Mouthful Proper Wear & Care of Your Gag!

Once you get the green light from a person to wear a gag, it’s really easy to put the toy on them. It can vary depending on the type, but the general rules are quite the same.

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Must haves if you are interested in bondage fantasies

Bondage games tend to be extremely popular, especially among couples who are interested in BDSM sex scenes. But unlike other fetishes, you need specific sex toys and tools and even certain accessories in order to perform a hot sexual encounter based on bondage.

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Must-have accessories when you’re wearing a gag

If you are interested in mouth gags, you will most likely get interested in other BDSM toys and accessories as well. As a beginner, you might wonder what type of sex toys goes with a mouth gag and how you can incorporate them into your fantasies.

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My First Time - Being a Dungeon Monitor

A dungeon monitor is simply someone who makes sure the rules are being followed during a play scene or a party. Their job also entails creating a safe environment overall for everyone involved.

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New to BDSM – Types of Rope Bondage Materials

Rope bondage is a great way to experience BDSM and bondage. If you want to start getting into BDSM play, it is a must for you to acquire some rope to go into your dungeon (well, maybe at this point it is not a dungeon but a box wink*).

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New to BDSM – Spanking

Spanking can be extremely fun when done properly; the good news is there are plenty of options for everyone. Not to mention, they are great for punishment for those who need a little bit of correcting… wink*

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Not all hoods are the same, which one is the best for you?

If you want to try out new hoods, you should always see what options you have on available on the market. Beginners in this aspect struggle to find the best hoods for them and if you don’t want to be one of them, keep reading!

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Not all gags are the same, which one is the best for you?

Gags can completely change the way you enjoy your sex life! Choosing a mouth gag is not the easiest thing to do, especially if you are a beginner in the matter.

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Performing Rope Tricks - How to Tie Your Own Self Bondage Rope Body Harness!

Body harnesses are useful if you want to use a little bondage in public or in your daily life. You can tie one and then get dressed as you would normally to go on with your daily life in public.

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Performing Rope Tricks - Self-Bondage Hogtie How-Tos!

Hogties are extremely fun, but they can be a bit harder to get if you like a bit of solo play or don’t have anyone around. But once you learn how to do it properly, things will get really easy, so how about we learn how to tie a hogtie on our own? Wink*.

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Picture Perfect - Identifying Your Sub’s Interests

People have a wide variety of tastes. And for BDSM, finding that flavor is even more important. Figuring out what you like can take time but it is a necessity.

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Preparing your House for BDSM Play

There are lots of little things you can do to prep the bedroom so that when the time is right you already have the stage set. For instance, plan ahead for a bit of restraint.

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Rope Bondage Style Guide

Thankfully for us, there are several styles and methods one can practice rope bondage (can I get a hurrah?). The basis of rope bondage is, well, tying people up with rope, but is not that simple as it sounds.

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Rules Every Submissive Must Obey

In the BDSM culture, the relationship between dominant and submissive is usually maintained through certain rules or protocols. These rules reinforce the status and role of each participant.

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Quick Guide to Choosing a BDSM Collar Style

First, let’s be clear of the collar that we are talking about. We are referring to the collar which is a device that may be made of various materials worn by a person around the neck, generally, to indicate their submissive or slave status in a BDSM relationship.

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Self Bondage Safety Tips

Everyone knows any form of bondage comes with its own safety risks. Although some involve more risk than others, safety is something you should always keep in mind.

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Senses Beyond Senses - Methods to Indulge in Sensory Deprivation

Who doesn’t want to experiment with a little sensory deprivation in their lives? It usually consists on restricting the senses of sight and speech, but you could definitely play around a little bit.

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Sexy & Safe Erotic Domination

If you are sure you are ready to embark on the responsibility that entails being a dominant; it’s time to step up to the next level. First, you need to take a good introspective look at yourself.

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Sharing your BDSM Fantasies

Introducing the idea of bondage and BDSM to your partner can be a bit nerve wracking. Whether is a new partner with whom you want to share your lifestyle or an old one that you want to get interested in this newfound passion of yours..

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Shibari Rope Bondage 101

If you are interested in Shibari or Japanese rope bondage, you know it’s an art form: it takes a lot of time to learn, as well as dedication.

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Should you try wearing a gag during an edge play sexual encounter?

Edge play is one of the most intense areas when it comes to BDSM sexual encounters. And you can use a wide variety of sex toys and accessories in order to make your edge play fetish more realistic than any other role play.

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Sit, Stay, Beg! Try BDSM Pet Play With Your Partner!

Pet play is one of the ways a couple can practice BDSM and the D/S lifestyle. It has a great number of members and it’s quite a well-known subculture among the lifestyle. So, want to know what is it all about? Wink*

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Taking a Bite: All About Gag Types & Uses

In gags you will find the spice of life, right? Wink*. Everyone has a favorite…although, why choose? You can have all you want… On one hand, ball gags continue to be the most popular ones.

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The 100 Hour Self-Bondage Challenge!

If you love self-bondage and spending on it, have you thought about doing a challenge? In this case, I’m going to give you some ideas for you to do your own 100 hours self-bondage experiment.

