Please tell us a little bit about yourself – How would you describe your everyday vanilla life?
My everyday life is pretty average. I am a manager and work constantly. My fiancé and I own our own home. We have 3 dogs and 1 cat who I we love than words!
When did you first realize you were into bondage?
I realized this probably around 13. I remembering reading forums on Myspace centered around kink and bondage and it fascinated me. My interest really peaked around 18 though. I had a boyfriend who was very open to trying new things and we had common interest in bondage/kink.
How you best describe yourself and why? Your choices are: Dominant, Submissive, Switch or Fuzzy Rainbow Unicorn.
Even though I'm a boss in vanilla world, I am submissive on kink world. I also would describe myself as a little somewhat. I don't fully participate but my fiancé and I do have a dd/lg type of relationship.
Do you feel that your desire for bondage is more physical or emotional? (please elaborate)
Usually it is more on the physical side. I like to use bondage as something sexy, fun, and to just have a good time. But Kink has made me very body positive and just genuinely makes me feel good. So it can be somewhat emotional for me too. I like to be able to let go and have someone else take control, that's a really big thing for me.
What does BDSM mean to you: is it a lifestyle, a diversion, or something else?
BDSM is mostly just something I use in the bedroom. My fiancé and I do flirt around the dom/sub relationship outside of the bedroom but mostly it's just in. The things I like to do are very sexually based, but maybe one day I would like to practice more outside of the bedroom. Having a full time dom/sub relationship is something that interests me a lot.
Were lovers accepting of your interest in bondage?
Most of them have been accepting or interested. Surprisingly it has been me who is more interested in BDSM in most of my relationships though!
What is your favorite gear, toy or lingerie item from sub-shop.com and why?
My favorite toy is the 5709RS hot pink locking penis gag! Before shopping here I had never seen gags like those. It's perfect because most ball gags are too big for my mouth and kill my jaw. This one isn't painful but is perfect for that degradation factor and is very very sexy ;)
Is there anything else you would like to share with us such as advice, thoughts or a silly knock-knock jokes? We are all ears and ball gags.
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