Lesbian Guide to Exploring BDSM

Couples of all kinds join the BDSM community. More than a few fetishes and practices are open for everyone to enjoy, regardless of gender and sexual orientation. Lesbian couples who decide to join the BDSM community and indulge in BDSM practices are especially interesting owing to the complexity of this particular group.

Women who are into BDSM have a very open personality and an exceptionally complex sexuality. More often than not, they are willing to experience new fetishes and dive into new sexual encounters. The market provides all kind of supplies, toys and sexual accessories for them to realize any BDSM scene they might want to try. So, if you are in a lesbian relationship, you have no reason to skip this adventure. The only thing you have to do before officially joining the BDSM community is to discuss the details with your partner. Remember, all practices have to be sane, safe and consensual. You have to agree on everything to take place during your BDSM scenes as things can get very intense when you step into this exciting territory. Establishing your roles help as well. One will be the dominatrix while the other is the submissive. Do it by evaluating your sexual relationship and determine who is more active and who takes control often. Once you have these basic details figured out then feel free to indulge in a multitude of practices to help you enjoy your sexuality at different levels.

Strap-on dildos are extremely common among the lesbian community. They are also highly used by BDSM enthusiasts. Usually, the dominatrix uses a strap-on dildo on their submissive. The strap-on dildo will stimulate the wearer as well so the submissive isn’t the only one to enjoy all its benefits. Role playing and crossdressing can also be applied to lesbian BDSM experiences. Even if it is more common for men who enjoy dressing like women, the other way around is equally hot and nothing will stop you from exploring this aspect in a lesbian relationship. You can simulate a lesbian BDSM relationship with a crossdressing man who pretends to be a woman, commonly known as a sissy. The possibilities are endless and the limits are the only ones you establish in your mind. Chastity devices and nipple clamps are also very popular for lesbian BDSM scenes. You can make your submissive female partner endure a lot of pain and pleasure by making them wear nipple clamps to stimulate them sexually when they are not allowed to have an orgasm. The opposite can be done with the use of vibrators and anal toys to extremely stimulate your female partner and make them orgasm one after another. Though it would be apparently against their will, deep down inside they will enjoy every moment because being controlled at this level will turn them on so they reach sexual satisfaction easily and faster.

As long as you and your partner do everything according to the main rules of BDSM, to keep it safe, sane and consensual, then there are no limits to what you can do together. Moreover, your relationship can improve due to these sexual encounters. If you want to experience BDSM at a more intense level and outside your bedroom you might consider joining a BDSM community. More so, if you have an open relationship based on trust and mutual respect, then you will be able to have even more intense sexual experiences by joining other BDSM couples and discovering new sensations you never imagined before. But remember to take it slow. Rest assured, you and your partner will never be bored again as you enjoy your sexual encounters.