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The Awesome Power of BDSM Gags - Playing Safe & Secure!

If you are new to the BDSM world, you may have heard the term gag just about a million times… And you may have been to embarrassed to ask what it actually means and entails and why do people do it?

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The Bad Touch - The ‘Don’ts’ of Humiliation Training

There are plenty of things involved inhumiliation training. And as you know, everyone should be able to adapt it to their own needs. We always say you should find what works exactly for you and your partner.

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The Best Roleplays for Mature Couples

Let’s look at some of the most popular fetishes among mature couples who know exactly what they want and how to go for them!

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The best sensory deprivation arsenal

Depending on the type of partner that you are, you might prefer one thing or the other but the fact is that every side of such a BDSM story is as exciting and as fascinating as it can be.

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The Gift of Gag - Choosing the Right Gag For You!

Gags are extremely arousing both for the wearer as for the partner. Visually they are extremely stimulating and wearing them… well, I’m sure you can imagine what that entails, Wink*.

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The Whole ‘Kitten’ Kaboodle - Essential BDSM Pet Play Gear & Toys

In order to do some fun pet play you will need to acquire some necessary accessories. What exactly do you need and how many pieces and elements you get will be entirely dependent on your type of play,..

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Three Myths About BDSM

Since it is such an interesting subject, BDSM entertained a lot of assumptions especially for people who never tried it or never got deep enough to understand what this community is all about.

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Top 5 Gags That You Should Definitely Try At Least Once

Since mouth gags became so popular in such a short period of time, the market offers a wide variety of them in order to satisfy all the clients. And if you are a beginner at this, here is the top 5 must-try mouth gags that you will definitely not regret purchasing!

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Toucha-Toucha-Touch Me! Improving Sex Together with Intimacy

If you are looking to strengthen the bond between you and your partner, sex may be a great way to do so. But how can you improve the sex you are having? There are plenty of ways, and it may surprise you how easy it is.

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Two to Tango - What Sex Toys Will Work for Us?

Have you heard sex toys are in? Everyday it seems to be someone new starts to get into the sex toy fever and if you ask me, I couldn’t be happier people are starting to explore new ways to achieve pleasurable experiences wink*.

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Urethral sounds and sexual stimulation

Your male partner can be stimulated in a variety of ways and to reach higher levels of sexuality all you need to do is to release your creativity and imagination.

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Use a hood to take your sex scene to a new level

Hoods are a great sexual accessory to use when you want to improve your sex life and spice things up for both you and your lover. By wearing a hood, you will enter a new sexual realm that can become as intense as you want it to be.

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Using Restraint - BDSM Wrist, Thigh, & Ankle Restraints Guide

We can all use some bondage in our lives, the doses will depend on your particular tastes wink*. As you know, bondage comes in a myriad of forms, so it’s up to you to decide exactly what you want.

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Viva Variety! Bondage as the All-Spice of Your Sex Life!

“New Year, New Life”, right? At least, that’s what everyone says. And as I’m sure most of you try to do a couple of resolutions or things to change/try on this New Year, your sex life shouldn’t be an exception.

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Weighted Wearables - An Introduction to Cock & Ball Bondage Devices

When it comes to bondage, the possibilities are endless. It depends on what you like or what particular scene you want to try. But sometimes, something new may come in your way you didn’t thought about before…

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What to Expect in a Dominant-Submissive Relationship

In the culture of BDSM, the relationship between dominant and submissive is usually maintained through certain rules or protocols. These rules reinforce the status and role of each participant.

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What Type of Sex Scenes Can Be Empowered by Wearing a Collar

Here is when you can absolutely count on a sexy collar to make your sexual encounter a lot more intense and exciting than it would be without such a sexual accessory.

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What Type of Submissive are you?

They say that variety is the spice of life. Some perceptive (smart ass) individuals would like to point out that spices are a personal preference and that everyone has their favorites.

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What you should never do while you are wearing a gag

Gags can be extremely sexy and exciting during a sex scene, especially if they are picked correctly and they match the theme of the encounter.

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Working Out Your Womanhood - Kegels & Vaginal Tightening

There are some things women tend to take for granted or simply we don’t really give it much thought. And since we rarely think about it, I’m going to tell you right away what is that something we hardly ever think about.

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Why should you try a straightjacket in the bedroom?

Did you ever consider using a straightjacketto add a new element of excitement to your sex life? If the answer is no, you are missing out on a lot of good times!

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Why wearing a straightjacket is such a turn on?

Straightjackets are getting more and more popular as years go by. And there is a good reason for that as such sexual accessories are part of some very intense fetishes and fantasies that you can explore with your lover.

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Why you should add some pain to your sex scene

Sex is a mixture of feelings and sensations to create enough sexual tension and energy in our body to translate into intense orgasms for the ultimate sexual satisfaction.

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Your Benevolent Master - Caring For Your Slave During & After Humiliation Training

If you are looking to initiate some humiliation training, there are some things you need to keep in mind before you begin. You should obviously have a discussion with your partner/slave because as you know, communication is key in all relationships..

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