Meet DuctTapeFan

Please tell us a little bit about yourself – How would you describe your everyday vanilla life?

I'd say it's pretty average. When I'm not working I'm a gamer by hobby. PS4 is my current favorite.

When did you first realize you were into bondage?

Before I even knew how to describe it, when I was very young I was very enamored with the sight of a bound and gagged Lois Lane in the old Fleischer Superman cartoons. As I got older and I perused the internet, I discovered that there were others who shared my interests and that it was perfectly healthy.

How you best describe yourself and why? Your choices are: Dominant, Submissive, Switch or Fuzzy Rainbow Unicorn.

Definitely dominant. I've dabbled with being bound myself, but my tastes always leaned toward doing the tying.

Do you feel that your desire for bondage is more physical or emotional? (please elaborate)

I would say physical. I mainly enjoy the aesthetic of bondage.

What does BDSM mean to you: is it a lifestyle, a diversion, or something else?

For me personally, it's a hobby. A very fun form of stress relief and, in a relationship, a way to build a foundation of trust.

Were lovers accepting of your interest in bondage?

Surprisingly, yes! I was the one who introduced them to bondage for the most part, and they were very receptive to it.

Please briefly describe your first bondage experience.

Nothing too extravagant. I asked if she would like to try handcuffs, she said yes, and it pretty much carried on from there.

What was your best bondage experience?

I asked a lady friend if we could arrange a bondage photo shoot, and she was very excited about the idea. She and I picked out business attire (like Lois Lane lol) and we took pics of her bound and gagged.

What is the most creative safe word you have ever used?

"Bumfuzzle"

What do you feel is most important about the experience of bondage?

The absolute most important thing about it is that your sub trusts you and is completely putting her wellbeing in your hands. In turn you must respect her boundaries and respect the huge responsibility that comes with the power that she's bestowed upon you.

What is the best advice you would give to someone just starting out with BDSM?

Above all, be safe! Make sure your sub is comfortable at all times and is able to convey to you if they're uncomfortable or in any kind of distress. Take a break when necessary.

What is your favorite gear, toy or lingerie item from sub-shop.com and why?

It's hard to pick a favorite! I have several ballgags that I've very much enjoyed, and I've had my first experiences with microfoam tape and a panel ballgag that were very cool.

What is the one sensual fantasy you haven’t lived out yet that you are excited to try?

I've had a fantasy for some time about a young lady and myself being bound and gagged together by another woman.

If you had to be trapped in a tv show for a month, which would you choose and why?

Probably Dragon Ball Z. Flying around and fighting seems like a lot of fun lol

Is there anything else you would like to share with us such as advice, thoughts or a silly knock-knock jokes? We are all ears and ball gags.