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Is the BDSM Lifestyle for You?

An interest in BDSM can happen overnight or can be brewing for quite some time. But it’s important to know what kind of interest you have exactly. To begin with, keep in mind there is no “right way” to practice BDSM, basically it’s whatever you and your partner enjoy and what you guys make of it.

Here’s Why You Should Have Bondage Sex Always

Relationships are all about communication. And sex is the ultimate intimate communication a couple can have. Men tend to think that women withhold sex as some kind of punishment, but I assure you it's not.

Autumn's Six Rules to Live By

1. Money cannot buy happiness, but it’s more comfortable to cry in a BMW with heated seats than on a bicycle in the rain. 2. Forgive your enemy, but remember the a##hole’s name. 3. If you help someone when they’re in trouble, they will remember you when they’re in trouble again. But you also made a friend for life.

Ask Autumn: Everything You Always Wanted to Know About Bondage Sex Answered

Hi Autumn! Love your site! I have a few questions. I am engaged to the greatest man in the world and we have recently had fun exploring our new sexuality together! I am very lucky that although we are taking it slow, we are both having fun! I have an issue about loud sex--we live in an old house that was converted into apartments.

4 Essentials for the Perfect BDSM Scene

Regardless of being Dom/me or sub, the scene that is set up for a session will play an important role in enhancing the experience. Maybe the best way to think of it in terms of scene is that BDSM is a form of performance, an art.

How to Be the Slave Master Craves

Pleasing Master is such a big part of a sub role—every action, big or small, can help to contribute to the stimulation and eroticism of experience as a whole. From the way you glance up at Master with a certain look in your eyes to knowing when you need some guidance.

Best Ways to Use Bondage Tape in Sex Play

Bondage tape is like the gateway to the entire bondage sex experience. As an avid BDSM submissive, I am very fond of the idea and practice of bondage. Those who want a quick and subtle introduction into the idea often opt for bondage tape.

Why Women Secretly Love Bondage

So you've tried all sex positions that every human mind could possibly think of from missionary to modified missionary, doggy-style and girl-on-top but somehow you feel like you need to still want to spice up your love-making moments.

BDSM Rules Do Exist for Strict Compliance

I always find it funny to see the reactions I get when I discuss the rules of a BDSM relationship. There are those that appear shocked that something as raw and raunchy as BDSM could have rules. There are others that think I mean things like what to eat and how to dress.

7 Proven Ways to Fun, Fearless Bondage Sex

There's nothing I love more than a good chat about bondage sex. Well, maybe a little role play of some bondage sex with my lover. But other than that, nothing better.

Essential Bondage Supplies For Beginners

If you are new to bondage or just starting to develop an interest then let me first say welcome to the club. Bondage sex is some of the best sex that you will ever have. At least that is my opinion.

Glossary of BDSM Terms You Should Know

So you've been doing a little research into BDSM and what it entails and you find yourself more confused than when you began. It's not like you are a total newbie to the idea. You've read books. You've seen movies.

BDSM Glossary of Kink

If you have found yourself with a growing interest in the BDSM lifestyle, role playing, bondage sex, discipline or any of the other facets of what I consider a fun and active sex life.

Autumn's Bondage 101: Beginner’s Guide to Restraints

The best thing about bondage sex is, well, the bondage. Regardless of what level you choose for participation in BDSM role playing, chances are that bondage will play a part.

Autumn's Bondage 101: Beginner’s Guide to Flogging

Have you decided you want to incorporate flogging into your bondage role play? Well, for many that participate in the BDSM lifestyle, making flogging a part of it is a no brainer.

Leatherette FAQs: Best Reasons to Choose Leatherette Bondage Gear

What is leatherette? Leatherette is a man made material made to feel and look like leather. Also, known as Pleather, it's a mix of different fabrics known for being easy on the pocketbook and has general look which is similar to leather, without the leather cost.

Silk Ropes, Blindfolds, and Ice Cubes — Oh My! Simple Ways to Spice Things Up for Beginners

When I am just beginning a new relationship, the sex stays relatively «normal» for awhile. Imagine missionary position, sideways, or even throwing in a little doggie-style for the sake of variety. The honeymoon stage of a relationship does not usually require much extra effort because the adventure is getting to know each other, inside and out (multiple interpretations welcome!).

Products FAQ

Got questions? Of course you do! Well, we’ve got the answers…
We’ve done the product testing so you don’t have to!

Here are some of the most frequently asked questions — and some things I just thought you should know — about general categories of items and some of the fun toys and bondage gear you’ll find here. You’ll find information on a wide variety of subjects and items from product usage to specific products and why they might be just what you’re looking for.

Bondage FAQ

Well, here’s a big category and one I’m sure you’ve got some questions on! A lot of what you need to know can be answered by the description of each individual piece or the photo itself (I’m told they’re worth a thousand «Mmmmpphhh’s! *g*). Beyond that, I’m here to offer you my vast (ahem) expertise on these products, all of which I test and many of which I am lucky enough to use on a regular basis! Master is an experienced leather crafter and a lot of the designs you find here are from his fiendish imagination, so we know this stuff literally from start to finish.

Strict Bondage Ratings

What do I look for in a rating: Form, function, softness, snugliness, yumminess, sexiness, friendliness, hugablness, squishiness…oh wait, no…sorry…that’s what I look for in a banker. (or is it?! *wicked grin*) Okay, okay, okay (sticks tongue out in a playful manner…..ohhh…better behave or I’ll be gagged again Master says…hmmm….misbehavin' is just too much fun!)….insert two hour interlude here……

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