The Secret to a More Exciting Sex Life

Before diving into sexual relationships with one or more partners and being open about your sexuality by engaging in certain fetishes, you should know yourself well enough to find the type of gratification that will make you happy.

Understanding your own sexual identity is important not only for personal reasons but also because it can affect those who share sexual experiences with you. If you're in tune with your personal wants and desires - knowing what turns you on - then you'll attract compatible people who feel similarly when it comes to sex.

This is crucial for maintaining a healthy relationship and an adventurous sex life. Let's take a look at how to discover these things about yourself so that they may be pursued accordingly.

Masturbate

Masturbation is a great way to get to know your sexuality and find out what your preferences are. You can have multiple orgasms while you give yourself some intense pleasure and discover what triggers those orgasms and what makes your heart beat faster.

This way, you will know what to expect from your sex partners and how to get it. No one can offer you the sexual satisfaction you need if you don’t know what you need to have an intense orgasm. So, relax and put on sexy music while you touch yourself in the most intimate way!

Explore new sex toys and accessories

New sex toys and accessories come out every year. You have a lot of options to choose from when you want to indulge in some new sexual sensations. You don’t have to be in a relationship to try them and you don’t have to depending on someone else either.

You can try how nipple clamps make you feel while you stimulate your genitalia or you can wear an anal plug to get an idea about anal sex and how much you can actually enjoy it. Orgasm belts and different dildos will also give you an idea of how much sexual satisfaction you can have during an orgasm control sex scene.

Watch erotic videos

Watching erotic videos of all kinds is a great way for you to get self-educated sexually. You can relate (or not) to the sexual practices you see in the videos and imagine how much you would like to give them a try. Sometimes, erotic videos are a great source of ideas for many sexual encounters you can potentially have in the future.

It will make you release your inhibitions and live your fantasies in a more intense and exciting way. This is why enjoying some erotic videos while you are alone can help you discover new levels of your own sexuality and reach new sexual satisfaction. If you end up indulging in a session of intense masturbation, even better! So, relax and enjoy the view!

Once you know your sexual self you will also be more confident in yourself and you will be ready to impress your future partners. Not to mention how much fun it can be to discover your new sexual fetishes before you share them with your partner or partners.

Also, getting to know your sexual self is not a one time thing. It is an ongoing process you can indulge in every now and then to keep up with your desires and get in touch with your deepest fantasies. The only thing you need to worry is if you lack sexual fantasies and you can’t find the right fetishes to turn you on enough to reach an intense climax.

But with everything else, feel free to explore every aspect of your sexuality in every way you can and make it part of the sexual energy you bring into your relationships.