Advanced Cock & Ball Tease and Torture Guide
The purpose of any play in the bedroom is pleasure for both Dom/me and sub. The word torture, with respect to BDSM, does not really mean the same kind of pain that a dictionary would lead a person to believe. Of course, levels of pain and torture will vary from couple to couple as people have different tolerance for pain—what feels amazing to one person might be painful to another. The genitals are a super sensitive area of the body, which is why it feels sooo good to play with them. *g* That sensitivity also means that the area is more susceptible to pain, so when we’re playing, it’s important to be safe and go slow so that wonderful tortuous pain can be reached at a pace that feels oh-so-good! With Cock and Ball Tease and Torture, this is especially true. The kinds of activities involved in advanced play with the cock and balls is a not a place to start—remember, take it slow. Besides, you wouldn’t want to miss out on all that beginners’ fun of exploring! *wink*
That said, there are so many fun ways to play with the cock and balls once pain tolerance has been expanding through earlier activities like squeezing, slapping, even whipping and light bondage. The skin on the testicles is sensitive to begin with, but it’s even more sensitive while bound! How exciting! A cock ring, for example, will hold his balls tightly in place (the tighter you go, the more intense the sensations will feel). Pinching his balls with this tightness will deliver some fairly intense pain, so even for all of us advanced cock and ball players, start with a fleshy finger pinch before using the fingernails, just to warm him up. Work your way up in pressure with flesh, then nails and watch him squirm with painful delight! As Dom/me, be very aware of his reactions, because those precious parts of his need to be intact for further, future play…*wink*
For an even stricter ball binding for a truly bad boy, try a ball stretcher. A little pinching with that on will go a long way. And the pinching doesn’t have to stop with fingers! Clamping the testicle skin with a device like the nipple clamp can produce wonderfully torturous results, and leaving them on for a bit will allow your sub to adjust to various pressures further applied to the area. Make sure you start with soft coated clamps the first few times; after a while (or for the heavy pain lovers out there!), a hard clamp will provide a truly intense rush! *g* Be aware, that when removing any clamps from the genitals, your sub will experience a brief but severe pain—in my experience (no lacking in this department…*wink*), the rush that comes from the release is quite worth it to a lot of subs.
With that same chrome ball stretcher I mentioned earlier, and with a lot of cock and ball bondage, there are bolts on either side so that weights can be attached. Not for the faint of heart, especially when heavier weights are applied, but the pain is orgasmic for plenty of male subs, I’ve seen it with my own eyes. Watching him endure it and love it is so arousing for me, too!
And as for the cock, the torture devices can be deliciously strict. I’m a big fan of chastities in all their forms. If bound while soft, it will keep a penis from a full, hard erection—for a naughty sub who needs to learn his lesson, this is a great way to teach him! *g*
Hot wax is another great means of tease and torture to the cock and balls. You can choose between soft and hard wax (hard wax is often much hotter, so perhaps try out soft first before venturing into those more extreme temperatures). Soft wax also molds more easily to the skin, and can be an extremely arousing, erotic experience for any sub. A method I like to use is to first put on a layer of soft wax and then begin with layers of hotter, hard wax, which will be felt through the first layer to continue torturing your sub. *g*
After all this talk, I bet you’re ready to get your sub in gear for some serious cock and ball torture (but don’t forget to tease him a little in the process)! The pleasure and pain you deliver will leave him screaming…for more! *g*
