Fetishes that won’t work with Hoods

As hot as hoods might be, they are not for everyone and they are not for every type of sex scene. Even if they are among the most popular sexual accessories in the BDSM community, they still have their specific couples that will enjoy hoods more than others! And in order to make the most out of a hood, regardless to the type of hood that you are using, you should make sure that it matches the sex scene that you and your lover are planning to get involved in. If you are a beginner at this type of sexual encounters, you might need to see what works for you before having high expectations because just like any other sexual accessories, using a hood takes some time and experience to get maximum benefits. And to ease your job and save you some time, here are certain situations and fetishes where using a hood would not be recommended! You will thank us later so keep on reading and see what you can choose from it!

1. When you just met a new partner

Meeting a new partner comes along with a lot of excitement and a lot of interest split on both sides involved. But you will not be able to know exactly what their sexual preferences are and you will be aware even less of he fantasies or fetishes that thy might be interested in. Because there are so many things that you don’t know when you just met someone, it might be wiser to not introduce a hood into your first intimate night unless you know for sure that both of you want to give this type of sexual accessory a try and see how much you can enjoy it together. Hoods are specific to people who not only enjoy to experience with the submissive role in the bedroom but they also like to identify themselves with it every now and then. And you don’t know if your new lover is into this type of play just yet so there is no need to rush things before it is the right time for both of you!

2. During a threesome

When it comes to threesomes, opinions regarding using hoods are split and in most cases there are due to the circumstances that such a sex scene takes place at. Some people enjoy having one of the partners wear a hood during a threesome especially if we are talking about the type of sexual dominance and humiliation that BDSM sex scenes encourage. This goes best with impact play sessions so using a paddle or a whip might be a good idea once you introduce a hood in the sexual encounter. Your submissive lover will absolutely like it. However, there are many cases in which hoods are not welcomed in threesomes because it is all about experiencing being with different partners and appreciating them for their qualities, features and identities. Since hoods are notorious for objectifying their users in a hot and sexual way, they might not be the go to sexual accessory for such occasions! But ultimately, it is entirely up to you if and how you are planning to introduce a hood to a threesome. Just make sure that everyone is in accordance with your preferences that way all of you have an amazing time together!

3. During vanilla sex

If you want to experience some vanilla sexual encounter, wearing a hood might not be the best choice to make! Hoods just like gags tend to be specific to BDSM fetishes and in particular to bondage fetishes and fantasies because they can intensify all the sexual activities that take place in such scenarios. This is why wearing a hood in a vanilla sex scene might not have the same effect or even any effect at all. Hoods are not destined to be used in romantic sexual encounters where you want to make love with your partner. So, try your best to adapt the hood to a good situation so that it matches both your desires and your partner’s desires because the ultimate goal is to achieve the right type of pleasure that you are looking for! Talk to your lover beforehand and see if they are interested in trying to wear a hood while you introduce them to your own fantasies. Communication is essential and in most cases, you will be able to identify just the right type of sex scene that you and your lover can enjoy together even if it is not one of the classics. As a matter of fact, using a hood can make a sex scene better or worse depending on how it is used. But when it comes to vanilla sex scenes, it is generally better to avoid wearing hoods!