Can a Dominant Wear a Hood?

Are you intrigued about hoods and you would like to explore this accessory more but you are a dominant and fear that you can’t or shouldn’t do that? If that sounds like you, keep reading because you might just be surprised! As a matter of fact, this is a common dilemma in the BDSM world and you will simply love the fact that hoods are more flexible than they tend to be restrictive. But for that you need to understand how a hood works and why you should add it to your sex scene in the first place.

Wearing a hood is great when you want to make your submissive feel objectified and vulnerable. There are many types of hoods that you can try out depending on your outfit and sex scene as well. Because each fetish can use a specific type of hood in order to seem more realistic you should give it some thought when you want to invest in such a sexual accessory. However, since the reasons to have your submissive lover wear a hood might be quite obvious to you, how about you trying out a hood as a dominant? The good news is that everyone that wants to ad some excitement to their sex life can try a nice and sexy hood at least once and in almost any type of sex scene or fantasy. The bad news is that dominants tend to try out wearing hoods very rare which maybe it shouldn’t be the case.

If you enjoy bondage scenes, you should definitely try to wear a hood as it can make everything a lot more intense for you as the dominant. If you wear a hood when you are disciplining or dominating your slave, you will experience the illusion of even more authority and power. Some dominant partners think that by wearing a hood the become the ultimate master of their slave which is the opposite effect of a slave wearing a hood. This interesting relationship between the hood and the person wearing it, is strongly determined by the role that person has in the sex scene. So, if you are a dominant, you will relate to your hood and use it just as a dominant. And you shouldn’t fear to discover new and interesting sensations and fetishes that you can explore while you are wearing the hood because you might just be amazed of what you can find.

Dominants who wear a hood tend to also enjoy a good and intense session of edge play. But you need to be always open minded and ready to discover new experiences with your lover. However, hood or not, your main rule should be to make sure that the sex scene that you are part of is sane, safe and consensual, no matter how edge play you want to make it be. So wear your hood and explore your fantasies but don’t forget the rest of the aspects that need to be considered during a sex scene.

As a dominant, if you want to wear a hood you need to associate it with the best accessories, sex toys and outfit as well. This is very important if you want to make from your hood a symbol of your dominance and power over your slave. You can use whip or a paddle as you are wearing the hood and discipline your lover just the way you want to. And if you choose a leather hood you simply can’t fail when it comes to this aspect! You can also wear your hood with a tight outfit that enhances your shapes if you re a mistress or empowers your masculinity if you are a master. All these aspects are subjective and they can be played with by each dominant as they want to satisfy their ex needs.

The only aspect that is mandatory when you are wearing a hood as a dominant is the comfort and safety of it. You need to make sure that you are breathing properly and your head is not sweating no matter how many hours you might wear the hood. Try it out before the sex scene starts just to be sure that you are on the safe and comfortable side! Also, you need to look confident in it. Keep in mind that, as a dominant, you want to use your hood as a symbol of dominance and control over your slave so it should show exactly that every time you wear it. And don’t be afraid to let your imagination run wild and see where it takes you either. Sometimes, the best types of fetishes are the ones that you can come up with by yourself.