Meet Harl

Please tell us a little bit about yourself – How would you describe your everyday vanilla life?

I work in dietary at a hospital. I work a lot, but on days off I play videogames.

When did you first realize you were into bondage?

Tiny toon adventures when Babs bunny would get tied up or mummified.

How you best describe yourself? Your choices are: Dominant, Submissive, Switch or Fuzzy Rainbow Unicorn. Please explain your choice.

Submissive and definitely a brat.

Do you feel that your desire for bondage is more physical or emotional? (please elaborate) a bit of both.

Sure it gives me a sexual thrill, but it also seems to quiet my busy stressful mind.

What does BDSM mean to you: is it a lifestyle, a diversion, or something else?

I consider it a lifestyle, one that I have tasted and hope to find the right person to have the keys.

What was your best bondage experience?

When I was able to be mummified and had a magic wand used on me with a pump gags.

What do you feel is most important about the experience of bondage?

The trust building.

What is the best advice you would give to someone just starting out with BDSM?

Research as much and often as you can. Don't rush into any scenes or relations until you feel comfortable enough.

What is your favorite gear, toy or lingerie item from Sub-Shop.com and why?

I love my locking ballgag and cuff set.

What is the one sensual fantasy you haven’t lived out yet that you are excited to try?

Car rides in bondage and being led around in public.

How do you feel about the return of the 90‘sMullet Hair Style?  Are you for or against and why?

Omg eww. Totally against.

Is there anything else you would like to share with us such as advice, thoughts or goofy knock-knock jokes? We are all ears and ball gags.