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What to Expect from a Male Dominant in BDSM Encounters

Being a dominant is not always an easy job but it is a crucial role for any BDSM scene. Maybe one of the most common BDSM scenes is the one in which the dominant is a man while the submissive is a woman. This is also due to the natural instincts we have, which tell us women are more fragile and easy to control than men, what’s more, women are meant to be controlled while men are meant to be leaders and handle the tough situations. However, a dominant might very well have a male submissive, so everything changes according to individual preferences, which is one of the advantages of BDSM scenes.

A dominant male can engage in different sexual activities with their submissive and reach different sexual intensities and stimulation. Among these are the most common ones like body worship, cock and ball worship, ass worship, foot worship, tease and denial edgy play, impact play, chastity, verbal humiliation and, of course, sexual intercourse. However, during such a BDSM scene, physical sexual intercourse doesn’t happen on a regular basis. It is more like a reward for the submissive if they have been good and obedient or, on the contrary, it can come as a punishment. The dominant puts them through it for not fulfilling their requests good enough. Either way, when actual sexual intercourse is involved, things get very intense. There is nothing more satisfying than sexual intercourse between a dominant and their submissive. Typically, male dominants use certain tools and accessories on their submissive partners. Restraint systems are among most common ones and it is because BDSM is an exchange of power and control, mixed with sexual stimulation and occasionally orgasm. When one of the partners is tied town to the bed, chair, pole, door or simply their arms or hands are tied to their body in such a way they can’t control their moves, they give up all power on their own body and become their dominant’s property. The dominant then can perform any action they want on their submissive, from spanking, to whipping and they can use accessories like floggers or masks in order to humiliate and stimulate their submissive at the same time. Dominants and submissive partners will, generally, establish the limits and the boundaries of such a BDSM scene before it takes place. In this way, both are well aware of what each other want and what turns them on. The goal of both partners is to reach sexual satisfaction and fulfill desires they couldn’t fulfill otherwise. However, the dominant has to also care for the safety of the submissive, above everything else. Restraint systems, toys, edgy play or impact play should they decide to get into it, all these practices are to be considered only under a strict supervision and under no risks for any of them, especially for the submissive who is put through all this. Even simple actions like spanking might require some moderation if the dominant is using more power than the submissive can tolerate. The goal is to find a perfect balance between pain and pleasure and this can be achieved through experience and a good level of communication.

When it comes to the outfits, the most common ones to match the role of a dominant man are latex, leather and PVC. Also, the dominant might be wearing masks or accessories to empower his image and add to the feeling of superiority they have on their submissive. Most male dominants don’t wear full outfits because they want to have their body exposed in front of their submissive, to show them they might get a piece of it if they are good and obedient, but they will cover their intimate parts. The most common colors a dominant might wear are red and shades of black. Nothing says hardcore more than a black latex suit and nothing says passion more than a pair of red latex shorts.

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