Long Distance BDSM Ideas to Get You Started

Congratulations! You have chosen to embark on a long distance BDSM long distance relationship. With some tweaks, your relationship will work wonderful for both of you. So, what kind of fun activities can you two partake in? Plenty of them, but here are some ideas to get you started on your own.

The dominant in the relationship can make the submissive do certain things and then report and prove to them they have followed the instructions; this can happen daily. For instance, the dominant can make the submissive wear specific underwear or clothes. The submissive will have to take a picture or a video to prove they have done so. Or they can make them prepare a specific meal, do specific chores around the house…wear their favorite collar. Basically every task you can think of.

Another big part of the relationship will be the phone calls or video calls you two make. Video is even better because you two can participate and interact in a number of ways, ranging from vanilla activities to friskier ones. Besides, video has the advantage of being more appealing because is more visually stimulating. But still, the idea is for you two to play together. For example, have you tried watching your favorite show together on the phone or even a movie for movie date night? You can even cook dinner together as well.

On the friskier side, the dominant can make the submissive use a crop or whip on their body while they watch through a screen. Or they can order to pinch your nipples or even use a pair of nipple clamps or gag themselves…maybe fellate a dildo while they are on their knees…Or make them put on a sexy outfit, or even nothing at all, while they bend over…touch themselves while the other watches…Get the idea?

And while you’re there, the submissive must ask permission first before they can have an orgasm. If the dominant feels they have not earned it, they won’t allow it for example. This can serve as basic inspiration for a number of ways and games you can have.

The submissive can also keep a journal where they write their personal thoughts, ideas…what they do, what they want to do. The point here being, the dominant will have full access to said journal. They can write an email for instance, as if they were writing to themselves on a dairy, and then send it to their partner. Ohh the possibilities…