Must Haves If You Are Interested in Bondage Fantasies
Bondage games tend to be extremely popular, especially among couples who are interested in BDSM sex scenes. But unlike other fetishes, you need specific sex toys and tools and even certain accessories in order to perform a hot sexual encounter based on bondage. There’s plenty of situations in which you can use your imagination and creative skills to create a great and realistic sex scene. But in most cases, you will need some basic toys to enjoy such an experience to its highest standards. Here’s what you need to consider investing in, when you want to experience a bondage sex scene with your partner and why these toys could make the difference for you!
1. Mouth gags
Mouth gags are popular for a wide variety of sex scenes, and not only those based on BDSM fetishes. You can use mouth gags during a vanilla sex scene or a medical play scene and have the same intense effect. However, when it comes to bondage scenes, you should definitely consider using such a gag for your slave. On top of the fact that their body is restricted, they will lose the ability to have an opinion as well. This can be a great turn on for the dominant partner as well, not just for the submissive one. As a mistress or master, you will feel that your dominance over your lover is complete and you will be able to reach intense sexual pleasure thanks to this feeling.
2. Impact play toys
Impact play toys are very common in the BDSM realm and they can be used during foreplay but also during intense bondage scenes. While your lover is restrained in a form that both of you are comfortable with, bring your favourite paddle, whip or flogger and discipline them. You can choose to use other toys if you want to sexually stimulate your slave, but in most cases, impact play is a sure way to reach an orgasm for both of you. There is something extremely hot and exciting about spanking or whipping a partner while they have their body wrapped in a tight way so they lack control completely. Make sure you have a safe word or a safe action in place for such a scene though. It is important to be able to stop things as soon as one of you is not comfortable with what is going on. And such a word will change the course of events every time is used, without stopping the excitement of the sex scene. However, if you and your lover are not new to this type of play and if you are aware of each other’s sexual preferences, the safe word might not be as necessary.
3. Restrain systems
The main idea of bondage is restrain. Therefore, you will need to make sure that your submissive partner is nicely restrained during such a scene. The sexiest you make the entire scene look like, the more intense visual satisfaction you and your lover will have. You can choose to wrap their body with tape, restrain them with rope or use body harnesses. And all these tools are designed especially for bondage scenes which is why you can count on them and rely on their effects every time you use them. Talk to your lover before the scene starts and choose a bondage method that will be a turn on not just for you but for them as well. Here is where you can also improvise, especially if you don’t have the right tape or rope or the one you have is not long enough for the type of restrain that you want to perform. You can adapt and still make a hot sex scene as long as you use your imagination. What you need to pay attention to is safety! Regardless to the restrain option you choose, it has to be safe for everyone involved so don’t compromise when it comes to safety aspects. And as long as everything that happens is safe, sane and consensual, you will feel comfortable and satisfied during such a bondage sex scene.
As you can see, when it comes to experiencing a hot bondage scene, the sky is the limit. You can reach intense orgasms and sexual satisfaction by simply using the right tools and sex toys and using you imagination as well. A good communication between you and your lover will show you just how you can make the most out of such a scene for everyone involved in it. And if you feel like spicing things up even more, add some dirty talk or verbal humiliation, to the point that both of you enjoy it and find that it turns you on.
