4 Reasons for a Spreader Bar in Your Sex Life

If you have never used a spreader bar, well you might be missing out on some intense fetishes and fantasies! Even if spreader bars are not the most common sex toys for couples to use when they are looking for a thrill, they are still one of those sex toys to add just the right level of excitement to any sexual encounter. If you are a beginner when it comes to BDSM fetishes and fantasies, you might be tempted to try out a spreader bar but you need some guidance to get the most satisfaction out of it. So, here are all the reasons why you should use a spreader bar at least once and what you should expect from such an experience!

1. They add more discipline to any sex scene

Discipline is something most BDSM enthusiasts go for. A good discipline session can be extremely intense for both partners involved. You can take everything to a whole new level by simply using a spreader bar during your sex scenes. Since you want to discipline your lover, you should also add some impact play toys such as a whip, a flogger or a paddle. The choice will depend greatly on what both of you prefer. No matter what you choose, spreader bars are very versatile and they can satisfy almost all couples who decide to try them. All you need is an open mind to enjoy all the aspects of such an experience.

2. You can use a spreader bar to discover new fetishes and fantasies

When you are using a spreader bar, you never know how things will end. But one thing is for sure, you lover will be available as long as you have them wearing such a bar. Depending on the type of sex toys and accessories you choose to add to such a scene, you can develop different fetishes. Free your mind and imagination to develop your sexual nature and achieve new levels of pleasure and satisfaction.

3. Spreader bars work great in roleplay scenes or thematic sexual encounters

If you have a fantasy about owning your lover’s sexuality, all you have to do is make them wear a spreader bar. This will give you control and access over your slave’s sexuality plus the satisfaction you need. Another roleplay you can engage in is the one where your slave is a sex pet. In such a case, you can combine your spreader bar with fur tails or bite gags. The way you dominate your lover can be a lot more intense. Ask your partner before hand and see what types of roleplays they would like to try out and decide together what type of sex toys and accessories to use. This will make both of you enjoy the sex scene you share and discover a more pleasant way to enjoy your sexual life together.

4. You can use a spreader bar in a punishment session

Do you like to punish you submissive partner and show them just how much pleasure you can add to your intimate life by having things go your way? A spreader bar will help you do this and even more. Punish your lover by having them wear the bar while you stimulate them or even during intercourse. The important thing to keep in mind is everything taking place between you and your lover is safe, sane and mutual for everyone involved. As long as both of you feel excited by what is going on, then the sex scene will definitely be a successful one to bring you closer together as a couple. New experiences are intense sex scenes to take your relationship to a whole new level. You will never regret trying out a new sex scene or punishing your lover in a new way because this will help you understand each other even better. So, punish your lover as much as you want but make sure both of you enjoy everything about it!