Best Ways to Dominate Your Sub Even in Public

If you are a dominant in a relationship, you may know most times things don’t stop outside the bedroom. The job of a dominant is never done…so you can continue the training even in public. Obviously not all of it, wink*, but there are some lessons to be taught outside of the bedroom.

When you are going out the house, you can make you sub wear some bondage under their clothes. For example, you can do a very simple chest harness with a thin rope before they get dressed; they will have the reminder you are in control wherever they go! It will also help them keep a good posture, so win-win situation. You will just need to be careful about how tight the rope is, remember you don’t want them to have trouble breathing! But it should be tight enough for them to feel it.

If you’re going out together, you can always instruct them to always walk behind you wherever you are. They should never walk in front of you and they should always stand next to you, no matter if you they want to move to another place in the room. If they need to move to somewhere other in the room, they should ask you if they can do so before they go ahead and do it; this means they will always have to ask your permission.

Additionally you can instruct them to call you master, sir or mistress or whatever you wish to be called whenever it’s possible, even in public. Sometimes it will obviously not be possible, but they will do it when they can. You can also make them use a proper vocabulary when they’re speaking to you in public; this means they will have to always ask you permission, “say may I”, “thank you”… this means, for instance, they will always have to ask you permission before they go to the bathroom

You have to remember to continue all your measures to continue dominance. No matter if you’re in public or in private, they will need reminders you are in a charge. At first they may need more reminders to ask you permission, but before you realize, those submissive behaviors will become like second nature. You two just need to practice! And before I forget, if their collar is somewhat discreet, order them to wear it in public! It’s a great reminder of the submissive’s nature they must always act on…