How to Convince Your Lover to Try Wearing a Hood

If you are interested into adding a hood to your sex life but your lover is not quite there yet, you might need to invest some effort into convincing them. However, if they are interested in the BDSM community already, chances are that they will be very receptive to your suggestion because BDSM couples find it natural to try such sex toys and accessories in order to spice up their intimate life and reach new types of sexual satisfaction. Also, if you are interested in BDSM there are plenty of fantasies and fetishes to try out alone or along with your lover and a hood can successfully be part of them as well as many other sex toys and accessories that you can add to improve the excitement of your sexual encounters. So, here are some good ideas that should help you talk your lover into wearing a hood and actually enjoying it!

1. Buy them several models to try

If you want to really impress your lover you can try to bring more types of hoods to the sex scene that you are planning to enjoy together. Simply be creative and choose different styles of hoods but also different colors while you try to guess which on is your partner’s favourite model. Your chances to succeed are a lot higher if your partner will fall in love with one of the hoods and they will simply want to try it because it looks so hot. And it will also be easier if you have a discussion with your lover beforehand so you can establish what type of path you can take when you introduce your hood to the sexual encounter. Don’t think about it as wasting money on more hoods than you have to because once your lover is into this type of play, you will discover a wide variety of fetishes that you can enjoy together!

2. Create a sex scene for the two of you

If you want your lover to join your sex party, you need to set it up first. So, if you are into using a hood during your sexual encounter, chances are that you might have a scenario in mind already. Gather all the sex toys that you think you will need and make sure that you have everything handy to enjoy the most exciting sex scene. You can have a whip or a paddle or even rope, depending on the type of fetish that you are looking to experience. If you create the right atmosphere, your partner will be more interested in joining you and they will not be as resistant when it comes to wearing one of the hoods that you got for them. You don’t have to set this scene up as a surprise though. If you want, you can talk to your lover before you set everything up and see what they are interested in experiencing. This will help you a lot of time and energy and it will also give you the right idea about what you should invest in when it comes to sex toys and accessories.

3. Play some hoods videos on the background

It is never a bad idea to use erotic videos as a form of stimulation, especially when you want to get things going in a certain direction. So, if you want to introduce a new sex toy or accessory such as a hood, watching some erotic videos is important for your relationship. You don’t have to give those videos complete attention. You can simply let them play on the background as you are trying to please each other and get engaged into an exciting foreplay scene. These videos can be a great source of inspiration and they can be very intense as well. But it all depends not only on the videos that you choose to watch but also on the sex toys that you are using and the type of relationship that you have with your lover.

As you can see, there are many tips and tricks to use when you want to introduce a hood to your sex life. You will need to use your imagination and see what your lover is willing to go along. But whatever you do, keep in mind that everything should be sane, safe and consensual for both you and your lover. You should both enjoy what is going on at all times and if one of you tries to engage into a new sex scene or fetish, it should be discussed beforehand just so you are sure that both of you are comfortable with it! Keep this in mind and adding a hood to your intimate life will be no problem as it can only enhance the relationship you and your lover are having.