What you should never do while you are wearing a gag

Gags can be extremely sexy and exciting during a sex scene, especially if they are picked correctly and they match the theme of the encounter. However, while they can be some impressive sex toys and accessories, they can also have certain restrictions that must be respected by both the submissive and the dominant partners. If you are a beginner at using a mouth gag during a sex scene or if you are not quite familiar with the BDSM guidelines, there are certain things that you need to take into account when you want to try such an intense sex scene. And sometimes what you shouldn’t do is more important than what you should do which is why we introduce you to the “don’ts” that you need to be aware of, as you are getting involved in a sex scene in which you or your partner are wearing a gag.

1. Don’t wear a hood that will make breathing difficult

This is very important especially for beginners when it comes to sex toys and accessories. In the name of the intense sexual pleasure mixed with an exciting feeling of adrenaline, some couples might forget about the most important aspect that needs to be taken into account during any type of BDSM scene which is safety. Everything that goes on between you and your lover should be safe, sane and consensual. And when you are wearing a gag or your lover is wearing a gag, this rule ha no exception. If you like wearing hoods with mouth gags, always go for a model that allows you to breathe comfortably through your nose. Luckily, nowadays you can find plenty of models when it comes to hoods and they come in different colors and materials a well so you don’t have to settle for second best considering thee is something for everyone on the market!

2. Don’t plan on having dirty talk

This should be obvious but a a matter of fact is a fairly common mistakes beginner couples do when they introduce a gag in their intimate life. Dirty talk can be a very exciting fetish and you might be looking forward to experience it with your lover. But as a given, if they are wearing a gag the talking part will be a bit restricted. This also depends on the type of gag that you are choosing for your sex scene because some allow a minimum level of verbal communication. So, if you like dirty talk, be ready to enjoy it from just one side. The dominant can dirty talk all they want to their slave but there will not be many replies as long as the submissive partner is wearing a mouth gag. Sometimes having the dominant talking dirty during a discipline scene for instance, can be extremely hot for both partners so you might enjoy this type of dirty talk just fine if you are into it.

3. Forget about oral sex

Similarly with other sexual fetishes that you might be into, oral sex might be a bit difficult if your partner is wearing a mouth gag, especially a ball gag type. But if you are using an open mouth gag you might be able to engage in some form of oral sex such as deep throat for instance. This is the type of sex scene where you definitely need to use your imagination in order to obtain the best results and satisfy most of your sexual needs. If you are willing to keep an open mind and try out new sexual fetishes, a gag will only help you discover new sides of your sexual nature which can only help you on the long run. So while if you are using a ball gag you should forget about oral sex, other types of gags might allow you to experiment in this area!

Mouth gags can better your sex life in almost every sex scene that you decide to enjoy such a toy in along with your lover! But they also require both of you to adjust your sexual practices, fetishes and even certain activities to the new sex toys that you are using. If you like to experience a higher control exchange level and you want the submissive partner to feel even more vulnerable, chances are that mouth gags of all kinds are the right type of sexual accessories for you. And if you adapt to the options they give you, you might discover some amazing sex scenes that will empower your intimate connection with your lover! Gags are the most popular sexual accessories in the BDSM community for a reason and they can also help you take your sex life to new levels!