Meet Josh

Please tell us a little bit about yourself – How would you describe your everyday vanilla life?

Well that’s just it, my life is everything but vanilla, I love bondage so much that I try to make it my career. I use rope to teach and perform.

When did you first realize you were into bondage?

I was into bondage for as long as I can remember, when I was younger I remember watching shows like batman and how the female always got kidnapped and tied and gagged I think that is where it started.

How you best describe yourself? Your choices are: Dominant, Submissive, Switch or Fuzzy Rainbow Unicorn. Please explain your choice.

This is a hard question although I am mostly submissive, I do have top tendencies when it comes to rope. but outside of rope I am submissive.

Do you feel that your desire for bondage is more physical or emotional? (please elaborate)

I feel its both the restraint itself is very physical as it holds you down unable to move and that affects me emotionally, being in bondage has a way to make truly feel free, i can feel every muscle in my body relax at once.

What does BDSM mean to you: is it a lifestyle, a diversion, or something else?

Lifestyle I started exploring the kink world the day I turned 18 and I never looked back.

What was your best bondage experience?

This one is a easy one, the best bondage experience I have ever had was being mummified in saran wrap then electrical tape and then strapped down to the bed, I was unable to move and I just felt that constant pressure on my entire body.

What do you feel is most important about the experience of bondage?

Enjoyment, if you not enjoying it why do it.

What is the best advice you would give to someone just starting out with BDSM?

Do it safely, start with rope learn simple things like the single column tie, rope is very versatile you can basically do anything with it… it can be a gag, blindfold, restraint whatever you need it to be.

What is your favorite gear, toy or lingerie item from Sub-Shop.com and why?

Armbinders, hands down the best they push the chest forward and keep the arms in a nice package behind the submissive...

What is the one sensual fantasy you haven’t lived out yet that you are excited to try?

All day bondage, from morning to night :)

How do you feel about the return of the 90‘sMullet Hair Style?  Are you for or against and why?

Against because it looks terrible.

Is there anything else you would like to share with us such as advice, thoughts or goofy knock-knock jokes? We are all ears and ball gags.

Starting kink can be scary even when I started, I was freaking out, a small chat with the wrong person and all of my resolve was shaken, I was drowning in this overwhelming emotional tide, guilt, anxiety and fear of the future all of it pressed on me, you might think me weak for this. that’s okay I certainly didn't feel particularly strong at that moment and at the mere sight of my partner being a Dom and it was all gone, all of my self-doubt… all of the anxiety and fear of what the future might bring, in that moment she made it all go away, she was the strange outcome of my crossroads of my mistakes and my successes.

The way I see it there is a burden of socially programmed guild many of us feel about sexuality, some of us live with it, others shake it off, me? I sue that shit to fuel my orgasms with her in control. I can let go of that guilt… I pay my price in pain and claim my reward in pleasure, see the thing is I do love and enjoy my sexuality, the journey can be rough but it’s worth it I promise.