Beginner’s Guide to Strapless Dildo Sex

As they say: everything is better strapless. When it comes to dildos, sometimes strapless really is the best option. A strapless dildo is exactly what it sounds like, a dildo without the traditional harness. It stays in place because the woman is wearing it. Let me explain this in detail. For instance, one end of the strapless strap on is inserted into the woman’s vagina, while the other end is ready to penetrate her partner.

Strapless dildos are available for women and men. The ones made for women have two ends; the shorter end has a small curve so it can be inserted into the vagina. The idea is for the woman to use her pelvic floor muscles to keep the dildo in place while she is penetrating her partner.

Its use will depend on the person wearing it. Some people can wear it without problems and enjoy it. But it doesn’t work for others as they simply don’t feel comfortable with it inside their body. So, this kind of strap on is great for those who want something inside them. But you should know this sort of strap on dildos offer a great shape for clitoral stimulation while the wearer penetrates someone else, so this is definitely a bonus for women. Keep in mind the traditional strap on harnesses will need an added bullet vibrator or vibrating egg for this extra benefit and sensation. Oh! And it can also be super arousing to know the other end of the dildo penetrating you is inside your partner wink*

But if this sounds scary to you, then you can always use Kegel exercises to strengthen those muscles. You can practice with some ben wa balls before going all the way with a dildo. A lot of women find they can’t really hold it in place and penetrate someone at the same time. This may be especially difficult if the woman gets too wet. Obviously, a slippery environment is not suited to hold something properly. For this reason, you will probably need some extra help with it by way of strengthening those pelvic muscles. As a general rule, the stronger the muscles are the better the chances the dildo will stay where it should be.

Sometimes the best way to do it is for the woman to lie down on her back with her thighs close together so her partner can climb on top and ride her. Another option is for her to hold her legs together and explore the different positions available with the legs clamped. Obviously, she can always try positions with her knees and legs separated if she can. Keep in mind those positions with the legs closed will definitely be easier if you have trouble maintaining the dildo in place. But if after exercise and the leg closed positions you are still unable to keep the dildo on, remember, there is no shame in getting the regular version. As with so many things in life not everything will be for everyone, so get the traditional strap on harness.

When it comes to strapless dildos for men, the idea is for the man to put his penis inside a curved hole. He can choose the dildo to penetrate a partner or use it for masturbation, whatever he wants to do.

As for the shapes and colors, you can find a huge variety out there. You can find them in natural colors or something more out there like red, pink or purple. Some imitate the exact shape of the penis, while others are less realistic and simply mimic their general shape.