3 Tricks to Mix Romance with BDSM
BDSM can offer a wide variety of sexual fetishes and fantasies for you and your lover to enjoy every time you are planning an intense sexual encounter. You can also take pleasure in sex games. Just remember to mix them in with the right amount of romance to entertain both the physical and emotional aspects of your relationship.
While it is nice to focus on sexual pleasure and satisfaction, bear in mind, you also need to entertain the intimate level of your relationship to prevent the chances of an emotional gap between you and your partner. Unless you only enjoy your BDSM fantasies as a sexual affair with no emotional connection and treat it as a hot sport sex encounter.
Even so, here are some ideas to help you entertain both the emotional and physical aspects of your relationship while diving into BDSM practices. These will get you going on the right path and help you have a happy and healthy relationship for many years to come!
1. Wear a sexy outfit
Your appearance has a lot to do with the "flavor” of your sexual encounters. While your naked self is your most attractive image in the eyes of your lover, wearing sexy and exciting outfits before you get undressed will increase their sexual curiosity and desire. Wear sexy lingerie or an outfit suited to the roleplay scenario to stimulate your lover visually before trying any other form of stimulation.
The market offers a variety of costumes you can wear to make your sex scenes even more realistic. So, besides your naughty sex toys and accessories such as handcuffs or chastity devices, pay attention to the details of your overall image because it is an important aspect of all BDSM fetishes and fantasies. Your lover will appreciate seeing the effort you put into seducing them so you can expect to have a memorable intense sexual encounter you will remember for years to come.
2. Set up the atmosphere
The atmosphere during an intense sexual fetish or fantasy is very important and can contribute a great deal to the success of the BDSM scene. Mixing your naughty fetishes with your romantic side can make your lover feel both appreciated and controlled at the same time. Scented candles as well as a sexy music played in the background are great touches when you want to set up a passionate mood.
These details will give everything a romantic flavor plus stimulate your senses in a new and intense way. As a couple, you will feel more intimate with each other and develop a stronger emotional bond during your hot fetishes no matter how intense they might get. You can even create such a setting during edge play and enjoy its positive touch on the entire sexual encounter!
3. Take breaks of passionate kissing
Passionate kissing is always a good idea regardless of the type of sexual encounter you plan to have with your lover. You can make it part of your foreplay or take breaks during sexual intercourse to kiss your partner to make them feel your love and passion!
If you are into a kinky BDSM scene, a passionate kiss might also be a form of reward for your submissive lover after they have offered you a great deal of sexual satisfaction. Remember to include your partner’s body and erogenous zones if you want to give them even more sexual pleasure and help them reach an intense form of climax!
