Autumn's Bondage 101: How to Choose the Right Dildo Harness

Choosing a harness is a very important process. Just like choosing a house, a car…a dildo, wink*. Usually, the man or woman using the dildo will choose their own preferred piece because, well, they are the ones that will be penetrated with it. So with that logic in mind, choosing a harness is a task for those who will be wearing it.

The most important thing when it comes to getting a harness is to choose one you feel comfortable in. This means it should fit you perfectly and should also adapt to your preferences. A harness that is too tight can cut right into your skin, so that’s definitely a no. On the other hand, if your harness is too big it will slip down and you won’t be able to penetrate your partner. Be careful when you choose the size, almost all of the harnesses are measured by the circumference of the waist. If it’s an adjustable harness or one with a lot of stretch, it will fit for a larger variety.

Most harnesses are made of leather and nylon. Nylon is usually cheaper than leather, so keep that in mind when you’re looking to get a harness. There is another variety that is made of plastic and PVC, but it can irritate the skin of some people, so be careful.

These are the most popular models you can find out there:

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  Corset style: These harnesses have straps that tie at the sides or at the back, just like a regular corset. They tend to look really nice and sexy because they bring to mind that popular lingerie piece.

• Two strap style: The two-strap harness has one strap that goes around your waits and another strap that goes between your legs. It’s kind of like a G-string and sometimes it’s referred to as a G-string harness.

• Three-strap/jock style: This harness has a strap around the waist and loops where each leg goes.

• Lingerie style: This type is made out of soft materials and fabrics and they are usually the most comfortable of the bunch. They come in different underwear styles like briefs, bikinis or boxers.